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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wouldn't lie, got bored after a while with you justifying adulterers Boring! I'm even appalled that you have the gall to justify why two people who are selfish and insensitive are good people!

But yes, Nandini did receive compassion after 7 years of abuse. After she stole her best friend's husband. She's still a bitch and He's still a pig.

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Posted: 7 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: White..Magic

Btw, did you type this pravachan after drinking 'kheer'? 😆

You don't even know difference between falling in love with a single man and falling for a married man. You don't know difference between sleeping with a random guy and sleeping with your bestie's husband.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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@joonbai -- written very coherently and and also brave! hahahha... so you do ask very pertinent questions. the problem is the drama is really badly written that lot of these relevant questions are actually being buried.

so Q1. do those who make mistakes - do they have a right to be happy? like you said kunal and nandini are human but the CVs failed to humanize their characters enough to see them as just people. the disconnect is why people are not able to accept their actions. people have so much issues against cheating but lets think about it this way -- in how many dramas, does the guy dump his girlfriend and marry some girl he does not know but we are all supposed to be cheering for the wife. never mind the energy, love and commitment the girlfriend put in because she will always turn out to be evil. but what if she isn't? then, didn't he just betray her? break her heart? if we think about it that way, we are used to people breaking commitments all the time on ITV but we accept it as we are able to understand the situation sucks. here, the reason people are not able to relate to these characters at all is mostly a flaw in the writing.

Q2. were there issues in kunal's marriage? and is mauli painted too white? I would agree and disagree with you. people would say that this marriage was perfect but there is no such thing as perfect and so something went wrong somewhere. the problem is again the writing because it hasn't been conveyed in a direct manner. we are having to guess at the issues and that's a problem. most people watch dramas for time pass and don't really have energy to spare to figure out things. also, we love things over-explained to us for the most part. we love the zingers, the overdramatics. here, we got way too many stares and silences and we had no idea what these characters were thinking. would agree with you in some sense that mauli got painted a bit white in some sense but there were flaws very visible for those who wanted to see. again, she too came across as a bit of cardboard character and some of her actions don't really match with the sketch we got. for example, why on earth is she listening to those ladies and sitting in the house and crying and crying and crying? because the CVs have decided that the easiest way to get people involved is to see mauli cry buckets. well, maybe it works for some but for some, it is just plain annoying. there's only so much rona dhona I can take before I switch off and start fiddling on my phone. I watch tv as a time out.

Q3. should one stay in a loveless marriage? -- now that is the kicker of a question and is something we should be discussing. our divorce rates are rising and the two reasons I hear over and over are either lack of compatibility or EMA. now, who knows what actually happens in some of these marriages but our society is changing. while people still believe in marriage, there are also people who are no longer willing to accept less. maybe not as dramatically like in some parts of the world but if we look at the last census, there are 3 times more separated population than divorced. why is that? so in that case, the questions we should be asking is what does it take for a marriage to be successful? what kind of work should one be putting in? what kind of issues can lead to distance? what kind of scars can lead to emotional impairment that might impact relationships? what do people want and require in a marriage? how is society changing and why aren't people willing to accept less?... so many pertinent issues could have been discussed through this drama but the writing didn't really explore that.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silpa91

So long post.Didn't read the whole post.For me kundini are shameless and heartless people.Their relationship seems like lust only not love to me.There is no justification for their kaand.Nothing will change my opinion.Hate kundini.



Exactly.. no sacrifice or whatever can change my opinion abt Kundini. They are remorseless, selfish n literally inhuman. They plan a date n romance on same day they had confrontation with Mauli. They know she was shattered cuz of them. But who cares? Romance ( 🤢 ) comes first..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TruthIsBitter

I read your post very patiently and I am amused that you or few people think that Kunal being married does not make a difference? Marriage is a commitment where you are bound to be true to your partner. Kunal did not feel that he was in a loveless marriage for so many years. Only after seeing Nandini dancing he realized that? for all these years the qualities that he liked in Mauli suddenly were not something he wanted anymore? if at all he was not happy with her, he should have directly told her that I am not happy with you and I dont love you anymore.

as fer Nandini is concerned that woman is a piece of shit. She did not get love for 7 years, was abused, tortured. and still she did not think twice before sleeping with her best friend's husband? not getting love means you snatch someone else's love? Mauli's love... Dida's welcoming her, Kunal's mother's care.. all these were not she was fine with? she needed a man's love? as fer I have seen such victims are so broken that forget about sleeping with a married man they take LONG to even trust a normal man.

as for your justification that just because they have cheated they are not bad people... pls stop that. if they were good they would have thought about Mauli at least once. Nandini would have gone away long back and would have thought about doing something worthy and become independent. If kunal was a good person he would have at least thought about his mom or Dida or at least be honest to tell Mauli everything before he was caught red handed and if all these dont make sense to you let me tell you any person with 1% of goodness in them will not set up a date and do their raasleela when a person has begged and ran away devastated from that house just some time ago in that state. for courtesy sake they would have thought for once if Mauli reached home safe.

