My house, my life, my wish - a brilliant episode! - Page 4

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

He did say it indirectly to her once when he told her, "Aap ko kissi se na compare kar saku."

Given what happened today, I appreciate HS all the more because he knows exactly what position each of these women hold in his life. Imarti Imarti thi aur Babita Babita. Yes, at one point he may seen glimpses of Imarti in Babita because of their similar actions but in due time he came to realize that they are two completely different women. They're not interchangeable and he will never even dare to dream of doing such a thing.

Also, Babes can't use Imarti as a way of nestling her way into HS' heart or life. If she wants to solidify her position, then she has to do things on her own. She can't use Imarti's support or behave in a way that she would have.

BINGOOO!

He had also said sab kuch aap hi ka toh hai

Also, I need to know what insecurities HS has about himself and his Haveli. Why does he start acting like a kid when people try to boss over him? Almost like he's too afraid to lose himself and listen to others in the process. I've observed with Naim Bi also. He doesn't like getting bossed over, he's afraid.

And Imarti's mention triggered him off, so much, that even if he never intended to drink, he drank just to defy her understanding that he'll listen to her.

Originally posted by: inlieu

They say with great power comes great responsibility, and Babita can't have power without learning to use it responsibly.

It is going to be tough for her as this time even Mini cannot help her in making any decisions. She has to learn and she has to reach out to Hanuman . For a woman as naive and innocent as Babita, dealing with Hanuman is going to become a big life lesson.

HS would give it to her if he felt that she was in the right space at the right time. She is not. Also, her emotions are all over the place and he knows that she is not very good at controlling them, hence her tendency to do things in a haphazard way.

Hanuman knows that if Babita falls apart he can handle her but if he falls apart she won't be able to do it. She needs to work hard to gain his trust and confidence.

Also, I think he wants her to realize that half measures won't work. IF she wants the right to have a say in his life, it would have be all the way, and would have to be reciprocal, give and take. I am actually really really pleased to see a ML that stands up for his right to expect happiness in his own terms, that he isn't going to be a mindless, selfless lover who lets a woman take him for granted and keeps giving him mixed signals.

Such a male lead is a 'HERO' in real terms. Trust me all the selfless lovers on TV might get jealous of him. What makes me the happiest in this equation is the fact that it's crystal clear to Hanuman that he loves her but he won't be able to let his gaurd down because she is not ready yet. With saying it to Mini he has made it clear that Babita will have to earn it from him.

@cinnamon_kisses yes he needs to let go.. he loves both the women but when u carry ur past as a painful memory u wont be able to embrace ur present wholeheartedly.. thats exactly what he is doing he doesnt need to forget imarti just carry her in his heart as his beautiful past.. nd i think it can only happen when he understand that he is not guilty in any case regarding his mother his wife or the unborn child.. he is a very very good human being so it ll be quite difficult nd only babita can help him with this bcz she truly loves him nd is equally a good nd honest person at heart..

Originally posted by: inlieu

This is why NB was trying to explain to HS in one of the BTS videos at her house that a woman can share everything but not her love. He has to eventually clarify what he meant.

He needs to clarify

And she needs to give him haq. It's almost on her mood. In some days she's all invading the space mode and some she's like don't invade mine. This won't work.

HS was right. She has to let him in first.

And that convo with Mini. How deep his love runs and how deeply he understands her! I was in awe. There is no room for any MUs, they're in sync except for Babita misinterpreting Imarti for time being.

Originally posted by: rr66

@cinnamon_kisses yes he needs to let go.. he loves both the women but when u carry ur past as a painful memory u wont be able to embrace ur present wholeheartedly.. thats exactly what he is doing he doesnt need to forget imarti just carry her in his heart as his beautiful past.. nd i think it can only happen when he understand that he is not guilty in any case regarding his mother his wife or the unborn child.. he is a very very good human being so it ll be quite difficult nd only babita can help him with this bcz she truly loves him nd is equally a good nd honest person at heart..

Very correctly said. Hanuman has been holding on too tight to his past and he holds himself responsible for whatever happened with Imarti. Babita needs to become stronger to make him understand that nothing was his fault. Time will heal everything.

