What Arnav tells Anjali about Khushi IPK

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Posted: 7 years ago
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At one point, Anjali is feeling very bad/left out when Arnav is spending a great deal of his time with Khushi (after kidnapping scenario etc). At this time, Arnav and Anjali have a talk.
During this talk, Arnav tells Anjali that he fell in love with Khushi only after marriage.

If ever there was a lie, that is it. It is so clear that he fell in love with her over and over again far before and leading up to their marriage as well.

So WHY did he say this?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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No, it wasn't, lol. He explains to DI that he only really loved Khushi after they got married and she was like "REALLY?!"
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is a good point of discussion. I agree, there were several clear indicators that Arnav had fallen in love with Khushi before their marriage, one of the big signs being his realization after he thought Khushi had been in an accident, and then afterwards when he decides to tell her "Kyun farak padhta hai", before he witnessed her with Shyam on the terrace. So he was actually already ready to tell her he loves her - then why did he tell Anjali that he fell in love with her after marriage? It's something to ponder upon.

When he did see her with Shyam and when everything fell apart however, his newfound love for her had shattered. Maybe not completely diminished, but it had been broken and to regain that took time.

Personally, I think he truly, completely and irrevocably fell in love with her during the kidnapping track. True love surpasses the doubts, hurdles, separation, anger, hatred, everything. That, for him, really happened when he started to trust her and realize she is innocent. That period was a huge turning point for him and their relationship, maybe he was referring to that.
Edited by ItsRain - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Arnav lied to convince the fragile Doll who shouldn't be hurt even if it kills anyone in the process. That Arnav and Khushi were injured and almost killed didn't matter to anyone in the family but only Anjali Jha mattered.
Anjali was clingy & being absolutely ridiculous because she always wanted to remain 1st priority in Arnav's life. Arnav was convincing her that he married Khushi for her. Dumb anjali didn't understand why would he marry Khushi for her unless what snake was accused was true. She overlooked that and accepted that she was important but not shyam was guilty. She herself had seen him falling for Khushi. Arnav had been in love and was going to confess to Khushi.He married her because he loved her and wanted her to be with him.
Arnav wouldn't marry anyone just because shyam was involved with a woman. Yeah Arnav lied that he fell in love for Khushi after marriage.
Lol Arnav agreed to La too when she asked tum mujhse pyaar to toh karte ho na when he came to take her to RM.
So don't take his pyaar word seriously. For him LOVE word matters.

Btw Arnav always put her 1st but she however didnt reciprocate the same if she put Arnav 1st she should have been happy seeing him happy after so long.

But nope she always put her husband 1st.

Her behaviour wasn't appropriate as an elder sister after everything Arnav did for her & what he had been through. Anjali was the most confused delusional character in the show.


Edited by renee.bee - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: renee.bee

Arnav lied to convince the fragile Doll who shouldn't be hurt even if it kills anyone in the process. That Arnav and Khushi were injured and almost killed didn't matter to anyone in the family but only Anjali Jha mattered.

Anjali was clingy & being absolutely ridiculous because she always wanted to remain 1st priority in Arnav's life. Arnav was convincing her that he married Khushi for her. Dumb anjali didn't understand why would he marry Khushi for her unless what snake was accused was true. She overlooked that and accepted that she was important but not shyam was guilty. She herself had seen him falling for Khushi. Arnav had been in love and was going to confess to Khushi.He married her because he loved her and wanted her to be with him.
Arnav wouldn't marry anyone just because shyam was involved with a woman. Yeah Arnav lied that he fell in love for Khushi after marriage.
Lol Arnav agreed to La too when she asked tum mujhse pyaar to toh karte ho na when he came to take her to RM.
So don't take his pyaar word seriously. For him LOVE word matters.

Btw Arnav always put her 1st but she however didnt reciprocate the same if she put Arnav 1st she should have been happy seeing him happy after so long.

But nope she always put her husband 1st.

