Is this really a thing in India?

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Posted: 7 years ago

Do men really divorce their wives for masturbating?

First Veere Di Wedding showed this and now Lust stories. I don't get it.

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Harpreet

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Posted: 7 years ago

I don't think this happens.

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-Abhiya-

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Posted: 7 years ago

Are men allowed to masturbate while being in a relationship? If they are then woman should be too

I am not in a relationship so I don't know intimacy rules

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yeah I never got that in Veere, Swara when asked by Kalundi, Avni and Shiksha if she cheated was like "technically no"

wth.

I am regular masturbater never had sex yet though. It just doesnt make sense to me.

Men do it all the time anyway dont they?

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return_to_hades

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Posted: 7 years ago

In Lust Stories it was his family not him that wanted him to divorce her.

Anyway, for many conservative Indians, female libido is meant to be nonexistent. A woman with a libido is considered to be of questionable morality. Many conservative Indians also believe that a woman's vagina belongs to her husband and both other men and objects do not belong there.

That is why men get away with pre-marital sex while expecting virginal wives. They also have the leeway to masturbate for masturbation.

Female libido in India is also very constrained. I was raised in an urban part of India but society made me believe that women were meant to be romantic, not sexual. For the longest time, I considered touching myself to be morally wrong.

Many women in India do not masturbate. Those who do keep it a very tightly guarded secret and under wraps. If caught they are reprimanded or punished. It would be grounds for divorce but due to saving face the masturbation will not be mentioned.

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blue-ice.

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi
Do men really divorce their wives for masturbating?

First Veere Di Wedding showed this and now Lust stories. I don't get it.

Even if they did..we wouldn't know it...even the urban India is very conservative when it comes to these issues...so even if this was the ground for divorce...there would be other reasons given for divorce and not this.

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Pirated_Fun

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Posted: 7 years ago

Our hypocrisy is we want women to be sexy , dare they be sexual ..

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heartbleed

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Sheila_jawaan
yeah I never got that in Veere, Swara when asked by Kalundi, Avni and Shiksha if she cheated was like "technically no"
wth.
I am regular masturbater never had sex yet though. It just doesnt make sense to me.
Men do it all the time anyway dont they?

bold - 😲

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Posted: 7 years ago

this may sound a bit crude but do men go down on women in India..is it a thing?

or are women supposed to be the orgasm provider not receiver?

i'm talking in general..

maybe return to hades can provide the deetz

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954014

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sheila_jawaan
I am regular masturbater never had sex yet though. It just doesnt make sense to me.
Men do it all the time anyway dont they?

i thought you said you were in your late 20s