An observation - All of Ishita's kids obsessed in love

Originally posted by: nushy1995

I definitely blame the upbringing.

Aliya did some really stupid things in her love but she was never obsessive & once explained, she accepted everything like when she & Adi decided to take steps according to her grandma's will.

But about Ruhi & specially Adi, I strongly believe it's Raman's nature that has affected both the siblings & they never got the clear idea of how to handle things.

Raman has always been impulsive, has taken rush decisions & more importantly even though he loves Ishita has always badmouthed & cursed her for everything. I don't think a boy growing up in such environment will ever really understand the meaning of respecting women.

On the surface Adi has always been SANSKARI but like his father he had always abused everyone specially his wife when the situation became tough.

Ruhi, got Ishita's blind support & just as her father she misused it.

Ishita, Raman even Shagun may have tried to give their kids moral lessons but their actions have always been exactly opposite & I believe the kids learned more from what they observed rather than what they were taught.

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

Very well said. Kids pick more from observation rather than talks and Bhalla house definitely doesn't provide a healthy environment for the growing up kids. There is too much of negativity.

When Aaliyah had rejected Adi, I remember he came home drunk and when Raman confronted him on the same, he shut his mouth stating Raman had always resorted to this method.

Same goes.with infidelity , Adi was quick to point out Shagun's innumerable affairs when she tried explaining him the meaning of marriage and committment.

CV's had not made any of her kids to raise fingers on Ishita's disappearance but Adi did blame Ishita for letting Shagun marry Mani to get his support for Pihu's custody.

Ruhi has had a tougher upbringing with her being controlled, so now that she gets the freedom and has the lease taken off from her , she revolts .

Moreover Raman and Ishita had never been strict with their kids. Either Raman used to get angry and keep slapping them and throwing them out of the house and Ishita becoming a sheild or else Ishita supporting the kids, so it's natural that they got everything which they wished for in IshRa's kingdom 2ith no discipline imposed on them so when somebody rejects them , they cannot handle rejection.