Courtship with kunal- my take - Page 2

Yes jayu I saw that interview long way back ..the courtship was going ...and ritvik gave a hint of how Kunal would build up..he knew it from the starting how Kunal would be

Originally posted by: mridhu

Great post uru.

I have to applaud the makers for showing this without being preachy. It is a sensitive issue which needs to be discussed and it can happen to anyone. My friend was stuck with an abusive mil and the son didn't care at all - her every wish like what she ate, what she wore was to be according to the mil and the son thought those are small things but they aren't and that's why Abir's bhed Bakri dialogue really hit close to home for me.

She is now happily married to a decent guy, but still .... It happens and it happens all the time - so for the show to raise this concept was really good. :)

The entire track was amazingly done, and ritvik did a fabulous job as Kunal!

But I kind of don't agree with Mishti saying Kunal isn't the right one just for her - I saw glimpses of kunals love for shweth and I did think he was a different guy altogether, but the fact remains that Kunal didn't bother to check mishti's opinions on things and even now he is happy kuhu listens to him and agrees to him, what about him listening to her? That is what relationships are built on - it's a 2 way street.

Until I see kunals character growth/redemption, I am not going to be convinced he is the right guy for anyone. He just isn't husband material.

Originally posted by: meen123

🤗same for Kuhu..they both are not ready for marriage...i had hoped atleast Mahs would see that

I was happy bade Papa did not agree right away...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

I was happy bade Papa did not agree right away...

Originally posted by: meen123

Kuhu ke aage sabko jhukna padega

Toh dekhte jao kuhu k liye ye sab kitna Bhari padega😂

Originally posted by: meen123

you are so right Uru- in first meeting specially just in 5 minutes and it happens in my community(Sadly) one wouldn't get to know the guy.

Same goes for the girl. this decision is for the lifetime and it should not be taken in 5 minutes.

achi khaasi dikhne families apse baatei chupa daalti hai and all

yes they have shown time and again from Mahs family that Kunal wasn't a bad person but not right for them. TBh breaking off the engagement was done very rationally too. I was impressed

I know one of my closed one married in a haste and is regretting it badly... getting a divorce now...when I see or hear such cases I feel it's so important to know the other person first..even after that there is no guarantee

Originally posted by: vssdp

So true

Every word of yours is correct

It's not about good or bad it's about compatibility

And the show has explained the concept very well

And I think without rishta swapping, CVs haven't given the proper message on no is an option

Thanks..missed you these days

Yes without swap ...#noisanoption would not have been highlighted...and it was with mishti because the story is from her point of view

Originally posted by: Onyourface

I know one of my closed one married in a haste and is regretting it badly... getting a divorce now...when I see or hear such cases I feel it's so important to know the other person first..even after that there is no guarantee

each one of us can say they have seen someone experience this

Originally posted by: Namzie1226

Well written, Uru!! It was the highlighted really well. I was pretty darn impressed and I found it a very refreshing concept on ITV.

I think it was the first ever... haven't seen people taking shaadi this way...it's either arranged or love...this is somewhere in between..and I like it

Originally posted by: meen123

but 5 minute me decide krne vala gham to ni hoga na, i know.

each one of us can say they have seen someone experience this

That's why it was a much needed concept