Her behaviour wasn't appropriate as an elder sister after everything Arnav did for her & what he had been through. Anjali was the most confused delusional character in the show.





Completely agree with you ... I think Arnav loved khushi way before the hate marriage .. initially he tried to resist the attraction by using rude words and being rude with khushi .. he tried to convince himself she didn't matter but she did ... some clarity cane around that havan day when he thought he lost her ..he reacted in a way any lover would ...& he accepted that khushi meant more than what he wanted to assume and he also realized his heart beats for her... now seeing khushi in Shyam's arms broke him but he still married her and tied her to him when he could have done anything else to keep her away from his family ... so his love for her may have been covered by distrust ... but I feel Arnav loved khushi way more and deep than khushi in fact ... but his love and respect and care for his sister was way above and beyond any feeling he felt for khushi or anyone .. thx to Anjali s clingy nature... he never really expressed all the love he felt for khushi I felt. His sister managed to occupy first spot in his priority list always. After kidnapping , he openly showed he wanted khushi by his side always and he also declared he loved her to his sister and khushi .
For some reason , Anjali is shown as this motherly figure to him . When all she did was cling on to him and never let him breath and live his own life..she was happy as long as she was pampered and mollycoddled by her brother and family ... which happened all the time.. most of the time she was just stubborn and selfish ,. . I was always mad how Anjali was considered this sad victim out of the situation and not khushi . In fact khushi was the one who suffered the most thx to the hate marriage and shyam's Never ending advances and name calling ..
anyways , I felt that Arnav realized and revolted his attraction during the calendar shoot , felt attracted and acted on it during Diwali, felt more than attraction and care and intense feelings during the engagement farak padtha hain times...fell in love around havan... felt cheated and buried his love during hate marriage , fell irrevocably in love during kidnapping phase... but he did bend the truth to his fragile sister at that time...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: LuvAmalfi



Completely agree with you ... I think Arnav loved khushi way before the hate marriage .. initially he tried to resist the attraction by using rude words and being rude with khushi .. he tried to convince himself she didn't matter but she did ... some clarity cane around that havan day when he thought he lost her ..he reacted in a way any lover would ...& he accepted that khushi meant more than what he wanted to assume and he also realized his heart beats for her... now seeing khushi in Shyam's arms broke him but he still married her and tied her to him when he could have done anything else to keep her away from his family ... so his love for her may have been covered by distrust ... but I feel Arnav loved khushi way more and deep than khushi in fact ... but his love and respect and care for his sister was way above and beyond any feeling he felt for khushi or anyone .. thx to Anjali s clingy nature... he never really expressed all the love he felt for khushi I felt. His sister managed to occupy first spot in his priority list always. After kidnapping , he openly showed he wanted khushi by his side always and he also declared he loved her to his sister and khushi .
For some reason , Anjali is shown as this motherly figure to him . When all she did was cling on to him and never let him breath and live his own life..she was happy as long as she was pampered and mollycoddled by her brother and family ... which happened all the time.. most of the time she was just stubborn and selfish ,. . I was always mad how Anjali was considered this sad victim out of the situation and not khushi . In fact khushi was the one who suffered the most thx to the hate marriage and shyam's Never ending advances and name calling ..
anyways , I felt that Arnav realized and revolted his attraction during the calendar shoot , felt attracted and acted on it during Diwali, felt more than attraction and care and intense feelings during the engagement farak padtha hain times...fell in love around havan... felt cheated and buried his love during hate marriage , fell irrevocably in love during kidnapping phase... but he did bend the truth to his fragile sister at that time...



