Originally posted by: SnehaDoll
No, you didn't get me. Marital rape is absolutely wrong. And also No means no. I will explain what I meant, though obviously you may or may not agree . Since you talked about reversing gender, let me put it that way .
If I am married to a guy , and he tries to come close , and I m not in a mood to sleep with him or I am not ready yet, I will obviously say No and move away.
Sex is a part and parcel of marriage. Yes , consent is needed. But is it possible to marry and never have sex ever? This is debatable. And our constitution considers this cruelty and divorce can be obtained if your partner punishes you by not allowing physical relationship. This again is debatable.
What I am trying to say is, Suppose you don't love your spouse or you are not in a mood to have sex, or you are ill , and still your spouse tries to force and rapes you, it is wrong and comes under "Marital rape". Though it is not punishable in India, it is still wrong.
With reference to this serial, Anurag made Komo believe he loved her. He kept babying her and acted like he is crazy for her. Hence that slap did not look good. He could have just pushed her and moved out if he didn't want to get intimate.