love should have one priority not multiple options !!

antara is needed very much in the story not for spicing up the show or some random track .

she is the main thread of akshan love story ..

her wish through letters led aj to accept to marry again

perv was sutradar of there marriage ..

after that akshan went to be a team ,friends finally in love ..

but antara was always in between akshan because she was aj's first love and guddan acknowledged that with open mind ..

guddan made a different place in aj's heart that's other story ..

but we can't forget there was still a mind block in aj still when dadi asked aj to express his love towards guddan

👆these above pix were all about the position were aj kept antara above guddan ..

she was just an option not only priority ...

love in a couple should never have option's multiple choices ...

it has to an only priority..

guddan was about to die thats when aj's feelings came open his feelings which he suppressed all along were out ..

otherwise life would have moved as before as friend zone and aimless dead end..

society used to question akshan and they gave answers which society got confused .

there relationship was taken for a ride and joked about -perv,rocky,angad and dayan they all just made fun out of there relationship...

so antara entry will be headache for audience but for story very much needed.

she has to be real so aj can come clear from the guilt and past and move on with guddan ..

this track will make guddan as his only priority no more choices no more multiple choices ....she has to his only priority position ...

and for guddan ---don't let aj to be ur world when ur just an option if he can't take decision's or keep mum ..

be strong because its the only option left for u...

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

antara is needed very much in the story not for spicing up the show or some random track .

she is the main thread of akshan love story ..

her wish through letters led aj to accept to marry again

perv was sutradar of there marriage ..

after that akshan went to be a team ,friends finally in love ..

but antara was always in between akshan because she was aj's first love and guddan acknowledged that with open mind ..

guddan made a different place in aj's heart that's other story ..

but we can't forget there was still a mind block in aj still when dadi asked aj to express his love towards guddan

👆these above pix were all about the position were aj kept antara above guddan ..

she was just an option not only priority ...

love in a couple should never have option's multiple choices ...

it has to an only priority..

guddan was about to die thats when aj's feelings came open his feelings which he suppressed all along were out ..

otherwise life would have moved as before as friend zone and aimless dead end..

society used to question akshan and they gave answers which society got confused .

there relationship was taken for a ride and joked about -perv,rocky,angad and dayan they all just made fun out of there relationship...

so antara entry will be headache for audience but for story very much needed.

she has to be real so aj can come clear from the guilt and past and move on with guddan ..

this track will make guddan as his only option only priority no more choices no more multiple choices ....she has to his only priority position ...

and for guddan ---don't let aj to be ur world when ur just an option if he can't take decision's or keep mum ..

be strong because its the only option left for u...

Much needed post ..

Is pure track me guddan ko kamjor nahi but strong banna padega...

And one thing is that guddu should make Aj his takat not kamjori....

Kyuki pyar me kamjori ka koi sthan nahi he....

And about akshat he is still in confusion about antra so first he should clear his mind....

And this antra madem better b real to he uska guilt kAM hoga...

But one thing I strongly want k guddan ko Durga ko uski aukad yaad dilana guddan ko as Jana chahiye is pure track me...not only Durga but Aj aur Antra ko b she sunaofy when needed....

Originally posted by: Shona1991

Much needed post ..

Is pure track me guddan ko kamjor nahi but strong banna padega...

And one thing is that guddu should make Aj his takat not kamjori....

Kyuki pyar me kamjori ka koi sthan nahi he....

And about akshat he is still in confusion about antra so first he should clear his mind....

And this antra madem better b real to he uska guilt kAM hoga...

But one thing I strongly want k guddan ko Durga ko uski aukad yaad dilana guddan ko as Jana chahiye is pure track me...not only Durga but Aj aur Antra ko b she sunaofy when needed....

guddan is a strong force for aj unlike antara who made aj weak mentally with guilt and her bossy nature making him quit job to be a entrepreneur..

guddan had equality which antara didn't ..

couple needs to be an unit

Good post, much needed. This is going to be a very painful journey for the audience but it is very much needed. Antara is the foundation of every doubt, every wall between Guddan and AJ. Until that wall is broken down and AJ realizes his own heart and realizes where his love really lies, then only can everyone move on, even Antara.

And again everyone should remember that this story is Guddan's story. Its about her pain, happiness, love and her journey and self growth. This show is about her I will follow her journey. She'll eventually get her happiness.

According to me, AJ didn't keep Antra above Guddu during the date night. At that time he just didn't wanted to think about future & wanted to enjoy the friendship phase with Guddu for the moment but he did have this in mind that step step their relation will move ahead from here with Guddu. At that time Antra was not there, it was just he wanted the relation & things to grow naturally.

