My house, my life, my wish - a brilliant episode!

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It was an intelligently composed episode. The way they layered emotions, dialogues, background music and comic timing is worthy of an applause. I expected the episode to be heavy but it was not. Great work team.

Hanuman is right. Everything is really complicated. He told Mini about Babita's past and her thought process but what about his own self? That is the moment I realized that however confident and expressive Hanuman is on the outside, he is a really defensive man on the inside. He does not want to talk about his life, his past and his emotions. A lot of hard work is needed in this department.

He wants Babita to open up and confess her feelings. I will agree with him on that point but hey wait what did he just say after that? "Chhori jaisa chal Raha hai chalne de ... Woh ek chhat ke neeche Rehne ko kehte hai naa live in relationship." I thought Hanuman knew better than that. 😆

I realized that Hanuman Singh functions on two levels - a part of him which is living in the present wants Babita to communicate in a better way and other part of him lives in the past where Imarti meant the world to him.

So Babita makes an innocent attempt of getting a bottle and making him drink in order to not make him drink! This is the absolute contrast between Babita and Imarti, if it would have been Imarti in Babita's place she would have broken the alcohol bottle straight away by hitting it on Hanuman's head.

I was actually very pleasantly surprised when Mini said "Ghar mein do do daaru baaz, guys don't you think I deserve better parents." This makes me believe that she is not going to give up on her parents even if they give up on themselves.

The fight between Hanuman and Babita made me see the potential they hold as a couple but it is strongly evident that both of them are on two different pages in the book of love and life. Hanuman easily gets offended by Babita because she wants to step in his personal space but has not let him step closer to her yet.

He wants her to communicate whether it is about all the problems she has with him or about Meeta or about anything else and she wants him to understand like he has always understood in other matters. Babita is mistaken here because these are the matters of heart.

The whole tying the hair and then tying the duppata and then provoking Hanuman into 'I am saying don't drink so don't drink' stint was so naive. She expects him to listen to her and obey her but that is not going to happen because the chivalrous police officer and the vulnerable loner are two different people and she does not realize it yet.

She makes the effort but ends up pushing the wrong buttons. "Agar Imarti ji hoti to" - I guess this is not the first time she has taken Imarti's name in such a way. I would want to see her stand in front of him, look into his eyes and speak like Babita because she is Babita and not Imarti.

"Woh Imarti thi." He says steps backwards and leaves her in tears. He is correct , Babita is a weak person to handle a wildfire like Hanuman after all. It will take sometime for her to realize that. He ends up drinking, She does not have a hold over him. She is not going to have it until she decides to step up and look into Hanuman for who he really is - a man with scars, burns, aches and open wounds.

The precap gives it right away - Hanuman Singh has to move on in life and it is what this arch is all about.

Sir Saab ki bhashan mein bole toh 'Bawlo se bhaari mistake ho rahi hai' but can I say that even when both of them are making mistakes they are not at fault. It is her life's first ever love for Babita where she knows that she is important for him and has a lot of expectations out of him. About Hanuman, he is living a struggle of his own. Torn between stepping forward towards Babita or living with Imarti's memories.

Hanuman knows the whole and soul of Babita. She has begun to have a taste of the real world just now. She is picking and wrapping happiness in her heart from the embroidered night skies and the dew of early morning flowers. He knows that for her he means happiness but he also knows that she won't be able to take it when he burns in agony and heartache. The harshness of his words can make her shiver forget about the time when his anger can set ablaze her life. He will not do this to her.

The mature man in him wants Babita to take the first step. Fine, but even if she does so the tinkling of Imarti's Bangles will keep replaying in his mind on loop. It is indeed going to be difficult for Hanuman.

Babita on the other hand had said "Woh bhi kaha Kuch kehte hai." I am waiting for the moments when Mini will realize that there is no point rushing because more severe problems have to be dealt with. Right now, Babita is developing feelings for the gentleman that he is for the world but will she be able to accept the volatile and vulnerable beast in him. That my friends we will have to wait and watch!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Amazing episode. It was a very vulnerable episode in terms of confession. I actually understood these two are deeply in love with each other and can't live without the other. Will really look forward to how the episodes are going to be this month

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There's so much I want to say about today's episode but I loved this post of yours so had to comment right away. It was indeed a brilliantly put together episode with everything in perfect balance.

