What's wrong with Ananya?

I really like her, she's an awesome person! But what's wrong with her?? Rithvik said to her face he doesn't love her, he doesn't trust women...and he probably won't change!! Then why is she eager to marry him? Chalo mana...she loves him, he is a good person with a great heart. All that is fine...but woman! Have some confidence!! Find a man who you love and LOVES YOU BACK!! Am I wrong for saying this??

Sadly this is the reality of marriages nowadays.

agree with you, fine with other things like we are friends and we can manage but what bothered me was... when he said I had about 200 girlfriends what if I won't change? she replied you are not you if you change, does that mean she is fine with his GF? then at the end she said she wants loyalty.

That is what makes here character so doubtful ... why can't she fight for his decision to stay single by being his friend.. what is this Reeva acted silly so could to get married so Ritwik has to get married to Ananya.

Ananya isn't just confident she is over-confident that with time Rikky will love her back. Its sad she is playing with her own life.

Originally posted by: Ianoconic.

Ananya isn't just confident she is over-confident that with time Rikky will love her back. Its sad she is playing with her own life.

Absolutely true! This conversation was very absurd on Ananya's side. As Rithwik was being upfront and kept all his doubts regarding their in front. She should have not agreed to this alliance just on the hope that Rithwik will change or will love her.

I have different opinion about this..

Love as the basis of marriage is just recent phenomena in all human societies. For all these years arranged marriages was norm and it worked very well for the societies. Even today in India ppl get married through arranged marriage and they r not hopelessly in love with each other when they get married. I believe trust, frienshsjip, companionship and compatibility is much more important to live with the person than love. People can hate me for saying this but love is really an excagerated thing. It's unideal and romanticized so much nowadays.

Yes today societies are changing and so called love is becoming basis for marriage. But wat is definition of love itself. It differs from person to person. It's very subjective wat love is then how can anyone quantify and decide Whether it is true love or not . There is nothing like true love but just differnt perceptions of love. For someone friendship can be love or more than love as it is shown in ADHM movie.

Yes it's a show and we all want leads to love each other and then get married. But I believe mutual compatibility and friendhship as a base of marriage is equally strong as someone's love. And arranged marriages in India are good examples to prove this point.

Here Ananya somehow believe ritwik will start loving her but I think she is also ok with friendship loyalty as basis of marriage. She said clearly she doesn't want rotwik to love anyone else means the basis is loyalty for her. Maybe love is loyalty in her definition. I personally don't see anything wrong in marrying someone for other reasons than love as love is just vague concept which can't be quantified or defined.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I have different opinion about this..

Love as the basis of marriage is just recent phenomena in all human societies. For all these years arranged marriages was norm and it worked very well for the societies. Even today in India ppl get married through arranged marriage and they r not hopelessly in love with each other when they get married. I believe trust, frienshsjip, companionship and compatibility is much more important to live with the person than love. People can hate me for saying this but love is really an excagerated thing. It's unideal and romanticized so much nowadays.

Yes today societies are changing and so called love is becoming basis for marriage. But wat is definition of love itself. It differs from person to person. It's very subjective wat love is then how can anyone quantify and decide Whether it is true love or not . There is nothing like true love but just differnt perceptions of love. For someone friendship can be love or more than love as it is shown in ADHM movie.

Yes it's a show and we all want leads to love each other and then get married. But I believe mutual compatibility and friendhship as a base of marriage is equally strong as someone's love. And arranged marriages in India are good examples to prove this point.

Here Ananya somehow believe ritwik will start loving her but I think she is also ok with friendship loyalty as basis of marriage. She said clearly she doesn't want rotwik to love anyone else means the basis is loyalty for her. Maybe love is loyalty in her definition. I personally don't see anything wrong in marrying someone for other reasons than love as love is just vague concept which can't be quantified or defined.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I have different opinion about this..

Love as the basis of marriage is just recent phenomena in all human societies. For all these years arranged marriages was norm and it worked very well for the societies. Even today in India ppl get married through arranged marriage and they r not hopelessly in love with each other when they get married. I believe trust, frienshsjip, companionship and compatibility is much more important to live with the person than love. People can hate me for saying this but love is really an excagerated thing. It's unideal and romanticized so much nowadays.

Yes today societies are changing and so called love is becoming basis for marriage. But wat is definition of love itself. It differs from person to person. It's very subjective wat love is then how can anyone quantify and decide Whether it is true love or not . There is nothing like true love but just differnt perceptions of love. For someone friendship can be love or more than love as it is shown in ADHM movie.

Yes it's a show and we all want leads to love each other and then get married. But I believe mutual compatibility and friendhship as a base of marriage is equally strong as someone's love. And arranged marriages in India are good examples to prove this point.

Here Ananya somehow believe ritwik will start loving her but I think she is also ok with friendship loyalty as basis of marriage. She said clearly she doesn't want rotwik to love anyone else means the basis is loyalty for her. Maybe love is loyalty in her definition. I personally don't see anything wrong in marrying someone for other reasons than love as love is just vague concept which can't be quantified or defined.