is the forum divided on anupre v. prejaj?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

I dont know ksg or any of the actors being rumoured to play bajaj. But I find tbe very idea of bajaj repulsive. I don’t see why the audiences have differentiated between him and Komolika, if he was a murderer and many of the other things he seemed to have been (all for love? Like seriously!!!) Please don’t reply to my comment saying ronit Roy was a great actor etc. I am talking about the character and not the actor who played him. I don’t care how may stupid things they make anurag do, he will always be better than a criminal. So the current rooting for bajaj while hating Komolika, I find ridiculous almost sexist!

Anyway no Prejaj for me. I’ll stop watching kzk the moment it becomes that regressive.

Bajaj was never a murderer. There were doubts that He was involved in killing of Prem (Anu-Pre's baby) because he got crazy in love . But later it was cleared that it was Subroto, Anurag's cousin who was involved and Bajaj had no hand in all this.

This man though egoistic , arrogant and obsessied with Prerna, loved her child Sneha so dearly that at one point, just to save that kid, he was ready to lose Prerna too.

People hate Komolika because she is a negative character whereas Bajaj is a grey character- Ruthless, egoistic, selfish and then turns completely positive bec of Prerna's love and her support.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

No is no. If this was a woman who went on a date with a guy, does that mean the act of going on a date was an implicit yes?

I am one of the people who very strongly said and says that anurag gave Komolika mixed signals. But this is a dangerous line of argument you have gone down.

No means no - man or woman, whenever you say it. If you are not getting the physical relations you want divorce is the option you should choose.

That's what I said. No means no whether a woman or a man. But entering a marriage assuming that there will be never be sex is debatable. This is what I said. Obviously if your spouse tries to touch you and you are not interested, you can immediately refuse. And you should.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

For me, it's honestly not about the pairing AnuPre vs PreJaj. I have loved both the stories in season 1. I love Parica And I don't even like KSG. But story and character development is more important.

Considering how the plot is similar to season 1, I am not okay with the female lead being humiliated, making 100 sacrifices for the male lead and he in turn blaming her. Not sure if this Anurag is going to doubt pre of having Bajaj's baby. So I can't say anything. I will reserve my judgement.

For me, what Prerna wants is more important. If she loves Anurag then be that. But if after few years ,she falls for someone else because Anurag is a spineless douchebag, who am I to stop her.

Right he is a spineless douchebag even more in S2 than S1. He failed to eliminate Kom. Pre did it with Vikranth. When everything is settling, he did a drama of defending Pre. He is even more spineless in S2. I want Pre to be with a person who supports her, not who humiliates her. Pre def. deserve a strong lead esp. in S1 Bajaj though Anupre always look made for each other in S1 or S2. Though i don't like KSG offscreen i can't deny his screenpresence. He overshadows everyone.

Originally posted by: maha786

I am just happy Hina is out of this now ahaha

I won't mind prerna staying with Anurag if he does not suspect Prerna any further and doubt on her relationship with Bajaj like he did in season 1, let' see what happens, for now I would want Prerna to be with none of them as I want her self-respect to be more important than trying to please either of them

Right. First i want her to live for herself for sometime. Like start some business, grow in ur life. She did become strong in dealing Kom but she didn't focus on her own individual journey.

Originally posted by: TeenRose1

Right he is a spineless douchebag even more in S2 than S1. He failed to eliminate Kom. Pre did it with Vikranth. When everything is settling, he did a drama of defending Pre. He is even more spineless in S2. I want Pre to be with a person who supports her, not who humiliates her. Pre def. deserve a strong lead esp. in S1 Bajaj though Anupre always look made for each other in S1 or S2. Though i don't like KSG offscreen i can't deny his screenpresence. He overshadows everyone.

yup I agree 2.0 is worse than original. nobody likes ksg offscreen. Bt how can Parth fans dislike KS for offscreen issues when Parth himself is no saint. 😆

Originally posted by: MERARAI

AnuPre realized they loved each other fighting for each other. Pre was fighting for her family and Anu fought to get her to see the truth about Navvu and in the process both were in love.

How can it be a reimagined story if the same script and main plot is recycled from previous show. AnuPre were not married in previous show but are this time. So let’s see if Pre actually marries RB and becomes a bigamist while still married to Anu.

They may not have had a public wedding so what, many couples elope and marry they are still valid by law.

They didn't even tie knot. That is a mere reference thread to make mangalsutra for her and they're just practicing! 😆

Originally posted by: Bhagya65

It has already started so I am quitting the forum and show soon. For me anupre will always be special despite how much they butchered their character. After promo and yesterday episode it has killed my mood anyway. They will be copying and pasting s1 which mean they are making uncle more important than the lead so y bother. I personally feel if they give uncle more importance then I feel parth should leave. I dont think it's right.

I don't think Bajaj is an uncle this time! 😆

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

No, you didn't get me. Marital rape is absolutely wrong. And also No means no. I will explain what I meant, though obviously you may or may not agree . Since you talked about reversing gender, let me put it that way .

If I am married to a guy , and he tries to come close , and I m not in a mood to sleep with him or I am not ready yet, I will obviously say No and move away.

Sex is a part and parcel of marriage. Yes , consent is needed. But is it possible to marry and never have sex ever? This is debatable. And our constitution considers this cruelty and divorce can be obtained if your partner punishes you by not allowing physical relationship. This again is debatable.

What I am trying to say is, Suppose you don't love your spouse or you are not in a mood to have sex, or you are ill , and still your spouse tries to force and rapes you, it is wrong and comes under "Marital rape". Though it is not punishable in India, it is still wrong.

With reference to this serial, Anurag made Komo believe he loved her. He kept babying her and acted like he is crazy for her. Hence that slap did not look good. He could have just pushed her and moved out if he didn't want to get intimate.

sneha

this marriage is pure deal.

kom wanted mrs AB status

anu wanted all things

if anu decided he will never love & have sex with kom its his choice .

like last season pre did with bajju contract marriage has clause no physical relation

so if u treat marriage as deal aware of the concequence.

Originally posted by: reeyacute

KSG doesn't have the time to continue in a show for years. He is here for 6 to 8 months ....I guess

This season should be different otherwise ekta will face wrath

KSG is no RR pls remember that.

This forum has max anupre fans and it will remain so though we have issues

KSG is no less than RR! 😆

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

No, you didn't get me. Marital rape is absolutely wrong. And also No means no. I will explain what I meant, though obviously you may or may not agree . Since you talked about reversing gender, let me put it that way .

If I am married to a guy , and he tries to come close , and I m not in a mood to sleep with him or I am not ready yet, I will obviously say No and move away.

Sex is a part and parcel of marriage. Yes , consent is needed. But is it possible to marry and never have sex ever? This is debatable. And our constitution considers this cruelty and divorce can be obtained if your partner punishes you by not allowing physical relationship. This again is debatable.

What I am trying to say is, Suppose you don't love your spouse or you are not in a mood to have sex, or you are ill , and still your spouse tries to force and rapes you, it is wrong and comes under "Marital rape". Though it is not punishable in India, it is still wrong.

With reference to this serial, Anurag made Komo believe he loved her. He kept babying her and acted like he is crazy for her. Hence that slap did not look good. He could have just pushed her and moved out if he didn't want to get intimate.

Ok I will agree with the bold part. Yes maybe he could have just pushed her and ran away but I cannot agree with the rest of your post .Even if you are flirting with some one and giving them "mixed signals" that still does not justify an attempt to rape. It doesn't even matter if you are in in the middle of the act...when you say STOP your partner needs to respect that. That is consent .