I feel the hospital drama, just catalyzed the process of realization. Without it, its not that AJ won't have realized it, he would have but at much slower pace. Bhai jab insaan quicksand main doob raha hai, kabhi na kabhi toh realize karta hi hai na ? he would have realized it too as his love for her was becoming more intense with time. After a limit, he would have realized, when water would have reached his nose. But yes in confession, there could have been problem as then he might have tried to back off without the realization that, life is short & death can claim anyone at anytime & its not fixed he will die 1st, so why think about death & stop enjoying life ?

For him, Guddu started becoming his prime priority since jail track. Since then he didn't mention Antra even once. His mood, his behavior started becoming controlled & influenced by his interactions with Guddu.

Guddu had slowly & steadily risen above the list of his priority by then.

Now the only thing that is left for him, is to announce it loud & clear & for Guddu to understand that. Once AJ does, that, Guddu can very well rise her sword & slay the bhootni.

This is just my point of view.

Originally posted by: captainplus

According to me, AJ didn't keep Antra above Guddu during the date night. At that time he just didn't wanted to think about future & wanted to enjoy the friendship phase with Guddu for the moment but he did have this in mind that step step their relation will move ahead from here with Guddu. At that time Antra was not there, it was just he wanted the relation & things to grow naturally.

I feel the hospital drama, just catalyzed the process of realization. Without it, its not that AJ won't have realized it, he would have but at much slower pace. Bhai jab insaan quicksand main doob raha hai, kabhi na kabhi toh realize karta hi hai na ? he would have realized it too as his love for her was becoming more intense with time. After a limit, he would have realized, when water would have reached his nose. But yes in confession, there could have been problem as then he might have tried to back off without the realization that, life is short & death can claim anyone at anytime & its not fixed he will die 1st, so why think about death & stop enjoying life ?

For him, Guddu started becoming his prime priority since jail track. Since then he didn't mention Antra even once. His mood, his behavior started becoming controlled & influenced by his interactions with Guddu.

Guddu had slowly & steadily risen above the list of his priority by then.

Now the only thing that is left for him, is to announce it loud & clear & for Guddu to understand that. Once AJ does, that, Guddu can very well rise her sword & slay the bhootni.

This is just my point of view.

I agree but i think there is still a thread of doubt that lingers, which Durga smartly uses against Guddan all the time. I don't think Guddan will ever rest easy until that doubt goes away and she may not be able to distinguish duty that AJ feels towards Antara and love he has with her. I feel many moments are on the way where it will seem to Guddan that AJ is making Antara a priority over her and that he doesn't really love her anymore as much since his first love is back. It's this difference between AJ's need to take care of Antara because of his guilt and therefore what he feels is his obligation and him being in love with Guddan that will cause issues. At some point AJ will have to take a stand. My guess is that something big happens, maybe with pervy that causes that realization and action to take place and i bet it's some action that Antara witnesses that makes her realize where his heart really is.

Originally posted by: kshah1987

I agree but i think there is still a thread of doubt that lingers, which Durga smartly uses against Guddan all the time. I don't think Guddan will ever rest easy until that doubt goes away and she may not be able to distinguish duty that AJ feels towards Antara and love he has with her. I feel many moments are on the way where it will seem to Guddan that AJ is making Antara a priority over her and that he doesn't really love her anymore as much since his first love is back. It's this difference between AJ's need to take care of Antara because of his guilt and therefore what he feels is his obligation and him being in love with Guddan that will cause issues. At some point AJ will have to take a stand. My guess is that something big happens, maybe with pervy that causes that realization and action to take place and i bet it's some action that Antara witnesses that makes her realize where his heart really is.

me too feel d same...smthng realy big is gonna happen again..

my small guess says Akshat vl b shot by Perv saving Guddan and hence dayan vl utilise ths opp nd bharofy kaan of Aunty sayng ths all has hapd because of guddan whch vl mke antra throw guddan out of house in AJs absence...just a small guess..lets c..

One thng is for sure...v r gonna get sme real gud scenes and dialogs frm AJ after the revelation...he is gonna BB evry1..whoever hurts his Guddan..

Originally posted by: captainplus

According to me, AJ didn't keep Antra above Guddu during the date night. At that time he just didn't wanted to think about future & wanted to enjoy the friendship phase with Guddu for the moment but he did have this in mind that step step their relation will move ahead from here with Guddu. At that time Antra was not there, it was just he wanted the relation & things to grow naturally.

I feel the hospital drama, just catalyzed the process of realization. Without it, its not that AJ won't have realized it, he would have but at much slower pace. Bhai jab insaan quicksand main doob raha hai, kabhi na kabhi toh realize karta hi hai na ? he would have realized it too as his love for her was becoming more intense with time. After a limit, he would have realized, when water would have reached his nose. But yes in confession, there could have been problem as then he might have tried to back off without the realization that, life is short & death can claim anyone at anytime & its not fixed he will die 1st, so why think about death & stop enjoying life ?