It's as we have been saying, it's "too early" for Babita in the journey to be able to deal with him. There's a side to him she does not know because she has inadvertently but the boundaries between them that he does not cross. She only sees things superficially and will need to go deeper if she wants to make any progress. Their fight at the door and the points they brought up summed it all for me (it was a brilliant piece, by the way).

She has to deal with him as Babita and not as Imarti, so trying to do what Imarti would is not going to work. She will have to find her own way and this is part of her establishing her rule over his heart by making her own place with her own identity. She's still learning and she going to be hurt along the way.

HS knew he hurt her today and was going to if these topics came up, so escaping the house with bottle in hand was all he could do. That's what the warning against playing with fire was all about. Since she wouldn't stop, he knew that as the mature one, he had to.

He must have had stubborn traits that Imarti could handle but as you said "Babita is a weak person to handle a wildfire like Hanuman after all." She is still naive about many things, including love and romance, because she is looking at the brighter side of life, understandably. He does not want to burst her bubble yet and is happy with the status quo for now.

We also got a glimpse of just how much passion and fire he still has for Imarti so I am expecting fireworks in the flashbacks. I fell in love with Aniruddh's performance all over again today.

What did Babita mean by "badi bahaduri dikha di Minnie ke saamne, zara sa bhi contol nahi hota apse"? The hand grabbing, the drinking, or what he was saying about fire?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Amazing episode. It was a very vulnerable episode in terms of confession. I actually understood these two are deeply in love with each other and can't live without the other. Will really look forward to how the episodes are going to be this month

Trust me they are gonna be amazing ... Everyone is going to get their share of love.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: inlieu

There's so much I want to say about today's episode but I loved this post of yours so had to comment right away. It was indeed a brilliantly put together episode with everything in perfect balance.

It's as we have been saying, it's "too early" for Babita in the journey to be able to deal with him. There's a side to him she does not know because she has inadvertently but the boundaries between them that he does not cross. She only sees things superficially and will need to go deeper if she wants to make any progress. Their fight at the door and the points they brought up summed it all for me (it was a brilliant piece, by the way).

She has to deal with him as Babita and not as Imarti, so trying to do what Imarti would is not going to work. She will have to find her own way and this is part of her establishing her rule over his heart by making her own place with her own identity. She's still learning and she going to be hurt along the way.

HS knew he hurt her today and was going to if these topics came up, so escaping the house with bottle in hand was all he could do. That's what the warning against playing with fire was all about. Since she wouldn't stop, he knew that as the mature one, he had to.

He must have had stubborn traits that Imarti could handle but as you said "Babita is a weak person to handle a wildfire like Hanuman after all." She is still naive about many things, including love and romance, because she is looking at the brighter side of life, understandably. He does not want to burst her bubble yet and is happy with the status quo for now.

We also got a glimpse of just how much passion and fire he still has for Imarti so I am expecting fireworks in the flashbacks. I fell in love with Aniruddh's performance all over again today.

What did Babita mean by "badi bahaduri dikha di Minnie ke saamne, zara sa bhi contol nahi hota apse"? The hand grabbing, the drinking, or what he was saying about fire?

I feel it was in the context of him pulling Babita close to him. Actually the scene was supposed to be intense one but our over thinking ruined the intensity and we aren't able to connect. Otherwise even Mini found that intense and called Nayeem bi soon after seeing them!!

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I feel it was in the context of him pulling Babita close to him. Actually the scene was supposed to be intense one but our over thinking ruined the intensity and we aren't able to connect. Otherwise even Mini found that intense and called Nayeem bi soon after seeing them!!

What does it have to do with bahaduri? Was she referring to what she overhead Lala and him saying about not having enough courage to speak to Babita about his feelings?

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Today I felt again the pain of HS losing his wife, I felt his helplessness (he drinks to hide his pain but he knows its bad also), and I felt the passion in his voice when he spoke to Babes about leaving well enough alone

What I kind of didnt get was Minnies reaction...she seemed embarrassed and was kind of shocked..? I thought she would be upset. Then Babes responds with the whole, well now youve done it ...hope your happy about this and that in front of Minnie (Cant remember exact lines).

