Will you still want to cancel divorce

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Posted: 7 years ago
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If due to this case and shariya board Kabir end up giving her second talak then I do t see any hope in their relationship and then they should stop trying to work on their marriage

I am not favoring Zara but Marriage is where you accommodate each other's wishes, compromise

Not just be a boss and want your partners to change according to you
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Posted: 7 years ago
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The main problem always was Kabeer wanted Zara to change and follow his ways because he believed he is right and Zara wanted Kabeer to change and follow her ways because she believed she is right and he is wrong...they never thought of finding a mid way...untill they understand that they need to find mid way things can't work between them...why isn't kabeer taking back talaq, it is solely because he knows they are the most happiest couple when everything is fine around the most dissatisfied couple when things does not happen the way they want...he still believes it...he knows till now everything is fine so they are happy, I'm sure he was waiting for time where things doesdnot happen the way they want.. and see whether they can work together then or will work as unhealthy competitors then before cancelling talaq...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Today's episode was a little depressing. Feel like when it comes to SB Kabeer doesn't want to compete with his wife specially when he knows how strong her character is and she gets things done . Her being a role model and grabbing people's attention seems to bring out kabeer's jealousy. Probably that's why he said "this can only create problems between us". Zara seems to want to take on this role as she is really good at it but on the other hand she knows it will create more problems with her husband who doesn't want to share his position with a girl specially if it's his own wife. I'm sad that her good deeds fighting for the rights of others is destroying her own life. The masjid case earned her first talaq and now this position might break the trust and bond she worked so hard and suffered so much to build . Seems like there is no winning here . If she doesn't take the position and gets divorced she loses and misses out and if she does take it she will lose her marriage even faster with kabeers ego.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Houstonmom

Today's episode was a little depressing. Feel like when it comes to SB Kabeer doesn't want to compete with his wife specially when he knows how strong her character is and she gets things done . Her being a role model and grabbing people's attention seems to bring out kabeer's jealousy. Probably that's why he said "this can only create problems between us". Zara seems to want to take on this role as she is really good at it but on the other hand she knows it will create more problems with her husband who doesn't want to share his position with a girl specially if it's his own wife. I'm sad that her good deeds fighting for the rights of others is destroying her own life. The masjid case earned her first talaq and now this position might break the trust and bond she worked so hard and suffered so much to build . Seems like there is no winning here . If she doesn't take the position and gets divorced she loses and misses out and if she does take it she will lose her marriage even faster with kabeers ego.


This is the whole point
This is the perfect opportunity for them to find out if they find a middle way and work their relationship out or not... if they can't make it now, they can never do it ever
They have to make it happen if they want to be together
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanjhari


This is the whole point
This is the perfect opportunity for them to find out if they find a middle way and work their relationship out or not... if they can't make it now, they can never do it ever
They have to make it happen if they want to be together


In today's episode kabeer was so upset accusing Zara of not asking him about his decision in regards to their talaq. I loved her answer that he never complained or in other words never communicated with her told her how he feels because if he did she never would have given him a chance to divorce her she would have worked it out before reaching that point . She pretty much told him she doesn't want anything and the only reason why she took the land files is because he wouldn't take the money from her to pay off that monster . Looks like her respected her for that and knows she thinks of others even if she has to make self sacrifices. Their biggest problem is lack of communication they don't sit down and discuss their problems kabeer acts right away even though he claims to have thought about things long and hard. Personally I don't see how since he doesn't realize everything that is happening right under his nose
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't thinks it's only about Kabeer's ego...he don't want to impose his opinions on her her, he just requests but at the end of the Zara does what she wants but Zara expects Kabeer to do want she wants, Zara has the capability to make others accept to her wishes and wants...that does not mean they don't understand it or will do it happily...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sravss

I don't thinks it's only about Kabeer's ego...he don't want to impose his opinions on her her, he just requests but at the end of the Zara does what she wants but Zara expects Kabeer to do want she wants, Zara has the capability to make others accept to her wishes and wants...that does not mean they don't understand it or will do it happily...


For the first time she seems terrified. She is scared to make the decision of taking on the position even though she is very passionate about it . She doesn't want to risk her marriage specially because she knows her husband and his thinking . She is always looking over her shoulder walking on eggshells around him. Up until the first talaq she did what she sees right not caring about anyone's opinion. Now she is genuinely scared constantly asking him want him to make the decision for her

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