So Widow Marriage is the issue - Page 2

Originally posted by: krithi1990

In our society, a widow can not be taken care by a man without marring her. She will be killed daily by the words just like**********. So marriage is a good solution to save a window and her child. My opinion .

I think its all depends on an individuals opinion ..mine is totally different than others but yes i respect ur opinion .

Originally posted by: Sparklingstar22

Exactly, moreover , I don't think kabeer's wife would have tolerated him giving shelter to a random young lady and her child and taking their responsibility for life. So this was the best decision, that he could have taken.

Exactly! Kabeer had no reason to object to vyom's request as it is given how close he was to vyom, kavya, arush and plus he was single. How long would kabeer be able to give support to kavya and arush without marrying her when one day kabeer himself would marry on his father's orders plus it would be hard given how PK himself admitted kabeer didn't need to take their responsibility and should ahve simply given them money. With a father who is heartless and lacks understanding of other's emotions and thinks that money would have made up for kavya-arush's loss, kabeer made a good decision to marry her else if he just brought her and arush home, PK would be like why should we take responsibility for a widow and her child and just give her money just like he admitted in yesterday's episode. By marrying her, he has made looking after kavya and arush both his right and duty by making them his wife and son, which PK can do nothing about.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Exactly! Kabeer had no reason to object to vyom's request as it is given how close he was to vyom, kavya, arush and plus he was single. How long would kabeer be able to give support to kavya and arush without marrying her when one day kabeer himself would marry on his father's orders plus it would be hard given how PK himself admitted kabeer didn't need to take their responsibility and should ahve simply given them money. With a father who is heartless and lacks understanding of other's emotions and thinks that money would have made up for kavya-arush's loss, kabeer made a good decision to marry her else if he just brought her and arush home, PK would be like why should we take responsibility for a widow and her child and just give her money just like he admitted in yesterday's episode. By marrying her, he has made looking after kavya and arush both his right and duty by making them his wife and son, which PK can do nothing about.

I agree. Plus no woman would tolerate her husband taking care of a random woman and her child.

How much ever educated a person can still in this society certain things are difficult to get accepted by everyone. Yes kabir’s mother was also blaming kavya like she has trapped my son. She mil not only tv but reality says the same things😂. Yeah jhanvi’s words are reliable but have to wait n see how the cv’s will show the society’s pov.

Originally posted by: Sumita18

I do not think marriage is only and final way to sort out this matter ..as a viewer its looks like a weak plot ..

Kabir has taken big step to give name respect and support to his friends wife and son and hidden that from his own family and instigated PK Mittal more ...

Marrying widow is not an issue here at all but Kavya was married to Vyom for 5 yrs and have a kid and as a army wife, she should have shown strong .. not like a abla nari ( you just cant marry someone as soon as your husband dies .. its very illogical .. blame goes to the writers )

I agree with it’s my thoughts also how can she marry someone after few days of her husband’s death n kavya’s character is so weak now she is only crying or just silent. But i think next week they will show so improvement in her character.

That scene between and Kabeer and PK was powerful. Zain finally had a good share of the screenspace. It's funny how such educated and rich individuals manage to bear such regressive thoughts yet 'people' look up to them. Consider them 'leaders' of the country.

What's interesting is even Mrs Mittal is no innocent. Didn't expect this from her. If she really loved Kabir, she should've accepted Kavya the moment Kabir brought her home. And how can you even not accept Arush? He's a child.

Though I am still opposed to this concept of Kabir marrying Kavya because he wanted to 'take care' of them. This whole back drop is backdated tbh, why would vyom ask him to give them 'apna nam' (?). They already have Vyom's name. Plus They were more of brothers which really gives me devar-bhabi vibes from Kabir and Kavya's relationship.

And taking care of Kavya and Arush is his responsibility and his wife is noone to stop him. This 'sacrifice' (?) was totally unnecessary from where I see it.

Though I understand his friend's last wish holds importance to him and he did what he had to do.

Still not really happy with the execution. Though I am more than happy Kabir and Ishani didn't get married.

Originally posted by: Sumita18

It should not be at all ..But I find Kavya-Kabir Plot very weak, Kavya seems a modern educated girl with a kid could have entered in the house with Kabir as Kabir best friends widow and their relationship could have blossomed nicely and slowly ...Why he has to marry her..Why she is behaving like a Abla Nari ...???

Will he marry someone eelse also if the same sitiatuon will come up in the future ??? Just because Kavya husband made him promise , he did it ..its not logical

We need to know more about Kavya Kabir Vyom FB scenes to underastand their situation. What will happen when Vyom will return in their life ( Serial hai Kuch bhi ho sakta hai )

PK Mittal is an arrogant man with stupid mentality ( it sad for the society ) and he is behaving like this because Kabir is going against him be it professional life or personal ....

Same question came to my mind as well. I feel Karta is married because if Vyom's last wish and Kabir got married because he feels guilty for Vyom's death. Also let's see how Vyom's died because we haven't seen the entire thing, is Kabir more responsible regarding his friends death - a mistake or something on those grounds. That would explain why.

Originally posted by: made-in-charms

That scene between and Kabeer and PK was powerful. Zain finally had a good share of the screenspace. It's funny how such educated and rich individuals manage to bear such regressive thoughts yet 'people' look up to them. Consider them 'leaders' of the country.

What's interesting is even Mrs Mittal is no innocent. Didn't expect this from her. If she really loved Kabir, she should've accepted Kavya the moment Kabir brought her home. And how can you even not accept Arush? He's a child.

Though I am still opposed to this concept of Kabir marrying Kavya because he wanted to 'take care' of them. This whole back drop is backdated tbh, why would vyom ask him to give them 'apna nam' (?). They already have Vyom's name. Plus They were more of brothers which really gives me devar-bhabi vibes from Kabir and Kavya's relationship.

And taking care of Kavya and Arush is his responsibility and his wife is noone to stop him. This 'sacrifice' (?) was totally unnecessary from where I see it.

Though I understand his friend's last wish holds importance to him and he did what he had to do.

Still not really happy with the execution. Though I am more than happy Kabir and Ishani didn't get married.

You said it! Mittal family's regressive behavior is one small step for CVs to make us feel less sorry for them and a leap for Jhanvi as she would use it against them. As Kavya Kabir marriage , I hope they show something more from Kabir s side because this abrupt marriage is understandable but not justified. It would be good if they show that Kabir had a strong reason but did not say so openly because he wanted to hide it.

J will fully use Widow remarriage thing and go on break relationships in Mittal family and complete her revenge.

Let's see if Kabir or Kavya can see thro' J's facade and stop her plans or not..🤔

I’m an overseas viewer....and I’m finding this show very regressive in many aspects and hence it’s not relatable...where I live widows and divorced women remarry if they wish to...nobody judges them...arranged marriages ended in my parents generation...so now very few people if any marry via an arranged marriage,..most marriages are love marriages...and both in schools and homes...children beatings and abuse are not allowed ...so ayubs character is really very bad ...where he beats his adult son so badly...and most women nowadays are educated and independent financially ...so if their husband dies, they can support themselves and their children ..they don’t need another man to support them... I know this is not the case in many countries ...but this is how the modern progressive world operates..so EBSS..does not appear to be a modern progressive show ...and hence it may not appeal to a lot of people...