My POV on Mishaan

Hi All,

I am a very silent reader and never had any account. Just created one as I felt to put my thoughts on.

Its going to be very long, bear with me.. I am not sure if iam putting my thoughts against some rules as i am really not aware of it, hopei am not.

I have read lot ofposts about Mishaan, few says that its lust or not true love and few ask whyruhaan didn't left the house he is the worst friend and many say what's thedifference b/w Mishaan and S1 couple and more.

So here is my POV:

1. Love is definitely not about understanding and communication

.Everyone will have lots of friends and i am sure there are few close friendswho can understand us and we share anything with them but we will not love andwant to spend our entire life with them. If thats the case Pari should and mustend with Arnav, bcz they are the best friends and can share anything and haveunderstanding and lot of communication.

.Its about feeling that people will realise at different timings, few realizethe moment we saw them, and many realise after spending time with them and fewrealise after loosing them how important they are to us.

.In Ruhaan case, I am sure as a Photographer he came across lot of models whoare more beautiful than Mishti but he never spare a thought about them, butwhen he saw Mishti he is instantly smitten thats because his heart liked Mishti not his Eyes.

.After Ruhaan knowing Mishti is Veers fiancé, he never tried once to pursue herneither he tried to create any rift b/w them. He just wants to spend some time either by seeing or fighting with her before her marriage and come on guys, onehas that right to be honest to themselves.

2. Why Mishaan are diff from S1 couple

.The moment Mishaan relaised especially Mishti, what ever be the reason some sayPari gave her assurance whatever, the final call is always Mishtis and shedecided to come clean with Veer. She tried to say even about Ruhaan and her.Same goes to Ruhaan he tried to come clean with Veer (Ofcourse Veer din't gavethem chance)

.But S1, when they decided to give in to there feelings they never tried once tocome to Mouli who did lot to them which was shown and every viewer knows how much Mouli did for both of them , how much she loved them. Even during before confrontation scene when everyone tried to ask Kunal is there anything going on b/w K & N he refused and got angry and it came out only when Mouli found itOut or else god knows if they ever do that.which is complete contrast betweenMishti and Kunal.

3. Unconditional or True Love

.Its all about how much we accept our partner. If you truly love some one youwill never ever find faults in them nor regret about your decision.

.M loved K unconditionally , Example: we all know Kunal never worked properlyanywhere he always used to talk about values.. But M never complained and always supported and even tried her best to establish a clinic for him that's only because she loved him truly and unconditional. If not , the scenario will be like, M yelling at K Why u always do that at least work for some time earn money till u built ur own clinic and then do whatever you want to do. She never did that,

But K always had complaints about her busy schedule even after he himself is a doctor, who actually knows how doctors work will be.

.Same goes to Ishaan, he loved M unconditionally that's why he never regrettedloving her and he did everything to keep her happy. Even he fought with hermother and stood with M through thick and thin. Bcz in true love there will beno expectations. Its always about love and making them happy.

.InMisthi case, he liked Veer and i guess when he proposed her she might havethought that he is good and she is comfortable with him so we can settle downwith him any one will think in the same way if u don't love anyone. After alleveryone will get married at some point of time. And being in secured about relationships she might have thought its better to marry the known person than unknown one.

But she always had her doubts thats y she always maintained that goody look.

For Ruhaan, she knows that it will never happen bcz she is in love with him truly and no matter what she will never think bad about that relationship going bad.Thats the confidence one will get only when u love someone truly.

Ps:I hope i made some sense and sorry guys for making such a long post making uall bored.

Welcome JKSR ! I am Mili😃

Agree with everything you said. I like the way you articulated and expressed. Personally, I don't see any comparison between season 1 couple and Mishti, Ruhaan. What I am seeing in season 2, is the realistic portrayal of how a person committed in a relationship, deals with falling out of that relationship. This happens so much in everyday life for a variety of reasons, one of them being " not being in love". So, I am not rolling my eyes as I watch this. Mind you, I did, till I got completely sold on this love story. The love story between Mishti, Ruhaan, for me feels deep, intense and meaningful. I especially commend the writers for writing leads such as Ishaan and Ruhaan, who care about the women they love to any lengths, care about their happiness above and beyond their own, and try to make their lives easier and are silently standing behind and with them in these women's battles with themselves and with others around them👏

As you might have noticed, the discussions here are quite cerebral. We are tearing finer points to death, before we put them to rest😃I like how each one of us interprets a scene or an emotion. Sometimes someone says it the right way and everything clicks and makes me understand better. Please join in the conversation as you feel fit! Welcome again😃

Thanks Mili.

I am happy to get reply from you. I used to read all ur posts, infact I used to wait for review after every episode.😉. you are very good in that.

Great post👍🏼... Thanks for saying how different MisHaan have been. They're far more reasonable and unique than season 1couple.

Hey sweetheart... A heartily welcome here😍😍💜💜 loved hour post and POV...keep doing it...why being a silent member when you have so many good things to say agree with you about everything. Kudos dear👍🏼👏

Good one and clear explanation

Thanks dear. I will try to be active ❤️ mishaan