Babita needs to get inside his heart. Quite literally and figure out what he actually feels and then rectify it and soothe him. He's in too much pain and no one has a slight hint except NB or Lala.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

He needs to clarify

And she needs to give him haq. It's almost on her mood. In some days she's all invading the space mode and some she's like don't invade mine. This won't work.

HS was right. She has to let him in first.

And that convo with Mini. How deep his love runs and how deeply he understands her! I was in awe. There is no room for any MUs, they're in sync except for Babita misinterpreting Imarti for time being.

Babita is falling in love. She is taking it in just like the way she would have took it when she was a married teenager. Again the innocence factor comes into play because she does not understand the gravity and intensity of Hanuman's emotions. They are together in this journey and it is her time to support him. One day they will be in complete sync.

@Cinnamon_Kisses

This time round, Babita will really have to "woman up". This time she has to make the journey herself, win the match as the player. Indeed, learning to deal with HS is going to be a big life lesson and only when she comes out of it a winner can she be his equal in this relationship. There's just too big a discrepancy that HS is already aware of, but being respectful, he doesn't want to push Babita too far either. I think his first choice would be to let things organically grow and take years if necessary or maybe just know that they love each other and live under the same roof, or live-in as he calls it. Because this means he doesn't need to challenge himself or come out of his comfort zone. He doesn't need to ask himself hard questions or answer hers.

Hanuman knows that if Babita falls apart he can handle her but if he falls apart she won't be able to do it. She needs to work hard to gain his trust and confidence.

Such a male lead is a 'HERO' in real terms. Trust me all the selfless lovers on TV might get jealous of him. What makes me the happiest in this equation is the fact that it's crystal clear to Hanuman that he loves her but he won't be able to let his gaurd down because she is not ready yet. With saying it to Mini he has made it clear that Babita will have to earn it from him.

I am glad you saw it as I did, too. It's not going to be handed on a silver platter. He has been putting in a lot of effort from day one. He earned their trust and confidence through his words and actions. Now she needs to prove that she is worthy of his, that she really is in for the long haul. I am also astounded at his patience and self-control, which I know comes from his penance in large parts. One more thing: I remember writing somewhere after the episode where he tells Lala about his love for Babita, that it was such a beautiful and stunning set of lines where he was so sure about his love for her, his vision so clear, and his confidence that his love would win her over was very impressive. There was no arrogance, no airs. He was just a man so sure of himself that it took my breath away watching him reveal his stance on how he believed his love would shake her from the inside and hold her hand to bring her to him one day.

He is still that man, he is still waiting for that moment when this would indeed happen.

Originally posted by: Cinnamon_Kisses

Babita is falling in love. She is taking it in just like the way she would have took it when she was a married teenager. Again the innocence factor comes into play because she does not understand the gravity and intensity of Hanuman's emotions. They are together in this journey and it is her time to support him. One day they will be in complete sync.

And the best part is HS completely understands her. He knows it's her first. He knows she's a mother too and will have her own reservations and apprehensions. Yet, he's ready to surrender. But, wants her to make the move first cause of the simple love psychology. So that for whatsoever reason, no one can hurt him there later. She will make the move and it'll start where it all started- with Imarti coming to the forefront. I want NB and Lala to give her insights and help her out.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

And the best part is HS completely understands her. He knows it's her first. He knows she's a mother too and will have her own reservations and apprehensions. Yet, he's ready to surrender. But, wants her to make the move first cause of the simple love psychology. So that for whatsoever reason, no one can hurt him there later. She will make the move and it'll start where it all started- with Imarti coming to the forefront. I want NB and Lala to give her insights and help her out.

which she is just unable to do... today also he openly asked like always that aapko bura laga meeta ne hath pakda nd then she goes mujhe kyu bura lagega etc etc like always... i understand where she comes from nd also HS is not making a move but he has so many insecurities more than babita at this point.. also he time and again shows what she means to him through his actions nd also understand the complex reactions she gives in return.. what more push does babita need i dont understand.. he is damn patient... i hope she do something b4 his patience breaks..