So Widow Marriage is the issue

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I am unable to understand PK Mittal. He is no less amazing than Jhanvi, I mean that heart attack acting was legit 🤣😂. However why is he so regressive. Earlier he was unhappy that kabir got married 6 years ago and didnt told him, so now he should be relieved that Kabir married only a few days ago.🤨 But thats not the point. The thing is Kabir made a nice observation - he is too regressive.

The mataji of Mittal house is no different either, though Jhanvi ki dose ne dimaag ke purze hila rakhe hain. What Jhanvi is trying to achieve is very clear to us and also justified from her pov, but what the mittals are doing goes beyond my understanding. 21st century, a potential mayor of the city, a fairly rich and educated person still unable to grasp the concept of widow remarriage. That is quite dissapointing.

Jhanvi's words seem to be the most reliable ones - "Kya aaj ki society widow marriage ko accept karti hai? Experiment karke dekhna padega."

I love Jhanvi's experiment. The society has all kinds of people but the amount of progressive people have certainly increased, however same is not true for mittals. She will most probably incite Mittals against Kavya and then prove it to the world that Mittals are regressive hence damaging their reputaion. I like Jhanvi's games but the best thing about her is what she thinks about hurting Aarush. She might kill Dhruv or Kabir but she would never hurt a child. For now she has successfully used the concept of widow remarriage which will go against Mittals. Nice going Jhanvi 😉

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Most of the people in our society are still regressive, sad ,yes,but true nonetheless. Even most people who pretend to be progressive in others case will not be so progressive where they are concerned. Widow remarriage is still a taboo in todays society as well, because widows are considered inauspicious even today in various cultures. PK Mittal's character, if you notice carefully is that of a typical patriarch. So this is not something surprising for me.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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It should not be at all ..But I find Kavya-Kabir Plot very weak, Kavya seems a modern educated girl with a kid could have entered in the house with Kabir as Kabir best friends widow and their relationship could have blossomed nicely and slowly ...Why he has to marry her..Why she is behaving like a Abla Nari ...???

Will he marry someone eelse also if the same sitiatuon will come up in the future ??? Just because Kavya husband made him promise , he did it ..its not logical

We need to know more about Kavya Kabir Vyom FB scenes to underastand their situation. What will happen when Vyom will return in their life ( Serial hai Kuch bhi ho sakta hai )

PK Mittal is an arrogant man with stupid mentality ( it sad for the society ) and he is behaving like this because Kabir is going against him be it professional life or personal ....

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sumita18

It should not be at all ..But I find Kavya-Kabir Plot very weak, Kavya seems a modern educated girl with a kid could have entered in the house with Kabir as Kabir best friends widow and their relationship could have blossomed nicely and slowly ...Why he has to marry her..Why she is behaving like a Abla Nari ...???

Will he marry someone eelse also if the same sitiatuon will come up in the future ??? Just because Kavya husband made him promise , he did it ..its not logical

We need to know more about Kavya Kabir Vyom FB scenes to underastand their situation. What will happen when Vyom will return in their life ( Serial hai Kuch bhi ho sakta hai )

PK Mittal is an arrogant man with stupid mentality ( it sad for the society ) and he is behaving like this because Kabir is going against him be it professional life or personal ....

He would not have done the same for someone else. People are forgetting that in the 6 years kabir was in the army he became close with vyom and they treated each other like brothers in the form of best friends. Not only that vyom and kavya in a FB said that from now on kabir is their only family and kabir has known arush since he was born. On top of it vyom then sacrifices his life to save kabir, then vyom requested kabir as his dying wish to accept kavya and arush. Vyom's last words were to kabir saying "Kavya aur arush ko apnaa..." then he died saying apnaa (accept) meaning quite clearly vyom's dying wish was for kabir to accept kavya and arush as his family. Vyom, kavya and arush aren't just anybody for kabir, they were in fact like his extended family and kabir was close to them, but vyom's sacrifice and dying wish was the reason why kabir accepted kavya-arush, and why kavya married kabir. Plus kavya and vyom seem to have no other family anymore given that they eloped and married plus said that only kabir is their family, so I'm guessing both their families were completely against their marriage and severed ties with the couple, but we can only guess that their families severed ties with them as why else would they both elope and say only kabir is their family.

