Is this love? - Page 4

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Very true i totally agree

Ima and maan were soulmates. That kind of love is all consuming. I feel hanuman loves bab like a partner a person who gives him care comfort and love. Maybe not the all consuming but something that is comforting. The one thing that attracts him more is perhaps mini. The daughter he wish he had. The person in whom he seems bit of himself and imarti. The person who has the guts to stand for what is right. He feels mini needs some discipline and anger management but at the core she is a person of principle a person who has guts to stand for what is right

I am sorry but i am totally disappointed with bab. It is ok not to stand by as a future partner that can be revisited since he tried to hit below the belt. But not to stand by as a friend is unforgivable esp since that friend has always been your rock come what may. I feel like many she is a weak person who runs away from situations.

He loves her first as his daughter's mother and then as a lover. I don't think he should be judged for feeling this way.

For me the most important thing is that he never made Babita any promises or commitments that he reneged on. A lot of it was unspoken as he himself has often been unsure about how to proceed.

This track also shows me that Babita is not really over her past. She is still insecure and afraid to trust. Meeta's influence can still be seen.

I agree with you Peace_maker. I don’t like watching the series anymore I enjoyed the Hanita love story, the most. It was going so well until this OTT twist. I won’t be surprised if in their pursuit for TRP the makers bring in back-from-dead child called Jalebi!

I agree... Every stage in your life expectations from your partner change. Some basic things will remain but certain things do change

I have personal experience in this. I am at a stage in life where ny partner is a great provider. But not yet has that understanding that my bff or bro has about how i think and feel.

I have a high level of tolerance for nonsense but will never take shit beyond a point. My husband is a diplomat and i am a muphat sometimes in social situations i feel stiffled and need space

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I agree... Every stage in your life expectations from your partner change. Some basic things will remain but certain things do change

I have personal experience in this. I am at a stage in life where ny partner is a great provider. But not yet has that understanding that my bff or bro has about how i think and feel.

I have a high level of tolerance for nonsense but will never take shit beyond a point. My husband is a diplomat and i am a muphat sometimes in social situations i feel stiffled and need space

Honestly i feel this court case was needed to bring out the side of people around HS.

Will they stand by him despite all proofs will they believe in his truth. Sometimes things need to be completely in the open and see where everyone stands in your life. So as to know whom u can count on. You may love all in family but you know who will stand by u when chips are down who will confront u or make u confront with the truth yet stand by u when u pick up the pieces. It does not mean the rest of family is not imp.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Honestly i feel this court case was needed to bring out the side of people around HS.

Will they stand by him despite all proofs will they believe in his truth. Sometimes things need to be completely in the open and see where everyone stands in your life. So as to know whom u can count on. You may love all in family but you know who will stand by u when chips are down who will confront u or make u confront with the truth yet stand by u when u pick up the pieces. It does not mean the rest of family is not imp.

I completely agree with this. Sometimes things need to hit rock bottom so that the only way is up. How you do that, who stands with you, and in what manner shows you their (and your) true nature.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But why, Padma? What was it that made you start feeling this way?

I think a whole lot of the reasons have already been stated.

She has started to really annoy me too. She is so wishy washy, so undecided, so self-centered, so incapable of putting two and two together and so not able to go beyond and beneath appearances and spoken words.

The rest I have already explained. Her not standing with him now, her doubting him, brandishing the world culpable homicide is revolting and unacceptable.

On top of everything else even after so long, neither of them has taken the first move to express their love openly and be done with it.

There is total lack of understanding of the man from her side.

As a result I just don;t find Hanita exciting or viable or interesting any more and that makes me really sad because I love hanuman singh and want him to be happy. If she loved him half as much she would also want him to be happy but all she can think of is I, me, myself and cooking.😭

Do I make sense Jean or do I sound like a neurotic wreck?🤣

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I think a whole lot of the reasons have already been stated.

She has started to really annoy me too. She is so wishy washy, so undecided, so self-centered, so incapable of putting two and two together and so not able to go beyond and beneath appearances and spoken words.

The rest I have already explained. Her not standing with him now, her doubting him, brandishing the world culpable homicide is revolting and unacceptable.

On top of everything else even after so long, neither of them has taken the first move to express their love openly and be done with it.

There is total lack of understanding of the man from her side.

As a result I just don;t find Hanita exciting or viable or interesting any more and that makes me really sad because I love hanuman singh and want him to be happy. If she loved him half as much she would also want him to be happy but all she can think of is me, my, myself and cooking.😭

Do I make sense Jean or do I sound like a neurotic wreck?🤣

As per current spoiler if that's true then you will love babita😊, lets wait n watch I m excited strong babita lashing out at hanuman to tell truth

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I think a whole lot of the reasons have already been stated.

She has started to really annoy me too. She is so wishy washy, so undecided, so self-centered, so incapable of putting two and two together and so not able to go beyond and beneath appearances and spoken words.

The rest I have already explained. Her not standing with him now, her doubting him, brandishing the world culpable homicide is revolting and unacceptable.

On top of everything else even after so long, neither of them has taken the first move to express their love openly and be done with it.

There is total lack of understanding of the man from her side.

As a result I just don;t find Hanita exciting or viable or interesting any more and that makes me really sad because I love hanuman singh and want him to be happy. If she loved him half as much she would also want him to be happy but all she can think of is me, my, myself and cooking.😭

Do I make sense Jean or do I sound like a neurotic wreck?🤣

You make absolute sense. I am actually feeling that HS is indeed too good for her, she really is unworthy of him, at least in this state. Just because Ashok betrayed her doesn't mean that she carries that burden forward and behaves as if she is entitled to HS' love by default or does not even try to understand his connection to his past. Relationships need work and I am currently not seeing much of it from her. It's totally up to her if she wants to pursue this or not, but I want it to be aar ya paar for her too. No more giving mixed signals.

I also feel that even if HS has been extremely patient with her, he is reaching a point where he is fed up of what she's doing (or not doing). He's a human being, not a saint, which is what makes him so real and relatable. He deserves to be happy but maybe Babita really is not the right person for him. It was fine all this time when he was loving her from a distance but now that there is a window to heart that's opened, he is seeing that things are not so hunky dory in daylight. He deserves much better and I'd rather he remain alone than tie himself to a woman who can truly never match up to what he needs. He gives, and gives, and gives, and goes above and beyond his means for her. In her case, I sometimes feel she extends a hand but if it's just out of reach, she doesn't take a step forward to get to it.

The writers never do anything accidentally or just for the sake of it, so Babita's behavior here is not a one-off or "mistake" in scripting. This is consistent with her nature. I don't know if I can find it acceptable if she suddenly starts using her common sense and shows her belief in him or starts to support him. It would not work for me to see her do a 180.

Not all love stories end up with two people living together happily ever after. I am actually now leaning towards them remaining very good friends who have strong feelings for each other but choose not to act upon, perhaps remaining co-parents to Minnie.

Sorry if I sound harsh but I am also disappointed for HS. He has been through enough. No more, no more. She hurt him when he needed her the most, as a friend, as a potential lover. I don't know how she can redeem herself in my eyes after this.

Originally posted by: riti4u

As per current spoiler if that's true then you will love babita😊, lets wait n watch I m excited strong babita lashing out at hanuman to tell truth

I don't know if I will be able to accept her about turn now. But then again it's true to her nature, she lashes out, hurts him, then does a u-turn.

Can't work like that all the time.