I felt Babita acted so selfish today, what do you guys think?

This Mother and Daughter na Taking HS so granted yaar . Today I am not happy with Babita behavior. What do you guys think?

She finally thanked him. I felt as if the PH has been listening to our complaints.

What part specifically did you not like about her behavior?

Today I can not blame anyone but Babita. Not Minnie actualaly she needs to see a pshycologist ASAP. Her behaviour is so wrong in different levels. I actuallay after a long time felt bad for MInnie. I understands being a teenager she was so exited to show her friends her exclusive interview but alas it did not go as per Madam Babita . 1st time I agree with BIjji ,Because of Babita Minnie is loosing her precious teenage moments. Again Babita today talked to the lady jerno was such an unprofessioanl way.How can you talk to like that? You should be thankful that they are giiving you so much limeliight,opening .Shee has no controls over her emotions. Babita actualy looked over possasive ,kind of scary to me for Minnie.Not at all healthy. What can I say about H.S? This man is going to face only humiliations,heart breaks and multiple sleepless nights because of this mother daughter duo. I realy want Babita to fix her mind about h.S.What does she want? You can not have all .I mean she wants H.S but not ready to confess or take it to another level.Her love for her daughter is os blind that she wont give a second thought to wip off H.S and his all goodness from their lfe witha drop of heart beat. I felt so so so bad and hurt to see H.S face after the Interview. Its so difficult to wath him hurt agin and agin.It looks like he has to move his life according to this mom daughter mood swings. Again I will say I need a female entry for H.S ,NOT AS A ROMANTIC JORI TO MAKE H.S WOMANIZER BUT AS A FRIEND. Its probably high time for minnie and Babita to move out the Havili and truely face the real life struggles without H.S and realize what agem ofa person he is.

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Originally posted by: Needblessings

Today I can not blame anyone but Babita. Not Minnie actualaly she needs to see a pshycologist ASAP. Her behaviour is so wrong in different levels. I actuallay after a long time felt bad for MInnie. I understands being a teenager she was so exited to show her friends her exclusive interview but alas it did not go as per Madam Babita . 1st time I agree with BIjji ,Because of Babita Minnie is loosing her precious teenage moments. Again Babita today talked to the lady jerno was such an unprofessioanl way.How can you talk to like that? You should be thankful that they are giiving you so much limeliight,opening .Shee has no controls over her emotions. Babita actualy looked over possasive ,kind of scary to me for Minnie.Not at all healthy. What can I say about H.S? This man is going to face only humiliations,heart breaks and multiple sleepless nights because of this mother daughter duo. I realy want Babita to fix her mind about h.S.What does she want? You can not have all .I mean she wants H.S but not ready to confess or take it to another level.Her love for her daughter is os blind that she wont give a second thought to wip off H.S and his all goodness from their lfe witha drop of heart beat. I felt so so so bad and hurt to see H.S face after the Interview. Its so difficult to wath him hurt agin and agin.It looks like he has to move his life according to this mom daughter mood swings. Again I will say I need a female entry for H.S ,NOT AS A ROMANTIC JORI TO MAKE H.S WOMANIZER BUT AS A FRIEND. Its probably high time for minnie and Babita to move out the Havili and truely face the real life struggles without H.S and realize what agem ofa person he is.

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@bold Me too. I was wondering what he was thinking at that moment. He didn't want to do the interview in the first place. After watching it was he more upset about Minnie feeling sad or about having taken up the space during the interview that Minnie would have?

I don’t know yaar, the way she gave all the credit her daughter nothing To HS. Sometimes she acts like she like Hs or sometimes she don’t care about him. In their life because of HS they got everything and they just like that they say thankful of him, really they don’t show any caring towards him. Jab bhi dekho un dono ki raga lap chalti rehti hai. HS ki taraph se jo isi character ko introduce karna padega jo un dono ko Aiyana dikha sake. I want see some story like he is police man yaar kuch police ka kam dikha do yaar, jab bhi dekho in dono ke piche hi Bhagta rehta hai aur kaam Nahi hai kya police station me. He is so talented actor kuch action bhi chahiye Mujhe.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold Me too. I was wondering what he was thinking at that moment. He didn't want to do the interview in the first place. After watching it was he more upset about Minnie feeling sad or about having taken up the space during the interview that Minnie would have?

I know he was so hurt. What made me mad on Babita you know she never thinks when speaks. They way she said `sirf Minnie hi mere journey main thi aur koi nehi" and then H.S sain `main bekar hi beach main aagaya` was very hurtfelt. I know she then said `aap apne man main aisa kuch maat lana ke ap bich main aye hain` then very officialy said thank you.which hurt H.S even more.Today seriously I felt bad for MInnie. She is trying too hard to be normal. But its dig=fficult for her because Babita gave her so much responsabilities that she started to fel like head of the family and all her expectations are now like that only. she wants that special treatments. If anyone have to blame thats Babita.She needs a big time balance in ger life.She needs to understands what acutally she wants? A huge buisness empire with lots of money ,fame and only Minnie ( with so much over the top possasiveness) or a very loving ,happy ,peaceful, family life including H.S ( obbiosly as a sucessful buisness woman?)

