Bade bhai ki patni or Meri patni? Which is superior? - Page 2

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Piku*

Right now AJ's past & gulit of Antra's death is holding him back from admitting to himself that he cares about Guddan and she is his wife. Deep down AJ has the fear of falling in love & losing Guddan.

But I love how he was questioning, asking his heart & mind why he couldn't accept and admit the truth that Guddan is his Wife.

Since Angad is his brother, it was okay for him to say & reminded Angad that Guddan Akshat Jindal is your Elder Bhai's Patni & Your Bhabhi. AJ was reminding Angad who Guddan is in realtionship.

Exactly that. Also now he has found his answer. She Is His Patni. They are still at "Mana Ki Pyaar Nahi Hai" stage, but now he has committed himself to this relationship in the truest sense. He knows that along with his responsibility, she is also his family. He understood that he has to let her in into his life as his Wife. Once AJ ties the MS around Guddan's neck, she won't be just Guddan Akshat Jindal. She will be Guddan Akshat Jindal who has the right to be Akshat Jindal's better half. She will now have equal rights on everything that is his. Including his family, his decisions and responsibilities.


I'm probably ranting. I don't know if my words make sense... 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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What I understood from his question is that The husband in his heart got pinched from the fact that he was not able to address Guddan as "Meri Patni" which held more possessiveness of a husband over his wife than "Bade bhai ki patni" held👍🏼 So he asked why he was not able to jatavofy that possessiveness over her and it definitely hurt his heart Tab Dadi simply replied just like ur heart registered the fact that u r Guddan's husband now accept it whole heartedlyby tieing Mangalsutra around her neck which he agreed because now he himself understood the value of their marital relation👍🏼
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I dnt knw hw ths track is gng to go...bt one thmg is sure by end of ths trck AJ vl announce in front of entire famlly tht '''Guddan meri Patni hai'...

P.S.Really hope ths trck to end soon...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaruSenan

What I understood from his question is that The husband in his heart got pinched from the fact that he was not able to address Guddan as "Meri Patni" which held more possessiveness of a husband over his wife than "Bade bhai ki patni" held👍🏼 So he asked why he was not able to jatavofy that possessiveness over her and it definitely hurt his heart Tab Dadi simply replied just like ur heart registered the fact that u r Guddan's husband now accept it whole heartedlyby tieing Mangalsutra around her neck which he agreed because now he himself understood the value of their marital relation👍🏼

Today I saw a possessive glint in his eyes when he was shouting at Angad and when he wanted to tie the MS. Abhi yeh haal hai, toh soch jab pyaar ho jayega tab kitna possessive honge Jindal Saab.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: RISH1234

I dnt knw hw ths track is gng to go...bt one thmg is sure by end of ths trck AJ vl announce in front of entire famlly tht '''Guddan meri Patni hai'...

P.S.Really hope ths trck to end soon...

From your mouth to God's ears.
So it happens like that I gave a party for that.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akshata2010

Today I saw a possessive glint in his eyes when he was shouting at Angad and when he wanted to tie the MS. Abhi yeh haal hai, toh soch jab pyaar ho jayega tab kitna possessive honge Jindal Saab.

And it came to my mind when he was in such a state now how it would be when he was in love with her. I'm looking forward now.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumatra1234

Exactly that, he knows that her husband, AJ is not sure he can do all his duty as a husband. He has no love feelings for Guddon, perhaps because of that it was difficult for him to say that she is his wife.


Not only that. He's still very much in love with Antra (and her memories) - that is accompanied by the fact that he has only ever used the title of "his wife" for Antra, a title he thought had died with her forever and would never be used for another woman in his life.

It's not just about feelings, it's also about habits. It takes time. For men like Akshat, they need to also understand that it's possible to fall in love again. The love is different for each woman and falling in love with your second wife doesn't mean you are disloyal to your late wife. It's not easy to get over this mental block. The fact that AJ has grief + guilt means there is a big speedbreaker in his mind that will slow him down and take a while for him to overcome.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumatra1234

I thought of this he did not even reveal his feelings yet. I do not think he is now like, I love her. It's not at that stage yet. He did not understand that he have a litle love feelings for Guddan. He thinks that in this life he can only love one woman and that woman is Antara.


@bold
His mind hasn't yet started to think of the possibility of loving another woman like crazy without guilt or inhibition, even though his heart already started beating for Guddan without his knowledge. 😉
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Basically aj meant to say he was not ready to be hubby of guddan because he considered antara was the only one for him as wife.
But things have changed I had to marry out of majboori so I did now whether I accept or not guddan is my wife nothing can change it but why I couldn't say she is my wife instead I said to angad it's ur brother s wife .
Why couldn't I say guddan is my wife seedha??
Was his concern

Because it's battle between his mind and heart
His mind make him realize his kitty is full with past quilt and responsibilities towards family.
But his heart craves to break the barriers and give guddan which she deserves as wife.

Aj stuck in a situation were he can't leave guddan alone neither accept her fully .

But he had made up his mind to give guddan the status with respect and love
Edited by rs-shailu29 - 6 years ago

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