Mishti , Veer and families ...

Radhika asking Pari in one of the very intial episodes of show: Can Mishti be happy in that family? She always has a habit of taking decisions here at our home there she may not be herself.. Radhika you were supposed to discuss it once with Mishti.. and tried to tell Mishti think or take some more time before taking decision of getting engaged.

Mishti asking Su bua: Am I really in love with Veer? Mishti, getting such kind is a doubt if you really love him or not is not a small thing .. you could have been more introspective about your relationship with Veer how compatible or not..no need to wait until to realize real love from Ruhaan to realized that you are not in love with Veer

Veer telling to his Mom: These days Mishti is behaving different. She is not confident. She cries for small small things. She used to come and wait at my office when I am busy. This is not the Mishti I have choosen. .

Veer saying to Mishti: That he never told anything to her even in situations when he was angry.. So he was angry many times where Mishti doesn't know.

Well Such a clarity of what he requires, Mishti is not the one who has only one side of being confident .Got it she has been angering you now and no need to hide it by not saying anything.. it's ok if you have been showing whatever you are feeling,that could have given better communication and more clarity of to continue this or not...since you have clarity of what you want

Pari to Mishti: I always felt that you and Veer are not meant for each other..

You could have been more confident in what you felt Pari than always saying Msihti and Veer are perfect for each other just to support Mishti or for whatever reason..

Veer's mom.: I actually never liked you but it's only for my son that I agreed for this rishtaa..

I don't know what to tell you aunty..

Such a clarity of what he requires

Seems like everyone has been behaving like everything is perfect by compromising or convincing themselves or adjusting themselves..

For all the points your mentioned, I think Mishti is the reason. It's only because Mishti has agreed to self that she would change herself and be happy and secured in a commitment with veer that radhika and Pari thought the way they did.

It's only because Mishti never showed her true self to veer that veer never knew about her.

It's not everyone behaving as if everything is normal, it's Mishti who have been making the world look like it. She was the one who was compromising/convincing/adjusting or at least acted like she was that made the others feel what they felt.