Waseem...I cannot justify you anymore

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I normally try to justify waseem and his actions and paint him as a grey character (which I'm sure he still is, a grey character I mean)
But today...today his actions apalled me.
He kicked his daughter out because she had the audacity to love someone else? She didn't even run away with the guy this time! All she said was that she loved aditya. He kicks her out for that? And leaves her with the guy who is not even married to her? I mean we know how honourable aditya is, how gentlemanly he is. But waseem believes that aditya is the wrong person for his daughter doesn't he? Waseem distrusts aditya and his intentions doesn't he? How could he do that then o_o and that too in the middle of the night!
What absolutely ripped my heart out was when zoya says "aap kahein gai tau hum aditya sai shaadi nahee karein gai. Kisi sai shaadi nahee karein gai"
She would have left her love, her one chance at true love for her father and he ...kicked her out? All because she had feelings for someone? If she had married aditya secretly or run away with him (which I'm glad she didn't do since this time around everything has to be different) i might have understood waseem's POV but this?
And them aditya gets down on his knees and swears he'll keep zoya happy and still nothing? No softening demeanor?
Beti hai iss ka matlab yeh tau nahee keh puppet mil gaya. So what if she married the wrong guy once. It's not her fault he cheated on her. That could have happened even in an arranged marriage!
Waseem was a terrible father today. And I hope what roshnaq said comes to pass. That waseem lives to regret the words he threw at zoya.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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So today we do agree Waseem can't be justified anymore.It was nice to discuss with you about Waseem as i get to know different perspective and i myself try to analyze him from unbiased lens but today this man again kicked a new low. Aditya vowed him today that he will keep her happy and safe and fulfilled as long as alive for Saat Janam.. a loving father would have atleast considered those words. A loving father or a father with a heart would have atleast try to understand his daughter's point. But not Waseem cause all his words were just that words.. Khokle. Today he was sulking and i disapproved him more for that. It is all about His ego.. His dhoka.. His pain.. His wishes.Sadly saying it again he is a very realistic character.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: alizia_malik

So today we do agree Waseem can't be justified anymore.It was nice to discuss with you about Waseem as i get to know different perspective and i myself try to analyze him from unbiased lens but today this man again kicked a new low. Aditya vowed him today that he will keep her happy and safe and fulfilled as long as alive for Saat Janam.. a loving father would have atleast considered those words. A loving father or a father with a heart would have atleast try to understand his daughter's point. But not Waseem cause all his words were just that words.. Khokle. Today he was sulking and i disapproved him more for that. It is all about His ego.. His dhoka.. His pain.. His wishes.Sadly saying it again he is a very realistic character.


Likewise! It was nice discussing waseem with you :)
And yes today it was all about him and his ego. The words he said to zoya about Dhoka and all were simply illogical. Yash, okay I can understand that. Don't agree with it but there's a little logic there. But now? She didn't marry aditya! She loves him. Is that grounds for disowning your daughter and in such a manner? It's waseem and his ego talking, as you so accurately wrote. In his delusional world, he,Waseem, simply cannot be wrong.
Not even when aditya swears to protect and love, does his heart melt. Isn't that what a father wants? A man who can treat his daughter like a princess? As far as I know, yash didn't make such promises. Nor did arshad. Not the way aditya did.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Actually we will find men like Waseem in many households who have some kind of a superiority complex and love to dominate women. I won't call them MCPs but they do underestimate women and take them for granted. Waseem is one of them. As long as Zoya lived her life on his terms, she was his sabse pyaari beti. Once she goes against him and takes her own decision, she becomes a dhokebaaz for him. I still don't understand how can parents call their children dhokebaaz if they take their life's own decisions. Parents do want their children to be independent after they grow up and stand on their own feet. Time comes when parents want to stop taking complete responsibilities of their children once they stand on their own feet.
I don't think Zoya betrayed Waseem even when she had chosen Yash. She thought he is good for her. As a father, Waseem warned her. When she didn't listen to him and then faced the consequences, she was responsible for it and not Waseem.

