KABEER & HIS PREJUDICE - Page 2

Originally posted by: Sheerinbanu

Kabeer...

My questions to Kabeer .

1. Ruksar is a Na mahram to you. And you are a Na mahram to her. Where is your Parda Concept gone when it comes to Ruksar. None of the other members in the family is either following that.

Valid question. Just cos you are childhood friends, you cant break ur usool😉😆

2. Even with Miraj Ruksar is a Na mahram. Where is her Parda system gone. In the very same place you insisted Zara for Parda but didn't insist to Ruksar. (I need clarification for this ... I seriously need clarification for this). Ruksar Talking to Miraj you have no issues. But you don't want Zara's Presence. You hate her so much. You hate her opening her mouth and uttering a single word.

Kabir asks Zaara cos she is HIS WIFE and Ruksar is a friend and he dont go around dictating people with whom he dont have any relation. Even before marriage, he never told or asked zaara to do pardah cos it was her life and she can do as she wish but now she is his wife so he is taking liberty and Haq with her😳 He will never ask Reema too to do anything as per his usool cos she isnt related to him😆

3. What are you trying to prove to Zara. Your rights over her. Your control over her. Why double standards. Why so much Prejudice Maulavi Shab. Even with Hamdan your so possessive that she should not go in front of him and she is a Na Mahram. You don't want her to talk to Hamdan. But Ruksar Na mahram keep coming in your space.

Answered it above. May be Kabir have been living with Ruksar since years so they are kind of comfortable and he treats her as his friend. I wish zaara had a male friend then we cud hv known if its his double standards😉

4. I am sure when Miraj look up and saw Zara. Kabir skipped a heart beat and he looked up to see who(is it Zara) is there. But he was not able to see Zara. But he didn't take it easy.

I didnt find it that way😕 Kabir looked up to see what Miraj was looking at and nothing else😆

5. When Zara showered so much love to you. You didn't realized yourself to be Kush Nasib. Every time she try to mend the relationship. Every time she gave up her ego. All of a Sudden from where you get this too much ego. She even abide to your request to return the mehr.

You find Hamdan Kush Nasib. Why for offering tea and Nasta to the guest. And Helping find a Investor. Kabeer do you really think Zara cant do this. Even if she offers you don't want why. Why so much Bias?

Cos Ruksar portrays herself in a way that Kabir wants. She fits his definition of ideal wife

I have a feeling that either he is too possessive and protective and want to be her provider or he have an inferiority complex. Is he trying hard to make Zara as his ideal wife (Puppet). Is he trying hard to suppress Zara. Is he trying to prove Zara is below him, and she should expect him for everything.

Is he scared of his wife's beauty, status, intelligence, outlook of course they have different ideologies.
Why you refuse Zara ? Why you accept help from an another girl? What is the Complex here.

He certainly is not scared. Its just that initially his Abbu helped him(gave his seat to him in board) then sasurji made him nayab qaazi just cos he is his Damad. He is feeling useless and thinking that no one is seeing his qaabiliyat. And Zaara is taking decisions on his behalf and he isnt liking it. Had zaara too just got an investor without going so deep in his project, just like Ruksar, he wud hv taken her help too.😳 He wants to do things on his own and prove(to himself) he can do it

He is So judgemental. You are unfit to be Qazi.