A marriage not only needs love but also understanding to sustain

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Myra.AH

@Myra.AH

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Very aptly said...

I had read somewhere marriage is an empty box.. You have to put in love, trust, understand care and concern to take it back.. It isnt full.. You walk into it empty.. Not exactly the words but thats what it implied..
i loved how she drove the point home without justifying EMA and made AdiYa find answers to few of the question they had in their minds..

Loved how you pointed out that Zoya entered through the front door and Aditya through the kitchen.. And her dignity will be maintained..

I think Madhu is just using Zoya to her own benefit.. She clearly points out Zoya and Noora faults but ignores Mahi and also Yashs faults..

One thing Im a bit confused is Aditya didnt purposefully throw the photo or destroy it.. Zoya saw he did it so the Virani doesnt see it.. Why did she say ek maa se badla lene ke liye all that? Was she referring it to the time Adi barged in and did ghoospaet??

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Potterhead

@potterhead14

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: -Tulips-
In today's episode, Sagarika bhabhi answered few of the questions that AdiYa had in their minds regarding their relationship with their spouses. They would often wonder what made their spouses to cheat them when they loved them so much. They only blamed their spouses for cheating on them but never really thought if there was something wrong in their relationship or in their behavior with their spouses.
Today Sagarika bhabhi answered those questions. She made AdiYa realize at some point of time, they didn't understand their spouses and took them for granted.

The cvs didn't justify cheating/extra marital affair. They just conveyed that something AdiYa unknowingly did make some mistakes. They were not perfect as they thought nor their relationship was perfect

It was a beautiful scene and Harshad and Jenny and the actress playing Sagarika nailed it! Hats off to these 3 of them!

This actually what the actors and producers said during the launch of Bepannah. They said that the show will also convey the message that the people who cheat are not always bad people they have their own reasons. Hate the sin not the sinners. Jennifer said in her interview with TOI that when you fail in a relationship you should not immidiately jump onto the conclusion rather think what went wrong and give yourself and your life a second chance. This is what the show is about. I hope the CVs stick to it and potray it nicely. The concept is amazing and will only get the desired appreciation if CVs handle it beautifully which I believe they did to some extent in today's episode.

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Subha

@Life_Is_Dutiful

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ramisaaAli

This actually what the actors and producers said during the launch of Bepannah. They said that the show will also convey the message that the people who cheat are not always bad people they have their own reasons. Hate the sin not the sinners. Jennifer said in her interview with TOI that when you fail in a relationship you should not immidiately jump onto the conclusion rather think what went wrong and give yourself and your life a second chance. This is what the show is about. I hope the CVs stick to it and potray it nicely. The concept is amazing and will only get the desired appreciation if CVs handle it beautifully which I believe they did to some extent in today's episode.

This is the message they gave in today's episode. I am actually surprised they showed it so early, maybe because they're going to show new relationship evolving between AdiYa so AdiYa need to remove the pain of heartbreak before starting a new relationship.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

@Keechu a marriage in which physical love has waned over time, but respect is there it will survive. That's why many marriage of convenience works. Partners know why they married. But if mutual respect goes a marriage cannot sustain with physical relation alone.

@shailu it is not sacrifice, I would put it acceptance. You know your partners behaviour and you accept it and adapt to it. For me sacrifice is negative meaning word, where you are forced to go something. I always prefer to replace that word with give or accept. My hubby doesnt love watching movies. So most times I go with my friends, relatives, cousins or watch it in TV. I dont complain about it as I know it. Similarly I dont go much to temples or interested in poojas. He knows that. Just like occasionally he comes for movies, I go to temple when I feel like. He has also adapted to it and it is not kept in a complaint box. Oh you didnt do this and that,I am doing this and that.

@ehsas Adi sees other's perspective. If not he wouldnt have taken trouble to enter Zoya's house or goaded her to take the company's reigns. His problem with his mother is deep rooted and Anjana has herself to blame for it that she gave more importance to the prestige of being Mrs Hooda than Adi's mother. yes the vase from rome was important to her, not the trust of her 16 yr old son when she accepted her cheating husband without actually forgving him. Adi knows this hypocrisy and that's why the blame. But Adi needs to know Sakshi. She is not what she looks and before he takes her side belittling his mom he has to remember Sakshi had given Pooja's saree to Zoya and he put all the anger on Zoya who had no clue actually how that saree affected him. Sakshi has an uncanny ability of moving her faults to others.

@tulips yes sagarika bhabi made them introspect. Today's episode also made it clear that Kalpesh wants to give the contract to Zosh at any cost. So if he had seen the Arora name plate he would have ignored it.

@Myra Madhoo is typical indian mother. My children are good, fault is with the world. At this point she needs Zoya so she is using her