Waseem did choose a right guy for Zoya but he forced his decisions on her and that was his mistake. He may be a good person but today he did injustice to Zoya. He faced humiliations because of his own ego.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Honestly, i have never been able to justify Waseem! 🤢 Not even when he was right about Yash! 😛 Waseem is a highly egotistical man...and for him, his daughters are bound to obey him and his wishes. If they dont, then he sulks and gets angry... As a father, he has the right to try to stop his daughters from mistakes or from faulty decisions, but he does not have the right to impose his decisions on his daughters anyway!
Yesterday, he stooped so low that he literally forced Zoya to comply to his wishes...and today, he spoke rubbish about dhoka and all that! What dhoka, you idiot? With Yash, okay...but then she faced terrible consequences of defying Waseem too...and her punishment never ended because Waseem never 'forgot' to taunt her or remind her of her 'crime' in the past! 🤢🤢
Today, that 'defiant' and 'disobedient' daughter and her 'nasty' lover were begging for forgiveness and understanding...they were practically on their knees, and this egoistic man still THREW them out!!!! 😡😡 Hes just so stupid! He does not deserve a single ounce of sympathy or empathy from anyone! 😡
On the contrary, I love Papa Hooda! (I love his enigmatic personality! He has that sexy oomph! 😳😃😃 But thats beside the point!😃😛) So Papa Hooda is actually sincere with his sons.. He was ready to let go of his ego for his son's happiness... He is also shady... and hes manipulative too...but hes probably a more understanding father than Waseem. He did give Adi a hard time in the beginning, but that was because Adi used to be very frustrating too... 😛 Since the time both son and dad have mended their fences, I see a devoted father in Papa Hooda! 😳❤️
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nobody in the family can justify him not even roshnaq and rightly so. I think he should have had a heart to heart conversation with zoya giving her freedom and saying that he forgave her for running away with yash he just burdened zoya instead
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Posted: 7 years ago
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The thing is, waseem is to be blamed for this whole mess.. Yes, others were at fault too but he kind of started this whole process by getting Arshad in the picture to knock out Aditya ..
When he said that he was always there for zoya ,my reaction was, huh what say that again?
So this is what I have to say to waseem, Zosh, jungle track, suicide track ,Eid party kidnapping, Mumbai floods,where were you Mr. Doting daddy? I believe a certain Mr. Hooda that you so dearly hate was always beside your daughter to save her from each n every situation, n this is when he did not even love her. You hate a man who can forgo his self respect to see the love of his life happy ? Can't your eyes see the truth ? You think you are the smartest guy in the family, then why is it that only the ladies in the house can see the truth ? How is it that they can see your girl happy with the guy you loathe..your daughter has been punished enough for her past ,she doesnt deserve all this hatred ,she even offered her happiness on a platter for you ! The least you could do is to try n understand her ,maybe forgiving her is the next step?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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You.r right..being angry was.ok..even not accepting aditya was acceptable..but throwing an unmarried daughter out saying.u marry aditya or anyone else or no one in particular was the cheapest hurtful.thing a father could say..though his dialogues and actions were heartwrenching..that decision was a very wrong one..he could have simply refused to.let her marry aditya..and maybe break ties with her letting her live in the house..but he did what .most of the fathers.in india.does..its obvious..he wanted her to suffer for her mistake again..for the pain she caused him..to regret loving aditya...that was his intention in chucking her out..but the twist here is..aditya does love her..and he will.be there by her side forever..and wasseem.will repent not understanding that...for sure...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Waseem throwing her out of the house because she chose her happiness is very horrendous act by a father. Come on she is a betrayed widow. Doesn't she deserve happiness/love...yet again.
Does she have control over it...NO!! She kept on shouting Hamne Bahut Koshish Ki but she failed miserably as her heart had to kneel. Aapki Kushi Sabse Jyada Maine Rakti Hai... just proved Waseem spineless, because if it would've mattered to him he wouldn't have disowned her and dragging her out of the house. He might still be anger but not THIS.
Zoya went down on her knees and was ready to cloud her happiness of not marrying Adi or anyone else just proved that as a daughter she just yearns for her father's happiness against her's.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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what didnt sink in with me was the way he made it look like he asked zoya hundred times before fixing her marriage and did all according to zoya's wish...dude who called arshad's parents and talked about alliance ? you did not zoya...when he asked her the very first time to meet arshad zoya straight away refused for any marriage proposal, then who kept forward the condition that she will have to meet arshad if she wants to organise hooda's party? you did...even before the party zoya told in clear words about how she cannot fall in love again...then who wanted her to agree for 2 weeks of courtship with arshad? you did...and after janmastami drama who told that he will forcefully get zoya engaged to arshad against her will ? you did...So basically waseem created all this mess by himself...he is the one who put his daughter in such in tough position...now no point cribbing about it...

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