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Posted: 7 years ago
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Kabeer...

My questions to Kabeer .

1. Ruksar is a Na mahram to you. And you are a Na mahram to her. Where is your Parda Concept gone when it comes to Ruksar. None of the other members in the family is either following that.

2. Even with Miraj Ruksar is a Na mahram. Where is her Parda system gone. In the very same place you insisted Zara for Parda but didn't insist to Ruksar. (I need clarification for this ... I seriously need clarification for this). Ruksar Talking to Miraj you have no issues. But you don't want Zara's Presence. You hate her so much. You hate her opening her mouth and uttering a single word.

3. What are you trying to prove to Zara. Your rights over her. Your control over her. Why double standards. Why so much Prejudice Maulavi Shab. Even with Hamdan your so possessive that she should not go in front of him and she is a Na Mahram. You don't want her to talk to Hamdan. But Ruksar Na mahram keep coming in your space.

4. I am sure when Miraj look up and saw Zara. Kabir skipped a heart beat and he looked up to see who(is it Zara) is there. But he was not able to see Zara. But he didn't take it easy.

5. When Zara showered so much love to you. You didn't realized yourself to be Kush Nasib. Every time she try to mend the relationship. Every time she gave up her ego. All of a Sudden from where you get this too much ego. She even abide to your request to return the mehr.

You find Hamdan Kush Nasib. Why for offering tea and Nasta to the guest. And Helping find a Investor. Kabeer do you really think Zara cant do this. Even if she offers you don't want why. Why so much Bias?

I have a feeling that either he is too possessive and protective and want to be her provider or he have an inferiority complex. Is he trying hard to make Zara as his ideal wife (Puppet). Is he trying hard to suppress Zara. Is he trying to prove Zara is below him, and she should expect him for everything.

Is he scared of his wife's beauty, status, intelligence, outlook of course they have different ideologies.
Why you refuse Zara ? Why you accept help from an another girl? What is the Complex here.

He is So judgemental. You are unfit to be Qazi.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Since I am on phone, i will answer 2mrw :)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I was thinking the same stuff..
Parda and All.. 😕 nothing for ruks, 😡
She can come infront of miraj (a guy she has just met).

Tbh it's good he doesn't care about her. But what about her coming infront of him, creepy bathroom wala scene still never leave my memory😡

Tell ruks to back away!! Go and marry Hamdan and have them shipped off to Dubai (no return ticket)


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Kabir is displaying double standards, and an askewd interpretation of Islam. Islam and sunnah instruct men/husband to be kind, loving and gentle while carrying out ones Farz towards wife's. Not insulting them for carrying out ones duty.

The Quran also instructs men to lower their gaze which I don't see Kabir doing 🤢 in fact wo to nazrain bhar bhar ke Rukhsar ko dekh raha hai and analysing how she's better than Zara! Hypocrite!! 🤢

No offence intended to actors - angry with character 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Totally agree with the NaMaram issue...
Kaber and Zara's relationship...we have talked about it a lot...focusing on Kabir's double standards would be better time spent I think...

Kabir deserves to be hammered...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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even I'm unable to understand his double standards. Just trying to understanding by convening myself that his rules differ with relation, Zara his wife and Rukhsar his friend (unfortunately his ideal women).
I have read in many posts person saying Kabeer should marry Rukhsar she is ideal wife for him, I agree with this and why won't she, she has plans of marrying Kabeer from her childhood, so she understood what she wanted he wanted from his wife and molded herself that way. Her only goal in her life is to become wife of Kabeer so she worked hard to become that...She understood what is nature is, how to impress him, how to control him, his likes, dislikes, his expectation and what not...she though does not know completely about him but knows how to deal with him...

Kabeer would have been happiest man if he married Rukhsar but by marrying Zara we can expect him to grow as a better person which he would not have become if Rukhsar is his wife... We all know Kabeer is not at all eligible to become Qazi right now but we all expect him to grow and prove his eligibility some day...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: aqua.m7

I was thinking the same stuff..

Parda and All.. 😕 nothing for ruks, 😡
She can come infront of miraj (a guy she has just met).

Tbh it's good he doesn't care about her. But what about her coming infront of him, creepy bathroom wala scene still never leave my memory😡

Tell ruks to back away!! Go and marry Hamdan and have them shipped off to Dubai (no return ticket)



Even i can never forget that creepy bathroom scene...can never forget that.
When every i think of ISA I will first remember Zabeer and that Bathroom scene.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sravss


Even i can never forget that creepy bathroom scene...can never forget that.
When every i think of ISA I will first remember Zabeer and that Bathroom scene.


When was this scene shown...I loved ISA in the beginning, used to binge watch it. Now, another story.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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It's a good show thought would give us info about their culture tradition balancing with modernity.He always.had a choice to say no to his wedding with Zara but he didn't do that so he has to respect her as his wife and not insult her infront of namahram.Hopefully story will show us something different like him respecting and understanding his wife.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sravss

even I'm unable to understand his double standards. Just trying to understanding by convening myself that his rules differ with relation, Zara his wife and Rukhsar his friend (unfortunately his ideal women).

I have read in many posts person saying Kabeer should marry Rukhsar she is ideal wife for him, I agree with this and why won't she, she has plans of marrying Kabeer from her childhood, so she understood what she wanted he wanted from his wife and molded herself that way. Her only goal in her life is to become wife of Kabeer so she worked hard to become that...She understood what is nature is, how to impress him, how to control him, his likes, dislikes, his expectation and what not...she though does not know completely about him but knows how to deal with him...

Kabeer would have been happiest man if he married Rukhsar but by marrying Zara we can expect him to grow as a better person which he would not have become if Rukhsar is his wife... We all know Kabeer is not at all eligible to become Qazi right now but we all expect him to grow and prove his eligibility some day...


For sure Kabeer is not stupid. But he is being an a** now. He wants his wife in pardah; his eyesight and dimag has been blocked by pardah too..

Due to his good intentions towards the young people of the communinity maybe Allah is giving him rehham to become a better person. So, Zara in his life...however, I still wonder. I think it's going to be a situation where Zara is going to get maximum hurt and then, Kabeer's turnaround occurs. By that time, maybe Zara might just become a living zombie or has totally grown apart from him..

So, wouldn't it be better if Ruks becomes Kabeer's partner, as it is he thinks Hamdan is getting a gem in Ruks. So, he should just marry Ruks after divorcing Zara. Continue with his silo minded beliefs and be happy. Let Zara suffer for the loss of her marriage but move ahead..

About being Qazi...it's Allah ki marzi...may the better man be the leader...


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