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Originally posted by: sammy17

He would not have done the same for someone else. People are forgetting that in the 6 years kabir was in the army he became close with vyom and they treated each other like brothers in the form of best friends. Not only that vyom and kavya in a FB said that from now on kabir is their only family and kabir has known arush since he was born. On top of it vyom then sacrifices his life to save kabir, then vyom requested kabir as his dying wish to accept kavya and arush. Vyom's last words were to kabir saying "Kavya aur arush ko apnaa..." then he died saying apnaa (accept) meaning quite clearly vyom's dying wish was for kabir to accept kavya and arush as his family. Vyom, kavya and arush aren't just anybody for kabir, they were in fact like his extended family and kabir was close to them, but vyom's sacrifice and dying wish was the reason why kabir accepted kavya-arush, and why kavya married kabir. Plus kavya and vyom seem to have no other family anymore given that they eloped and married plus said that only kabir is their family, so I'm guessing both their families were completely against their marriage and severed ties with the couple, but we can only guess that their families severed ties with them as why else would they both elope and say only kabir is their family.

I do not think marriage is only and final way to sort out this matter ..as a viewer its looks like a weak plot ..

Kabir has taken big step to give name respect and support to his friends wife and son and hidden that from his own family and instigated PK Mittal more ...

Marrying widow is not an issue here at all but Kavya was married to Vyom for 5 yrs and have a kid and as a army wife, she should have shown strong .. not like a abla nari ( you just cant marry someone as soon as your husband dies .. its very illogical .. blame goes to the writers )

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sumita18

I do not think marriage is only and final way to sort out this matter ..as a viewer its looks like a weak plot ..

Kabir has taken big step to give name respect and support to his friends wife and son and hidden that from his own family and instigated PK Mittal more ...

Marrying widow is not an issue here at all but Kavya was married to Vyom for 5 yrs and have a kid and as a army wife, she should have shown strong .. not like a abla nari ( you just cant marry someone as soon as your husband dies .. its very illogical .. blame goes to the writers )

Yes marriage is not the final way out but it is definitely a good one. See just because she is an army officer's wife doesn't mean she will be strong. Even if she is , her husband's death, being a jobless widow with a kid is scary. Since Vyom died saving Kabeer, I guess gratitude for life makes one take life changing decisions. Nothing is better than marrying that woman and adopting the child, because in that way he will be able to care for them forever.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sparklingstar22

Yes marriage is not the final way out but it is definitely a good one. See just because she is an army officer's wife doesn't mean she will be strong. Even if she is , her husband's death, being a jobless widow with a kid is scary. Since Vyom died saving Kabeer, I guess gratitude for life makes one take life changing decisions. Nothing is better than marrying that woman and adopting the child, because in that way he will be able to care for them forever.

I respect your opinion fully but my point is totally different ...

Caring for someone does not mean you have to marry and give status ..

Its Plainly my POV ;)

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sumita18

I respect your opinion fully but my point is totally different ...

Caring for someone does not mean you have to marry and give status ..

Its Plainly my POV ;)

I understand you, I agree with it too. But I think it is the best thing that could have been done in this case. This is my personal pov, but I do understand what you mean.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sumita18

I respect your opinion fully but my point is totally different ...

Caring for someone does not mean you have to marry and give status ..

Its Plainly my POV ;)

In our society, a widow can not be taken care by a man without marring her. She will be killed daily by the words just like**********. So marriage is a good solution to save a window and her child. My opinion .

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: krithi1990

In our society, a widow can not be taken care by a man without marring her. She will be killed daily by the words just like**********. So marriage is a good solution to save a window and her child. My opinion .

Exactly, moreover , I don't think kabeer's wife would have tolerated him giving shelter to a random young lady and her child and taking their responsibility for life. So this was the best decision, that he could have taken.

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