Is Dipika the perfect girl? - Page 5

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Since you brought up her personal life, no, she is not sincere to her husband. She is hanging out with a man she knows has feelings for him and continues to be his enabler of abuses and dissolute attractions.

Originally posted by: drbeth

You seem to hv more problem dn Shoaib 😆

Let her husband decide if he has a problm or not.May be he is modern and broad minded 😳

Originally posted by: TheBoss

They can be in an open marriage for all I care. If that's how they roll more power to them. 😆

Originally posted by: TheBoss

They can be in an open marriage for all I care. If that's how they roll more power to them. 😆

Dipika is a beauty in simplicity. Graceful. She is not perfect nor she claims to be. But she tries to live well by doing whatever feels right to her. Not to what people think is right or wrong. She follows her heart and takes guts as well. She is there to play the game, to win, but on her conditions. She is not able to change her ways when it doesn't feel good to her. That makes her more beautiful or attractive to me.

She comes across as a fake emotionless person but in fact she is an (over) emotional person. And such persons need to shield themselves off from negativism which are constantly trying to bring them down. To break her psyche. To find her weak spots. That's the game. And that's why I think she plays this game well. She shields herself off, she knows when to respond and when not. Now that is a major strength. She steps up when it is required. She is the one who gets least provaked by others behaviors.

When it comes to Shree, I too think sometimes that his emotional outbursts are holding her back. She might be able to achieve much more without him. But... people usually don't do things without personal gain. What is she gaining then from hanging with Shree?

I think there was a time where Dipika was completely broken. Regardless, what happened in her life, she knows what it is like to be pushed into a corner, to be blamed (without fault?), to deal with opinions, to be spoken ill about by society, media, nation, world.. The price one pays of being a celebrity. She can relate. And somehow, her inner Florence Nightingale, instinctively knows she needs to standby him. Because Shree is the opposite emotional being. He doesn't have all the right tools that she has (or have found). I think this is her gain. She is helping Shree, giving him support and comfort and he stands by her.

So.. If you have no dirt against her, why not take the little things you see, which you might not understand, and make that big. The fact they don't have the patience and understanding she has for a person like Shree, doesn't make her a doormat perse. But... even if we need to give her that tag.. Why not? Even that, she does with perseverance and perfection. Weak doormats would not have lasted this long anyway.

A critique, a tip for Dipika which pops up is that she doesn't mingle. She does not open up towards the others. Only Shree. But it is not only Shree. It is mainly Shree. She was quite close to KV, Neha, Shiv. But either that person got evicted or her trust was broken.

Because everyone can improve, I would give her feedback to let go of her guards a bit more. People are interested to get to know her better. (Although, I think that is mostly edited out). Show your vulnerable side. Stop baby sitting Shree.. He needs to find his own way too. He needs professional guidance to deal with his issues. You don't have to rescue him all the time. You are not Florence but Dipika. And you are damn close to perfection.

Originally posted by: Dr.Hippopotamus

@intruder: well this is life. life too dolti hai...toh life kay dolnay ke saath hippo dolta hai aur sach bolta hai...

@vitriol: we are not being shown everything...one cannot speak for everyone all the time. its not humanely possible ..i have seen her telling sree ghalat hai a 100 times...with my own ears. she is not his amma..that is all she can do

@dayaan: get well soon...and there is nothing to be angry about with you..burning is a natural human reaction.

@boss: i brought up a point from the show. it was not her personal life outside of the show. i never talk about her previous marriage..i was not even aware of all the details.

@intruder: yes u and few others are her true fan...i am real time.

@beth and intruder: good luck

@rishu brilliant post. i too find critiques of her as forced and not with substance. hence i dont give them importance..they look like just for the sake of it

Originally posted by: Dr.Hippopotamus

@vitriol: we are not being shown everything...one cannot speak for everyone all the time. its not humanely possible ..i have seen her telling sree ghalat hai a 100 times...with my own ears. she is not his amma..that is all she can do