This is not the first time where a Indian TV has shown EMA. No show has glorified it or showed it as a divine connection ever. The execution and characterizations sucks and no amount of essays will justify that. Having said all that just like you even I am surprised to read this kind of posts too.


@bold exactly !!!
They don't care abt anyone . They are so very selfish . How can they have a blissful life after breaking someone to such an extent dat she won't be able to trust anyone in life anymore?
Beside being a bad husband , Kunal is also a bad son .
He is ready to live his old mother & grandmother for Nandini . No sense of responsibilities ? He is not a dudh peeta bachha.

For Nandini I want to say she sudnt ruin other people's happiness just bcz she can't find her own.
And ofcourse it's lust undoubtedly cz
Selfish love is wanting to be with someone because of how they make you feel. Selfless love is wanting someone to be happy regardless of their choices. Selfish love is not really love, it's fear of losing someone that makes you feel "safe, in control, secure".

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Posted: 7 years ago
#26
i hate all people who write big essays.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Kunal actually ruined Nandini's chance of perhaps finding happiness elsewhere. Once she began to recover from trauma, Kunal, Mauli, and Nandini went to dinner where they met an old classmate of theirs who seemed like a good guy. He liked Nandini and was still interested in her. Mauli tried to get something to happen but Kunal spoiled it all with is jealous and childish behavior. It's that epi which completely destroyed Kunal's character for me. In the presence of his own wife, he ruined another woman's chance of maybe moving on for good and finding real happiness which won't have spoiled anyone's lives. She could have dated that guy and married him. He seemed educated as well and at that point in time, nandini had no feelings for Kunal and kind of enjoyed the attention the mutual friend was giving her. But Kunal couldn't take it. Now as it stands, he is responsible for destroying the future of 2 women...one is his own wife whom he treats like a stranger now and the other is an abuse victim. Nothing this guy does can be justified and as for Nandini, I think her fans should also hate Kunal just as much as Mauli's fans do. She had won her independence and could have led a very smooth and happy life even without having his man to sleep with. She could have worked or done anything else but here she has sabotaged her own potential and lost the trust of the one person who treated her like the family she never had.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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hello people, i dont watch the show regularly nor i am a regular member.. i watch few episodes the important ones here nd there nd i visit this forum to know the opinions of general public regarding this show.. @joonbai your opinion compelled me to share mine.. i dont watch this show bcz of the gross reality like how it doesnt matter what kunal did the burden of correcting it falls upon mauli and nandini.. like mauli HAS to take steps to bachaofy her marriage despite not a single mistake of hers and nandini HAS to bear all the insults... i m not saying whether nandini is right or wrong.. what wrong she did is to mauli bcz she was her bff.. only mauli has right to punish her or be angry with her.. she was not in a legal or moral commitment with someone.. she didnt cheat on anyone... as for having an affair with a married man then every person has individual moral values, for me it is wrong for her its not.. its her life her decisions..unlike kunal who is in a married relationship with mauli... he has no right to defy marriage.. if u r unhappy in ur marriage TALK, communicate ur problems or if u fell out of love again talk divorce and get away.. marriage is a commitment till divorce... life is all abt the choices you make.. the fact that kunal didnt care to talk to mauli nd chose to have an affair makes him completely wrong for me.. in this case it doesnt matter what emotional turmoil u r going through u have to step up nd make sure u r not hurting someone bcz of ur actions bcz u commited to not do so to that person.. nd abt kunal felling out of love with mauli in a couple of months.. i really dont understand bcz they were happy and content till nandini entered their lives.. may be i dont understand love or as people r saying they depicted it badly on screen.. the point is NO ONE deserves an adulterous spouse... so nothing justify kunals actions not even love...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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We well know that this marrital affair everwhere is happening...but problem is not that. Problem two spinless persons about selfish behaviour and their cunning attitudes...as well as they called their extra marrital life so calling "pure love"..that's only we couldn't tolerate that do they know what the meaning of true love??😡.. really discusting their unconditionally love..😡i agreed .that somepeople prefer to stay loveless marriage...after they are breaking and searching second chance...

Mauli-Kunal story is not like that ..becoz nandini before come in their life ..they were beautiful couple ..and loving husband & wife ...as well aas they are doctors as well as they had great chemistry working wise &family wise..they had understood people each other as same nandini has mesmerised to seeing their realtionship..what a husband & wife.?. but now kunal is making mauli to beg nandini ...how could turn one night as nandini's lover..😡 it's not posdible..in real so many people are having affair without knowing spouses they are keeping secretely..but this kunal who had made relationship with mauli for 7 years with loving &caring husband..how could he change suddenly?? now he told to mauli that she was just friend..& loveless wife ..nothing else ..but his true love is nandini ..he is the only saw nandini & dancing in the rain after that he falled her beauty..how ..??so they should tell that this extra marrital affair "LUST" extra marital affiar is annoying to every human life ..so we can't consider love..because this nandini-kunal who are telling that their dirty relationship so " true love" really sick...i can agree their obession &attaction...but this is not a love ..defintely "lust" because eachother knowingly cheated mauli😡


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hello,

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