in defense of waseem - Page 4

I dont want him to marry his girl to Aditya, but I did not like the way he cornered her into a marriage with Arshad. It is only 1 yr post Yash death and she is just taking the pieces of her life. A marriage in which not just her husband was dead but also she was cheated.

See not all parents are open minded n that is one of Waseem's biggest flaw. He is patriarchal figure who is controlling too. Just bcoz Zoya made a mistake he was willing to force his decision n get Noor married even though she was very young. He is not Roshana to talk to Zoya n make her understand his view. He indirectly forced his decision on Zoya n I wont deny that. But what was his intent behind that? He might dislike Adi but his intent was not to wage a war on Adi but to ensure Zoya got married to a guy who would give her a secure, happy future - again in his opinion. As for the red street incident only Mahi n Madhu knew n I doubt if they had a chit chat with Roshana Waseem on that. I also doubt if Zoya would have brought that up. About Zoya's suicide attempt, I doubt Noor or Zoya would have told them about that n since that had happened a long time ago n since Zoya herself has moved past that, y will she bring that up? The trouble is Adi made a bad first impression n that stayed with Waseem and no matter how well Adi behaved later on it did not matter to him. And its wrong to say Waseem had no contribution towards Zoya's success. Waseem cleared off the debt and despite having a comfortable bungalow in Mussoorie and where he was the most influential person, he decided to stay back in Mumbai where he is a nobody and isn't that a sacrifice in one manner? Yes he left Zoya on her own but when she was beyond reasoning what else could he do? And y do we expect parents to be perfect and forgive n understand each n every mistake we make? Aren't they humans? Don't they have the right to get angry like we do at times and be miffed at us? If Waseem was wrong in leaving Zoya, then Zoya too was wrong in forsaking her family for Yash. Just like how we children make mistakes, parents too make mistakes 😊