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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: MishtiShona

Fantastic post Fantasia! 👏 Truly agree to the points you made.

Also from my observation, I think the CV's were very clever in showing the contrasting approach of both Zara and Rukhsar towards the project and how Kabir reacted to each of them differently. No way am I justifying that Kabir manhandling Zara was correct.

Zara, though had good intention, was invading in Kabir's personal space as athai said. I think Kabir thinks she is making him feel incapable- though Zara just wanted to help him. He never asked for her help, he merely was sharing and discussing his idea. I definitely believe that I should be able to solve the problem first before asking for anyone's help. Moreover, Zara also did not tell him that she will be holding a board meeting, despite knowing it is his project being discussed. Communication was important there.

Rukhsar, on the other hand, had cleverly worded herself and though I dont agree her women staying at home and not working, she won Kabir's trust and got on his good books. Therefore when she told Kabir about finding investor for his project, he didnt question her much about why she is helping him and even thanked her! And one prominent dialogue Ruksar said was "Main tumhe janti hoon Kabir"- which means she knows what and how to say things that makes Kabir not get angry at her.

CV's are doing a good job showing reality, sadly, of our society's thinking.





Zara needs to back off and let him run his project with ruksar .let him fail if he has ti.its his battle to fight
Ruksar always knew how to handle kabeer . Even in the beginning episodes he used to smile and talk to her
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: spshastr


Zara needs to back off and let him run his project with ruksar .let him fail if he has ti.its his battle to fight
Ruksar always knew how to handle kabeer . Even in the beginning episodes he used to smile and talk to her


Sadly, I agree that Zara has to back off. I mean through my observations I realised that men dont like being told that they are wrong especially by their wife😳...they only admit they are wrong once they make the mistake themselves!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: peeyara

Nimki is patakha...i left after the marriage 😆 The way they were treating Nimki , i didnt liked it. Tell me epi no, I love to watch Nimki dhamkaing Babbuji😆


I don't remember the episode, it's some time this month.
I am curious to see how Babbu will let go of his deep caste prejudice and accept her.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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appreciate this sensible post !!!
nice to see few fans talking reality here which otherwise is mostly filled with asking for romance or blind feminism blindly using the term MCP..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JaZ-

appreciate this sensible post !!!
nice to see few fans talking reality here which otherwise is mostly filled with asking for romance or blind feminism blindly using the term MCP..



Thank you !

After today's episode i feel we more badly need such a fairy tale bcz what happened today was SO SO brutally honest that i cant even begin how disguisted i was .. ye at the same time i have sen numerous marriages like this .. i cannot wait for Kabeer to fall in love .. so hard and so strong that even Zara will be left atunned !
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fantasia.



Thank you !

After today's episode i feel we more badly need such a fairy tale bcz what happened today was SO SO brutally honest that i cant even begin how disguisted i was .. ye at the same time i have sen numerous marriages like this .. i cannot wait for Kabeer to fall in love .. so hard and so strong that even Zara will be left atunned !

yep...since this is a show we know sooner or later kabir will be totally in love with zara but in reality this is how many couple lead their so-called successful marital life n in most of the times both husband n wife are mechanical but pretend to be in love, here atleast Zara loves kabir n Kabir said the truth ... actually glad this ph got the guts to show the bitter reality of many marriages unlike the lala land created by ek n many others...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi Fantasia...
Thats a very good sensible post from you .👏
And this kind of post , thought process and replies in this thread is what i have been looking for a long time .

totally Agree with you all here. Makers are really doing a good job in showing hard reality as it exists . showing real mentality of higher percentage of men. Men like kabir do exists in real and his characterisation graph goes in correct way according to what makers intended to portray.

kabir isnt allowing to work , zaara walk away... zaara invading into kabir personal space...kabir walk away.. i dont stand on either sides.. isnt there a stand inbetween.. is walking away the only solution in case of Kabir and zaara.. no

they havent reach that threshold itself.
theirs as of now is quite real with what happens in a relationship of two persons who have difference of opinions and dont get together bcoz of that.

both have their own faults for resulting in the situation they are in now... kabir is being at fault for being super rigid with his oldschool principles and zaara is at fault for not waiting to things happen as such.. she is rushing things and inturn pushing into kabir's personal space where he doesnt need invading.

if only zaara put her mind to calm thinking..after instances of knowing kabir dont want her invading in his dream project, she could hv thought like rukshar to get a investor for him thru her dad rather than presenting herself in front of board or giving her money.
there isnt wrong in taking hers but when kabir doesnt want, she shuld hv thought of alternatives he accept..bcoz tht isnt the time to invest her thoughts and nazariya into him.
there are other times too..
thts where she shuld also learn hw to work it out.



they need time and they both had to work on their relationship to mk it worth it.

i said in one of posts that time is needed for kabir and zaara..give time to kabir for zaara to mould his old school thoughts to better one..
that doesnt mean she is changing him into good one or he turning her into other.. there is no need for that..

its just tht...time is needed for them to arrive at a intermediate point where their relationship works, in which for some he budge and for some she budge... thts hw relationship works i think.

I have seen men like kabir ... as you said he and his nature of thinking is bcoz of the patriachial society we lived in.
if a change is brought in the mindset of such boys by ISA , tht in itself a good one.

i give it to makers for showing things as real in fiction and none of the things are hyped as such in other filmy drama or serials..

be it the abuse, the tight hold he had on her or their consummation, physical togetherness...none was hyped ,neither showed filmy as in other.

and @athai : good posts and writing dear...mirror similar thoughts..I couldnt have put better..

Edited by LuvSSever - 7 years ago

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