I think Love is also like your existing job. Everyday you have to prove that you are worthy of the Investment organization has put for you.😉

But seriously you have to see the context where he was coming from. Anjali was insecure of loosing love of husband she worshiped and her doting brother who she always banked on was getting influenced by a wife who shattered her la la land.
. Arnav,we know has always been an unpredictable guy who often did not know what his next steps are going to be,I was not surprised by his statement. Truth is love starts with attraction,admiration and then you fall in love gradually and the journey is complete when you trust the person irrevocably.
When the link between trust and love broke followed by Terrace incident,Arnav went back to his shell/ love is a myth mode or may be not fully but he was extremely bitter. Living and observing Khushi closely after marriage made Arnav question his impression about khushi .He started falling all over again and his love got that vote of trust with kidnapping episode.
Sorry if I was rambling !
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: LuvAmalfi



I think Arnav loved khushi way before the hate marriage .. initially he tried to resist the attraction by using rude words and being rude with khushi .. he tried to convince himself she didn't matter but she did ... some clarity cane around that havan day when he thought he lost her ..he reacted in a way any lover would ...& he accepted that khushi meant more than what he wanted to assume and he also realized his heart beats for her... now seeing khushi in Shyam's arms broke him but he still married her and tied her to him when he could have done anything else to keep her away from his family ... so his love for her may have been covered by distrust ... but I feel Arnav loved khushi way more and deep than khushi in fact ... but his love and respect and care for his sister was way above and beyond any feeling he felt for khushi or anyone .. thx to Anjali s clingy nature... he never really expressed all the love he felt for khushi I felt. His sister managed to occupy first spot in his priority list always. After kidnapping , he openly showed he wanted khushi by his side always and he also declared he loved her to his sister and khushi .
For some reason , Anjali is shown as this motherly figure to him . When all she did was cling on to him and never let him breath and live his own life..she was happy as long as she was pampered and mollycoddled by her brother and family ... which happened all the time.. most of the time she was just stubborn and selfish ,. . I was always mad how Anjali was considered this sad victim out of the situation and not khushi . In fact khushi was the one who suffered the most thx to the hate marriage and shyam's Never ending advances and name calling ..
anyways , I felt that Arnav realized and revolted his attraction during the calendar shoot , felt attracted and acted on it during Diwali, felt more than attraction and care and intense feelings during the engagement farak padtha hain times...fell in love around havan... felt cheated and buried his love during hate marriage , fell irrevocably in love during kidnapping phase... but he did bend the truth to his fragile sister at that time...


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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think that was bad writing.
Di has assumed that Arnav lied about the Agra trip. She did not pay attention to his explanations. She went on and on about how Arnav has changed and stopped listening to her since he got married.
She clearly showed her unhappiness with the private birthday celebration in their bedroom and the romantic rendezvous in the living room.
So, to keep her happy Arnav had to lie to her. Poor guy when he was telling the truth she did not believe him. But when he lied about Khushi, she was happy.
How did that explain/justify Arnav's cancelled Agra trip or Arnav's changed attitude towards Anjali since he got married?
Di was supposed to be in shock after the arguments between her family and her husband. She should also be concerned about her brother's kidnapping ordeal. But she was shown to be competing with Khushi for Arnav's affection. Very bad writing.

On a side note, Arnav fell for Khushi on the day she fell in his arms at Sheesmahal. He was going to express his love on the day of their marriage. The Holi confession proved that his love for Khushi was intact even after the hate marriage.
Cheers...

Edited by Savera84 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree about the bad writing part. I have always wondered why Arnavs kidnapping has been given almost ZERO importance by the Raizada and Gupta family after he gets back. Nobody even bothers to ask anything !! I like Anjali but at this point I think her character was really "out of character" ! True this particular indifferent attitude of the usually caring people of both families looked very weird...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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In my opinion, Arnav wanted to say yes, even I misunderstood Khushi and married her for your sake but I started loving her inspite of her being negative in my eyes.
Isnt it the meaning of true love?

You know the person you love is morally wrong, and you punish him/her for his/her wrong deeds to be morally right and then, on the other hand, also get hurts by their pain.

So, practically, Arnav loved Khushi only after marriage.

Before marriage their love was more on the angle of romance,jealousy, ego and chemistry. Only when the tough times comes, one can know how strong your love is.

Edited by AlwaysHisGirl - 7 years ago

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