BOTH SIDES BROKE VOWS

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T4Thahaanfan

@T4Thahaanfan

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

On day 1 of their married life Zoya broke her vow of trusting Adi and sharing things with him. She didn't trust their love that much as to share those kharab sms messages right from the first one onward... 😕

On day 2 of their married life Adi broke his vow of loving her and standing by, her even if they were angry or had fights. He sided with his mother and dropped Zoya like a hot brick. And while his brother and father, and even Anjana (reluctantly🤢) forgave her, he continued giving her a cold shoulder, even in the intimacy of their room. 😲

Should this Story of Love be renamed as a Story of Broken Promises?? 😭

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Deepthy

@deeps07

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 7 years ago

bepannaah is a show about realities of life...its practicality...for me almost 80%of the show has been real and practical(20% out for eid celeb rajveer shooting on adityas hand...tiger.. nagin and mass food poisoning and recovery within hours😆)..and i would put all the other crap shows only 40% being practical..

we need to understand what is marriage to understand what this show is showing..there is no book or manuals in marriage to follow for a prefect depiction of perfectly married couple...all these vachans and rules are important..but that doesnt mean anyone will be able to follow it line by line in the same sequence throughout every single moment..its about how we manage to prioritize each and every vow based on love and care for each other..

its easy to say she broke this he broke that..but when she broke her vachan to never hide anything from him..she also maintained her vachan to protect him from any harm..and she didnt do it because she was married to him..she did it because she loved him..and cared for him..she was not following a rule book there...and his promise about him standing by her side🤔..this is ridiculous😕...he stood by her side every single time when he knew she was not on the wrong side...marriage doesnt mean stand by ur spouse's side even if she says ridiculous things which is not even possible😕..i am glad he stood by anjana for this..he stood by truth..but he also stood by zoyas side while asking forgiveness from family..thats where the vachan mattered...and that too was not because he was married to her..it was because he loved her and cared for her..and trusted her...yes aditya is still angry with zoya..because whatever arjun has said it was for himself..papa hooda and anjana, aditya never judged or blamed her anytime..u need to understand his situation to understand his hurt...aditya was way happy that anjana was showing signs of acceptance towards zoya and he was ecstatic ..thats when zoya had this misunderstanding and it ruined everything...he is upset and heartbroken😒..following marriage vows doesnt mean one does not feel things like normal humans.😕.

this emphasis on breaking of vows and rules irks me...this is life..when pooja and yash broke their marriage vows it was for their own selfish reasons which harmed their spouses..but aditya and zoya manipulated(i cant call this as breaking of vows) their vows based on circumstance..they did it for each other and for their love for each other..thats what makes all the difference..

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SHABLA MUSTAFA

@shabla

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: deeps07
bepannaah is a show about realities of life...its practicality...for me almost 80%of the show has been real and practical(20% out for eid celeb rajveer shooting on adityas hand...tiger.. nagin and mass food poisoning and recovery within hours😆)..and i would put all the other crap shows only 40% being practical..

we need to understand what is marriage to understand what this show is showing..there is no book or manuals in marriage to follow for a prefect depiction of perfectly married couple...all these vachans and rules are important..but that doesnt mean anyone will be able to follow it line by line in the same sequence throughout every single moment..its about how we manage to prioritize each and every vow based on love and care for each other..

its easy to say she broke this he broke that..but when she broke her vachan to never hide anything from him..she also maintained her vachan to protect him from any harm..and she didnt do it because she was married to him..she did it because she loved him..and cared for him..she was not following a rule book there...and his promise about him standing by her side🤔..this is ridiculous😕...he stood by her side every single time when he knew she was not on the wrong side...marriage doesnt mean stand by ur spouse's side even if she says ridiculous things which is not even possible😕..i am glad he stood by anjana for this..he stood by truth..but he also stood by zoyas side while asking forgiveness from family..thats where the vachan mattered...and that too was not because he was married to her..it was because he loved her and cared for her..and trusted her...yes aditya is still angry with zoya..because whatever arjun has said it was for himself..papa hooda and anjana, aditya never judged or blamed her anytime..u need to understand his situation to understand his hurt...aditya was way happy that anjana was showing signs of acceptance towards zoya and he was ecstatic ..thats when zoya had this misunderstanding and it ruined everything...he is upset and heartbroken😒..following marriage vows doesnt mean one does not feel things like normal humans.😕.
this emphasis on breaking of vows and rules irks me...this is life..when pooja and yash broke their marriage vows it was for their own selfish reasons which harmed their spouses..but aditya and zoya manipulated(i cant call this as breaking of vows) their vows based on circumstance..they did it for each other and for their love for each other..thats what makes all the difference..

Agree deeps...you said it all..

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Antara

@rachufan

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Zoya speaks less but loves Aditya most her every action showed for her actually he is everything .she did a huge mistake but she is not totally wrong according to her anjana is the only one person who hate her she heard her voice saw poison bottle koi bhi yahi karega she realized her mistake said everyone to sorry she never says any word about anjana

Right is right it doesn't need any support but sometimes we unintionally do something wrong at that timewe need a person who stand by our side and makes us understand what we did wrong how hurt he or she is !

Ab to anjana galat bhi hui to zoya ki itni himmat nahi hogi ki unko blame kar sake

I know none will agree with me

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Antara

@rachufan

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Love is a pure pious feeling it is not responsibility ki aapko eisa karna hai because I said u so I will follow

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Shruti

@shrutiraina007

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Well written Deeps!!

Aditya is really hurt. One day back he was fighting with his mother on not to put blame on Zoya for the poison thing and Zoya not did the same.

He doesn't know what Zoya is facing right now.

Also, which guy or girl likes their spouse to blame their mom/dad for attempting murder?

What bepannah is, is realistic.

Also, he has vowed to not leave her, which he is still following.

The scene between him and Zoya where he explains the same makes it damn clear.

And Zoya, she might be breaking all the vows. But it is for him.

She is not breaking the vow of loving him unconditionally, protecting him, and stopping any mishap happening to him or his family.

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Lilly321

@Lilly321

Inactive

Posted: 7 years ago

Adi reminded zo of their vachans Nd said that even though he was angry , he will always be there for her .

I think when Zoya will sort out this BM mess , she will inform Adi about the BM herself

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Khushi....

@Khushi....

Navigator

Posted: 7 years ago

I don't fully agree.

Zoya broke one vow of always telling Aditya the truth in order to protect him and his family, that was another of her vows. Right now Zoya believes that to protect Aditya, she can't tell him the truth. So his life is obviously more important than her keeping a vow that she'd always tell him the thruth. Of course, she could just tell him the truth without the blackmailer finding out, but this is a serial and they want to prolong the drama for as long as possible. Zoya has faith in her love and Aditya, otherwise she wouldn't have gone against her family to marry him and she wouldn't have been brave enough to accuse Anjana in front of everyone. It shows Zoya trusts Aditya.

As for Aditya, I don't think he broke his vow at all. He didn't drop Zoya like a hot brick, he disagreed with her and he was right to. Zoya had after all just accused his mother of trying to kill her whole family. But Aditya didn't let Zoya go, he didn't push her out, he told her he is there for her. Besides he made a vow that he'd fight with her, but he'd always make up with her, and he's doing that. Being angry and hurt with someone doesn't mean you're no longer on their side and doesn't mean there's no love.

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