Can anyone break that scene down for me? Bit confused. Did I miss something? Did Minnie find the scene "sexy" as in something she reads in her romance novels?

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Originally posted by: inlieu

First of all Hi! 🤗

There's so much I want to say about today's episode but I loved this post of yours so had to comment right away. It was indeed a brilliantly put together episode with everything in perfect balance.

It's as we have been saying, it's "too early" for Babita in the journey to be able to deal with him. There's a side to him she does not know because she has inadvertently but the boundaries between them that he does not cross. She only sees things superficially and will need to go deeper if she wants to make any progress. Their fight at the door and the points they brought up summed it all for me (it was a brilliant piece, by the way).

Yes! Babita had conciously set boundaries which he will not cross but even if he let her close to him ... He wont reveal himself in front of her ... As I said ... He will hold his defenses.

She has to deal with him as Babita and not as Imarti, so trying to do what Imarti would is not going to work. She will have to find her own way and this is part of her establishing her rule over his heart by making her own place with her own identity. She's still learning and she going to be hurt along the way.

She is definitely going to get hurt because it is not as easy as it seems. If I word it correctly 'Usse pyaar Karne ke saath saath pyaar nibahna bhi seekhna padega'

HS knew he hurt her today and was going to if these topics came up, so escaping the house with bottle in hand was all he could do. That's what the warning against playing with fire was all about. Since she wouldn't stop, he knew that as the mature one, he had to.

Thank God he just left. I can imagine Babita's reaction had he continued the conversation.

He must have had stubborn traits that Imarti could handle but as you said "Babita is a weak person to handle a wildfire like Hanuman after all." She is still naive about many things, including love and romance, because she is looking at the brighter side of life, understandably. He does not want to burst her bubble yet and is happy with the status quo for now.

Imarti was a very strong woman in all the ways she lived her life. Hanuman loves both of them for different reasons but right now it's messed up in his heart.

We also got a glimpse of just how much passion and fire he still has for Imarti so I am expecting fireworks in the flashbacks. I fell in love with Aniruddh's performance all over again today.

Anirudh is a true artist. About his feelings for Imarti ... With flashbacks I want to see how Babita takes it.

What did Babita mean by "badi bahaduri dikha di Minnie ke saamne, zara sa bhi contol nahi hota apse"? The hand grabbing, the drinking, or what he was saying about fire?

Okay so as you said she is living in a bubble which Hanuman doesn't want to burst ... This is one such example. Babita is looking at the whole scenario with rose tinted glasses. She is happy thinking Haveli is her home and the three of them live like a family. Because of which she has expectations out of him and wants him to confess.

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Originally posted by: inlieu

What does it have to do with bahaduri? Was she referring to what she overhead Lala and him saying about not having enough courage to speak to Babita about his feelings?

No No

She didnt hear their conversation I guess.. They were both talking chup chup ke 😆

Bahaduri was for his act of grabbing Babita closer to him.

I think writers wanted to make it romantic and intense but we found this different due to misleading precap. So it might be actually intense and we couldnt see that way 🤔

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Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Today I felt again the pain of HS losing his wife, I felt his helplessness (he drinks to hide his pain but he knows its bad also), and I felt the passion in his voice when he spoke to Babes about leaving well enough alone

What I kind of didnt get was Minnies reaction...she seemed embarrassed and was kind of shocked..? I thought she would be upset. Then Babes responds with the whole, well now youve done it ...hope your happy about this and that in front of Minnie (Cant remember exact lines).

Can anyone break that scene down for me? Bit confused. Did I miss something? Did Minnie find the scene "sexy" as in something she reads in her romance novels?

To her friends mini said "I deserve better parents" and to Naeem bi she called and said "In dono ki Shaadi karwaani hai". In her head everything and everyone is happy. Hanuman Uncle loves babes and babes loves him too ... So she thinks that it is pretty straight forward that they will come together. The little girl doesn't realize that it's not that simple.

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