A marriage not only needs love but also understanding to sustain

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Posted: 7 years ago
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A marriage is give and take. At times you need to understand your partner's needs. Today Bhavi told correctly. For a marriage to succeed love is not enough, you need understanding. When to give and when to take.

Though extra marital affair is never a justification for dissatisfaction from your partner, imposing yourself on the other is also not right. Zoya is very head strong,so is Aditya. And this headstrongness had played the spoil sport in their previous marriage. It was about their likes. They didnt understand what the other partner felt when they didnt go with them.

Today Zoya understood she was wrong. Reason Aditya spoke. He spoke about the trouble he took to keep the facade of that marriage. And today Zoya bowed for the same facade. She waited for him to come. But he didnt come. She was forced to go to him, pushing open the door of his room.

It exactly connects with her first arrival, where she comes on her own with bloody feet. But that day she went alone, broken. She went from that hall broken. She came at night and towards her death, where he brought her back to life. That day his ego broke. He couldnt allow her to die.

Today she said sorry, her ego was broken. When she came down and broke an inanimate thing, he walked along side her. She was not alone.

Today Bhavi told the whole world will try to come between the lovers, but the couple has to keep the love together. In short they should never allow any third party to come between them let what ever be the circumstance.

Another thing Adi entered Arora house through kitchen, but Zoya on both occasions entered Hooda Mansion through front door. So her dignity will always be upheld, but he will be questioned for sure.

Today Madhoo, Anjana, Mahi everyone represented that world. Madoo wants to keep the last sign of Yash and Zoya for what. A marriage that went into illusion, why you need to keep any memory of that. Anjana told Pooja's marriage bangles. What meaning those bangles hold for Adi where the marriage itself turned out to be farce.

Sakshi has her own issues, but she should talk to Adi.He trusts her blindly. If she is to betray him, he will break, he will go beserk. Why do I feel Sakshi will pass the mantle to handle Adi's anger to Zoya. The saree of pooja she gave to Zoya that sent him beserk, which sent her to a certain death. I need to see.

But what I loved the most is the fact that Bhavi was able to drive some home truth to Adiya which will help them re evaluate their behaviour and dont make the mistakes again.

One thing is sure Zoya is really going to break a lot of things in Hooda house and bring out the truths there.

Coming to Madhoo's trust Zoya will have to take a call whether it is Madhoo's trust matters to her the most, or the trust of her employees and most importantly Aditya. Because she will be forced to take call.

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vamanali thumbnail
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I was so waiting for your review... Today's episode was very engaging..
Finally, Aditya and Zoya got a different view on what could have lead their patterns astray..

I so loved today's episode.. Aditya also was correct when he said Zoya never thanks him for his assistance.. And Zoya to agreed that she has made a mistake in being rude with him when he took so much effort to help them..

Saakhi should have come out with the truth looking at the amount of trust Aditya had bestowed upon her..
Mr. Hooda is indeed a shrewd person.. Just looking at the incidents he realises that there is something that is not matching Saakshi's usual behaviour pattern and that there could be more than her just wanting to sell her daughter's bangles..


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Posted: 7 years ago
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@Vamanali Mr Hooda is indeed shrewd. Aditya needs to know one thing, it is not just Zoya who is not thanking, but he too has been hesitating from that word thanks to her. They both need to learn. But one good thing about them is that they are vocal. While Yash and Pooja never communicated their problems.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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brilliant analysis as always..
i hate Sakshi😡 she is hiding such a big thing frm adi in her selfishness.. like mother, like daughter.. they both want the best of both worlds😡 she knws adi hates cheaters jst like pooja knew still both chose to cheat him😡 n that too wen adi is against his own mom, instead of making him undrsntd abt his mothers love for him, she jst takes all the attention frm adi by showing fake love n fake crocodile tears😡 i hate her more than mahi.. selfish woman, huh🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I just was thinking about Madhoo's thought process. She is aware that Yash was cheating on Zoya, he was hoping to divorce her and yet in spite of all that Zoya is taking efforts to revive Zosh.. So she is slightly changing her attitude towards Zoya and is a little more accepting of her..

She also scolds Mahi and is vocal about her disapproval in Mahi's ways to trouble Zoya.

Then, why is she still not accepting that Yash was wrong and that his photo with Zoya won't have the same meaning for Zoya any more..
She hasn't condemned Yash's behaviour anytime. So is her behaviour biased with Yash and Mahi?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@geet pooja and sakshi never tried to patch up adi and anjana.it was zoya who told it is not right to talk to ur mom that way.@vamanali madhoo needs zoya now and like typical moms want their bahus to forgive their husband whatever he does.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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In this, you stole my words directly from my mouth. Everything I wanted to say, you said it here. Marriage is not only about love but also about understanding. You might survive a relationship without love but surviving without an understanding between partners is too difficult. You need to speak to know what your partner needs and wants from you. Words are a must.

Sakhi is going to break Adi beyond repair. His blind trust in her is scary.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Amazing analysis
I just love ur analysis u summoned up so well.

Love is important but it takes many things to sustain it .
Compromise, sacrifices, togetherness are important.
If foundation is strong building is strong.
Couple needs to build it brick by brick .
Both needs to have patience and likes of both needs to be addressed .
All are not the same few ppl express few don't .
Couple needs to know each other in and out .
Ego has no place in a couple.
Today babiji was right .
U to analysed it so well
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Posted: 7 years ago
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After Sakshi's betrayal, Aditya will understand.
Look at the similarities: Zoya trusted Yash blindly, the same way Aditya trusts Sakshi blindly.
Even after Aditya warning Zoya so many times, Zoya always believed Yash was innocent coming to such a point tht Aditya kept humiliating her, kept hurting her for her blind belief to such an extent tht he broke her totally emotionally. The divorce papers were only the final straw.
Today Aditya is in the same spot; although he is being warned abt Sakshi but his blind faith in her doesnt make him see sense.
And the point too will come for him where he will break completely emotionally. And I hope tht day Anjana will stand strong for him.
Aditya needs to learn to hv respect for his mom. If she stayed with his cheater father, she must hv had her reasons for tht I think. And its abt time tht Aditya starts seeing things from other ppls POV as well and not only his.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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In today's episode, Sagarika bhabhi answered few of the questions that AdiYa had in their minds regarding their relationship with their spouses. They would often wonder what made their spouses to cheat them when they loved them so much. They only blamed their spouses for cheating on them but never really thought if there was something wrong in their relationship or in their behavior with their spouses.
Today Sagarika bhabhi answered those questions. She made AdiYa realize at some point of time, they didn't understand their spouses and took them for granted.

The cvs didn't justify cheating/extra marital affair. They just conveyed that something AdiYa unknowingly did make some mistakes. They were not perfect as they thought nor their relationship was perfect

It was a beautiful scene and Harshad and Jenny and the actress playing Sagarika nailed it! Hats off to these 3 of them!

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