The makers are going way OTT with this daughter giving wings to her mother. It has become unrealistic and ridiculous now. Babita is being portrayed as a parasite both on HS and Mini.

I agree that Babita needed help initially when she left Khurana house. She had no idea about outside world, internet, social media, etc..etc...But now things are different. She is putting videos on FB , chatting on FB, doing interviews, giving strong replies to Ashok, etc.etc...yet she does not seem to understand that she is the mother here. Not Mini. Mini needs a normal teen life like Beeji said. But Babita is in her own Lalaland. She keeps dangling carrots in front of HS, her kabhi haa kabhi naa game with HS, her main bechari hoon game with Mini...I am fed up. She is sending the wrong signals to HS. I am dreading the day when HS will be alone in that haveli.

The makers should have shown Mini being on psychological brink mode right from the day when Ashok talked about divorce. But makers coolly showed her normal, then for a day or two made her psycho, then again normal, and now again psycho. NO consistency in writing for Mini's character either.

Originally posted by: inlieu

She finally thanked him. I felt as if the PH has been listening to our complaints.

What part specifically did you not like about her behavior?

Hehe hehe. I thought the same. The makers are stalking our forum. Chalo accha hai, they are listening.

Originally posted by: rose1000

The makers are going way OTT with this daughter giving wings to her mother. It has become unrealistic and ridiculous now. Babita is being portrayed as a parasite both on HS and Mini.

I agree that Babita needed help initially when she left Khurana house. She had no idea about outside world, internet, social media, etc..etc...But now things are different. She is putting videos on FB , chatting on FB, doing interviews, giving strong replies to Ashok, etc.etc...yet she does not seem to understand that she is the mother here. Not Mini. Mini needs a normal teen life like Beeji said. But Babita is in her own Lalaland. She keeps dangling carrots in front of HS, her kabhi haa kabhi naa game with HS, her main bechari hoon game with Mini...I am fed up. She is sending the wrong signals to HS. I am dreading the day when HS will be alone in that haveli.

The makers should have shown Mini being on psychological brink mode right from the day when Ashok talked about divorce. But makers coolly showed her normal, then for a day or two made her psycho, then again normal, and now again psycho. NO consistency in writing for Mini's character either.

I have noticed some people simply hate being quoted here... so I am sorry in advance. This quote has no bad intentions... I just want to partly agree and partly disagree...

So I actually agree with the first part. I think it's going to OTT and annoying now. I get it that Minnie helped Babita stand on her feet, make her understand the real world and all but Babita needs to understand and act like a mother too... Especially with this interview thing, I think was a bit too much. I get Minnie's heartbreak but I felt Babita was overreacting. I think its high time she should step-up (grow up might be a better word). Babita needs to act like a mother now.

I'm not going to comment on HS and Babita because honestly, I fail to understand what Babita wants. I think even Babita is not sure...

About Minnie's behaviour. This is where I disagree. Can I first please request not to use the word psycho? I think mental health is a real problem and we should respect people suffering from it. But I do understand what you say. BUT I think Minnie never really did go back to normal. For someone who suffered from depression for the longest time, mood swings are normal. Also, the normal period for Minnie was when things were going good. Remember, a depressed person is not all the time crying or angry. The one laughing the loudest could also be depressed. Did you not notice Minnie to get overly excited on the smallest things... that's depression and then getting angry and taking out her anger on Preet and Mickey. That's depression. Even during her normal period, she did overreact to a lot of things. Especially with her anger. So here I tend to disagree. I feel her character is consistent. Although I feel it's getting OTT now.

As Preet rightly said, Minnie being the only child has been the centre of attention and is spoilt. More than anything she needs to realize that she's still a teenager and she needs to stop managing everyone's life! It's not HER responsibility.

Originally posted by: Indulatha

I don’t know yaar, the way she gave all the credit her daughter nothing To HS. Sometimes she acts like she like Hs or sometimes she don’t care about him. In their life because of HS they got everything and they just like that they say thankful of him, really they don’t show any caring towards him. Jab bhi dekho un dono ki raga lap chalti rehti hai. HS ki taraph se jo isi character ko introduce karna padega jo un dono ko Aiyana dikha sake. I want see some story like he is police man yaar kuch police ka kam dikha do yaar, jab bhi dekho in dono ke piche hi Bhagta rehta hai aur kaam Nahi hai kya police station me. He is so talented actor kuch action bhi chahiye Mujhe.

Babita can be very insensitive towards HS sometimes. He's so careful when he speaks to her so that he doesn't hurt her feelings but she just blurts out whatever without thinking. He doesn't always react but today he was really hurt and she stopped when his words made it clear how he felt. Then she suddenly decided to make peace and thank him plus ask him not to feel like an outsider, but I feel it was too late. Now that HS has started to feel this nagging concern he will not forget it so easily and it will have an effect on their dynamics, especially when Minnie's misbehavior begins.