Are people this oblivious to their OWN feelings in real life? - Page 3

Originally posted by: clarity

@bold- The truth has been spoken 👍🏼 This the reason lmao

I remember a scene from Main Hoon Na where Zayed's character says 'Jab mujhe pyaar hoga toh peeche ek orchestra violins bajayega'. 😆

I will try saying 'Kyun usko dard de kar mujhe khud dard hota hai' to one of my friends. Let's see how they react 😉

Try saying that to your SO, it will be even better. I tried spouting such lines to my husband just for the heck of it - and he was like, ab isko kya ho Gaya ? 2 minute pehle theek thi. :D :d

Sorry but day dreaming about a girl who is supposed to marry his brother , isnt that wrong to even think about her ? Same with mishti . Either they were friends from the beginning, then its ok ..but when the rishta talk started abir and mishti hardly knew each other . Dunno what they are trying to show here .

Yes a person can be oblivious to their feelings , because they may be confused or just scared to come out with it ..abir may like mishti as a person but not in a romantic way right now ... But here abir developing feelings for a girl who is asking for a date from.his brother looks horrible . Ditto to mishti .. There was a movie mere brother ki dulhan , there they showed it in a very light hearted manner . Yahan sAAri stories mix hai..sajan, mujjhse dosti karoge etcnetc ..i dont mind it ..its the storytelling which is boring ..like.mishti loving the bouquet and shayri..cmon she is looking for all this ? She got impressed with flowers ? Shes not interested in knowing kunal as a person? Abir is doing the most stupid thing by being a proxy to his bro.

Originally posted by: clarity

Yeah, guess Big Ben and Baba had a love marriage. Big Ben went to help her father when he needed and her and according to her he was not okay with it and hence left Meenu and Abir. However, I am sure there is more to the story- some misunderstanding or a fact Meenakshi is covering up.

Ohh didn’t know meenu ben had love marriage.

Yeah totally agree with u they might be many more things related to their parting away. Meenu is definitely cover up something. May abir father would have tru to see him also but meenu would have stop him or something else is there.

Originally posted by: mahi246

Bold - bhaiyya ???😲😲😲

Are U Serious ???😡 Paap lagega tumhe iske liye

Show mei toh kuch dekhne layek hai nahi bas Ritvik aka Kunal ko dekh ke hi Aahe bharti hu ❤️

Yes, agree CVs never focus on Kunal characterisation and never show any inner thoughts of the character😡 That's why viewers always get cluless about Kunal character.. and this is one of the most annoying things for me in this show!

Lol you and TheDramaQueen are right 🤣

Anyway, how does it matter if I call him bhaiyya 'cause on this show bhaiyyas easily become saiyyan ala Kunal-Mishti-Abir and saiyyan will become bhaiyya. 😈

The parent show YRKKH only focuses on Kaira and other characters are there just to further their story. I have kept my expectations low for Kunal/Kuhu's characters and KuKu because I know the writers don't know how to equally focus on everyone. Secondary characters can also have great plot lines and character development but this point is lost on the CVs. 🥱

Meenakshi's character is the one eating into everybody's screenspace, IMO. 🤔 There's TOO MUCH focus on her. She is given more screen space than MishBir lmao.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sorry but day dreaming about a girl who is supposed to marry his brother , isnt that wrong to even think about her ? Same with mishti . Either they were friends from the beginning, then its ok ..but when the rishta talk started abir and mishti hardly knew each other . Dunno what they are trying to show here .

Yes a person can be oblivious to their feelings , because they may be confused or just scared to come out with it ..abir may like mishti as a person but not in a romantic way right now ... But here abir developing feelings for a girl who is asking for a date from.his brother looks horrible . Ditto to mishti .. There was a movie mere brother ki dulhan , there they showed it in a very light hearted manner . Yahan sAAri stories mix hai..sajan, mujjhse dosti karoge etcnetc ..i dont mind it ..its the storytelling which is boring ..like.mishti loving the bouquet and shayri..cmon she is looking for all this ? She got impressed with flowers ? Shes not interested in knowing kunal as a person? Abir is doing the most stupid thing by being a proxy to his bro.

@bold- You are a 100% right and this is why I was disgusted with Rishta Exchange from the get go 🤢 If Kunal were not related to Abir, it would still be okay but MishBir's nain matakka while Mishti is to be engaged to Kunal is in extremely bad taste.

The truth is no one behaves like this with their would be BILs/SILs because it's a minefield.

Yes, if Abir is keeping Mishti's photos and is affected by her touch, it makes zero sense for him to be setting up Kunal-Mishti that too by faking being Kunal. In a way, this is cheating because Mishti has assumed the flowers are from Kunal and she is daydreaming about him while it was actually Abir who sent them. It's okay to play cupid for two people when you know they like each other but this is giving the wrong impression about Kunal to Mishti. Mishti should know the real Kunal and not the one Abir is trying to make him out to be.

Mishti's reaction to the flowers- While anyone would be touched, I found her reaction a bit out of character. Had it been Kuhu, it would have made sense because she evaluates relationships/guys from a superficial perspective but we expect Mishti to be mature and realistic, as her character sketch indicates. She got way too happy over a bouquet. I felt it was a very un-Mishti reaction and more suited to Kuhu. This inconsistency in characters bothers me.

Originally posted by: clarity

Yes, if Abir is keeping Mishti's photos and is affected by her touch, it makes zero sense for him to be setting up Kunal-Mishti that too by faking being Kunal. In a way, this is cheating because Mishti has assumed the flowers are from Kunal and she is daydreaming about him while it was actually Abir who sent them. It's okay to play cupid for two people when you know they like each other but this is giving the wrong impression about Kunal to Mishti. Mishti should know the real Kunal and not the one Abir is trying to make him out to be.

This... this genuinely creeps me out. I really wish they had made Abeer someone who isnt related to Kunal... or atleast while he was helping Mishti figure out her feelings, he wouldn't know who is the guy... I know its cliche, but atleast its not creepy

This is why I prefer what they are doing with Kuhu. She is acknowledging her feelings and making sure she keeps them in control

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

This... this genuinely creeps me out. I really wish they had made Abeer someone who isnt related to Kunal... or atleast while he was helping Mishti figure out her feelings, he wouldn't know who is the guy... I know its cliche, but atleast its not creepy

This is why I prefer what they are doing with Kuhu. She is acknowledging her feelings and making sure she keeps them in control

Yeah this is my thoughts too.

I too like that they are making kuhu to acknowledge her feelings. It’s is so realistic.