TC: Mr. Bajaj REVEALS his reason for marrying Prerna, focus on family! - Page 7

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

There is a striking difference between Ishita & Prerna.

Ishita knew Ruhi & knew everything about her background & yet entered a marriage with Raman only for her. She shared a bond with her that knew no bounds & Raman & his family too knew about it all. Ishita wasn't tricked into being Ruhi's mother but it was her conscious decision. The bond was nurtured, explored from day 1 before Ishita entered that role legally.

Prerna on the contrary thinks Bajaj is a bachelor when he is clearly a divorced man with an 8-year old. If there are children, tell the other partner about it before marriage. Prerna did it but Bajaj didn't. And no, Prerna didn't sign up to be a mother to his children. It's a burden that comes on her with this marriage of which she is made aware after the marriage. Till when was Bajaj planning to delay this revealition. While he demanded her loyalty, it didn't cross his mind to even know if this woman right there would like to have responsibility of a special child while she is going to have her own. Saving or clicking with a child immediately doesn't equal to saying yes to mother the child 24*7. One needs to take explicit consent for that which is absent in this case. If Anurag had hidden about his child from Prerna while marrying her, then it would have been wrong too. Did Prerna accept this child till now? NO. She now will have to since she will have no choice.

Yashoda didn't know that Krishna was someone else's son because when she woke up, Krishna was by her side as her own son. So, that analogy doesn't hold true.

Hiding about a child when marrying someone & then expecting that the new spouse should be good to her because legally she is the step mother/father is wrong.

That s my problem with these two men.

Anurag assumed Pre will move on if he makes her hate him, same Bajaj is assuming just coz pre and sneha clicked on the first meeting, she would be ready to be her mother.

Both men r making their own decisions and imposing them on Pre.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

I agree with Arshi ji. I dont like the sneha reason at all. And Bajaj shld have atleast revealed this to her before marriage. I doubt it wld have affected prerna decision but still he shld have revealed he has a daughter.

That's a big thing to keep a secret from ur wife..

Even if it's a deal , the deal mentioned for prerna just marriage. The child part was not there.

Who knows if she is comfortable taking care of child or not?

If prerna now wants to move out of this deal, I will support her . The child shld have been mentioned by Bajaj.

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Well said👏👏👏

As Prerna is forced into the marriage similarly she is forced into this step mother relation with Sneha. Now she is in for another Kasauti..... if she accepts her soon people would question her love for Anurag and her own child while if she doesn't then bashing for not accepting a special child when she herself accepted this deal cum blackmail. As she is being questioned when she thinks about Anurag even after marriage so she is bound to be bashed for this even more. Writers can never think of anything reasonable. Prerna is in for more bashing from every side.

Honestly, I wouldn't bash Prerna this time if she makes a big deal about this. A special child is no joke. I would be pissed if she doesn't make a big deal about this. For a one time deal, she is in a 24*7 responsibility that huge without her consent on this explicitly.

No one should be tricked into taking care of an special child just because they are good hearted person. Saving a child or having a special bond definitely doesn't mean someone is ready to mother them as well.

I have nothing against special children but expecting a new spouse to take full responsibility for the child whether special or not by hiding this crucial information is wrong. Not everyone can mother every child in the world & that doesn't make them a bad person, but everyone has their limitations of doing good.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Agreed, to each their own, my response was to the constant bajaj bashing in each post, the name calling, the bashing, every character in this show has made umpteen mistakes, starting from all the Basus, the writing is pathetic, which makes discernment very difficult and people r resorting to suppritng their favourites.

As such, I don't have one, if Anurag was wrong during Anukom track, there he deserved to be called a lot of names, but he got off easily from viewers and from the family. Makers will do that to bajaj too, only prerna suffers in this show.

Well...I don't agree completely with your post, but

If the maker being a "lady", wants to have Prerna as a #doublewhammy #basubajajsandwich #tornbetween age old charm and boyish intensity, there is no point in bashing Prerna for being torn between the two. She will keep suffering and the other two will keep coming to her.

Originally posted by: manj

what reason had they showed in season 1 for the blackmail?

Vishaka was 22 years kid

Tusshar was 18 years kid

Cooki was 8 years kid

Prerna was 23-24 years

And in seaaon1 it was deal to save only property of anurag there was no blackmail at all..

Bajaj wanted to marry one woman as his wife so that his children can get mothers love.

Prerna was already mother of prem he was around 8 months old

Prerna gave anurag the responsibility of prem & went to become mother of bajajs kids to respect deal marriage.

It was too professional deal & anurag respected her decision to live deal marriage.

How on eath man🤔

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Looks like they have scrapped the revenge part which made so much hype around him & his actions this season.

There was no revenge. Before destroying any business , he would obviously collect information.

He just wanted to destroy Basu Publication like he destroyed other businesses. I am assuming while collecting information about them he must have learned about Prerna and must have seen Pre-sneha bonding and that's when it must have stuck him to get her as his wife .

Though CVS did make it look like there was some past between basus and Bajaj.

Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

word deal comes with you have to.marry me to save anurag

To save anurag lifetime she has to be with deal

Word marriage deal comes with all responsibilities which coonects with every relationships of bajaj associated with.

Deal is perfect no loopholes to break the deal

She was the one desperate to find a solution , nobodu goes toma person’s house, invading his private space.

What bajaj did was foolish, lonking his future with an unknown woman .

Lets see how the cvs justify this step of bajaj.

Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

same to take care of 3 children

Vishaka was 22 years kid

Tusshar was 18 years kid

Cooki was 8 years kid

Prerna was 23-24 years

And in seaaon1 it was deal to save only property of anurag there was no blackmail at all..

Bajaj wanted to marry one woman as his wife so that his children can get mothers love.

Prerna was already mother of prem he was around 8 months old

Prerna gave anurag the responsibility of prem & went to become mother of bajajs kids to respect deal marriage.

It was too professional deal & anurag respected her decision to live deal marriage.

How on eath man🤔

He can provide a nanny , a full team. But if there are nagins and dayans in our tv world, millionaires behave in a silly manner too.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Honestly, I wouldn't bash Prerna this time if she makes a big deal about this. A special child is no joke. I would be pissed if she doesn't make a big deal about this. For a one time deal, she is in a 24*7 responsibility that huge without her consent on this explicitly.

No one should be tricked into taking care of an special child just because they are good hearted person. Saving a child or having a special bond definitely doesn't mean someone is ready to mother them as well.

I have nothing against special children but expecting a new spouse to take full responsibility for the child whether special or not by hiding this crucial information is wrong. Not everyone can mother every child in the world & that doesn't make them a bad person, but everyone has their limitations of doing good.

But my problem is what about prerna her feelings her child dont she need freedom.to choose her life.

Dont she has rights to choose her life how she wants.

Originally posted by: ifmember

Well...I don't agree completely with your post, but

If the maker being a "lady", wants to have Prerna as a #doublewhammy #basubajajsandwich #tornbetween age old charm and boyish intensity, there is no point in bashing Prerna for being torn between the two. She will keep suffering and the other two will keep coming to her.