For him, Guddu started becoming his prime priority since jail track. Since then he didn't mention Antra even once. His mood, his behavior started becoming controlled & influenced by his interactions with Guddu.

Guddu had slowly & steadily risen above the list of his priority by then.

Now the only thing that is left for him, is to announce it loud & clear & for Guddu to understand that. Once AJ does, that, Guddu can very well rise her sword & slay the bhootni.

This is just my point of view.

ya in date he confused her further dear ..

she asked we are like other side of threads he ended up saying it can meet the threads..

he always had mind block ..

before date he yelled at bua that he can never get physical with guddan

before that he murmured that he can never give anything in this relationship (guddan made cake without sugar)

it was friend zone --reason antara he never moved from her..even though its guilt antara was first in his list

even when dadi said aj to express his love he was thinking is it fair for antara..

antara was his first priority and guddan option and namesake

only when he felt he will lose guddan thats when his love came out if not life was going on friend zone

valentine day celebration -reason antara

restaurant for her sakes..

room ---antara taste

were was guddan in this list

it was that he had no option just to duty as hubby for guddan until guddan was in dead bed

after that he started feeling the love for guddan ..that to as other choice

this track guddan will be prime priority and antara past option ..

tables will change he will see who fits in his priority list and who will exit from his system forever

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

ya in date he confused her further dear ..

she asked we are like other side of threads he ended up saying it can meet the threads..

he always had mind block ..

before date he yelled at bua that he can never get physical with guddan

before that he murmured that he can never give anything in this relationship (guddan made cake without sugar)

it was friend zone --reason antara he never moved from her..even though its guilt antara was first in his list

even when dadi said aj to express his love he was thinking is it fair for antara..

antara was his first priority and guddan option and namesake

only when he felt he will lose guddan thats when his love came out if not life was going on friend zone

valentine day celebration -reason antara

restaurant for her sakes..

room ---antara taste

were was guddan in this list

it was that he had no option just to duty as hubby for guddan until guddan was in dead bed

after that he started feeling the love for guddan ..that to as other choice

this track guddan will be prime priority and antara past option ..

tables will change he will see who fits in his priority list and who will exit from his system forever

he might have confused her on different occasions but he himself was not confused. He just wasn't ready to think about it or talk about it openly.

About thread conversation, she said they can never meet even being together but he said with time, dheere dheere, they will meet. Meaning their relation will become just like any normal couple. But he just wasn't comfortable in talking in more detail i.e. yes we will have physical relation & love. He wanted it to come naturally.

when he yelled at bua, he did so as to stop her form calling 111 pundit & stop everyone for looking upto Guddu & him with expectation of heir. That would be painful for Guddu too. He did that for both of them. He did that at an impulse but by then he had intentions of moving on with her as expressed by his expressions in the bunty bubbly conversation. He was smiling.

During sugarless cake, he still might have not been thinking of moving on but, that doesn't mean Guddu was lower in priority than Antra.

While he was thinking if its fair to antra, its not that Guddu was lower in priority than Antra, its just when you leave you purnana house & are going for a new one, you do turn around & look at it for one last time & he was doing that. He made his priority clear by placing the portrait outside.

Had the hospital incident not happened, yes he might not have confessed or realized but that doesn't mean he won't have realized it ever & would have remained in friendzone forever. That won't have been possible after a limit he would have realized it.

His love was happening since the first time he met her. They have come across different stages of love.

Valentine day celebration happened long back when he had feeling for Guddan but antra might have been on higher priority level.

In the pyaar nahi hai confession, he beautifully expressed what he feels for her. How much he adores her antics & how much he likes it when she fills his surrounding with colors.

About Restaurant, even if he opened it for Antra, he build it with his mehnat, now he shouldn't shut it down just cause he fall for Guddu. Not to forget cooking is his passion too.

Room decoration, went back to old once, Guddu handed the keys back to dayan but then again it was long back. After that Guddu never attempted to make any change in the room.

She herself never claimed any place in there but AJ still got her mom's portrait inside the room.

She came up in his priority list after/during Jail track.

After all the way he has come making his journey till date, & confessed his feelings for Guddu, its only cause he has fallen in love for her, she has become his top most priority. He wrote that in the letter how he feels for her. She in definitely not an option for him.

AJ knows this that Guddu is his top most priority but Guddu needs to see & understand this, cause she might be feeling she is an option for him. That's natural as being 2nd wife of a man who was madly in love with his 1st wife, this insecurity will stay till she gets proof that at this stage, his only priority is her & no one else.