writers give us a break

yesterday's episode made me think how easily sal forgave Nahar and asked forgiveness in return. Sal did what she did for her love for the family. She never meant to hurt anyone. The family should have realized espeically Nahar.

Nahar ask for forgiveness after witnessing all sal went thru and after neel's explanation. Just give me a break how can you refuse to listen to anything and point the gun at very person who you claimed to love most and always think she is having affairs.

He was forgiven after accusing sal of having affair with yug. When he too was so close even closer to chandani.

This time he crossed limit and hit sal pointed gun at her despite knowing sal is behaving so strangely that strangers can see but he can not. I mean how can you even think of killing a very person who yoy loved most.

I mean I will not even think of hurting some one who hurt me most in my life. When there is love between 2 ppl understaning and trust comes automatically

I am just angry at creatives that why always women have to ask for forgiveness despite their good intention to always protect their family. while men are let off so easily despite how big a hurt they cause to a very person.

Are you kidding me? Sal acted so mean. Look, we're not God. We've no way of knowing what is going in a person's heart, and Saloni established exactly what she wanted. If anything, I think Nahar should be angry at Saloni for not taking him into confidence about the whole Jiji situation. If she had, this whole fiasco could've been prevented. I think people need to rethink their idea of a marriage- the woman should not be the only person responsible for the domestic sphere- it should be a 50/50 partnership, and they should tackle domestic problems together.

Originally posted by: pam12

I agree 100%

I mean it is Saloni who keeps asking for forgiveness. So irritating.

Originally posted by: dhoopkinarey

Are you kidding me? Sal acted so mean. Look, we're not God. We've no way of knowing what is going in a person's heart, and Saloni established exactly what she wanted. If anything, I think Nahar should be angry at Saloni for not taking him into confidence about the whole Jiji situation. If she had, this whole fiasco could've been prevented. I think people need to rethink their idea of a marriage- the woman should not be the only person responsible for the domestic sphere- it should be a 50/50 partnership, and they should tackle domestic problems together.

yes marriage should be 50/50. Nahar was angry and hit her and told her their relation was over.

Again sal is asking for forgiveness for what she did to Nahar and family and Nahar tells her he does not hate her but love her.
Now where is his forgiveness for hitting her and telling her their relation is over and she doesnot deserve them and she took advantage of their goodness.

ANDANDAND(!!) he pointed a gun,
that was shocking

Originally posted by: xmanisha

ANDANDAND(!!) he pointed a gun,
that was shocking

I was really shocked at that. I mean how could you do that very person you love.

Love is forgiveness and happiness of the person who you love not hurt or kill him/her no matter how angry you are.

especially your huby or wife.

well this is always what happens in saas-bahu shows and us viewers just eat it upp!!

Originally posted by: ramas

yesterday's episode made me think how easily sal forgave Nahar and asked forgiveness in return. Sal did what she did for her love for the family. She never meant to hurt anyone. The family should have realized espeically Nahar.

I agree that Saloni did a lot for the family, but she did not take anyone in confidence. She kept on hurting everyone's feelings. I do not agree that she did not get any chance to tell even Nahar what was going on with her. No one can realize what is going on inside a person. If my spouse starts behaving bad one fine day even if he has been at his best behaviour in the past, I would just try to tell him that he is behaving bad and it is not acceptable and if the same behaviour goes on and on I will not forgive him although I love him a lot.

Nahar ask for forgiveness after witnessing all sal went thru and after neel's explanation. Just give me a break how can you refuse to listen to anything and point the gun at very person who you claimed to love most and always think she is having affairs.

After what Nahar went through because of Saloni's behaviour he stopped trusting her. When he saw her with Neel it was obvious that he thought that Saloni was behaving rude on Neel's instigation. The relationship of marriage is very fragile and it does not take long to break when the trust is lost.

He was forgiven after accusing sal of having affair with yug. When he too was so close even closer to chandani.

That was Saloni's mahanta but then women are more forgiving than men.

This time he crossed limit and hit sal pointed gun at her despite knowing sal is behaving so strangely that strangers can see but he can not. I mean how can you even think of killing a very person who yoy loved most.

He was totally heartbroken by Saloni's behaviour in the past and could not see that she had amnesia.

I mean I will not even think of hurting some one who hurt me most in my life. When there is love between 2 ppl understaning and trust comes automatically

I will not hurt the person who had hurt me but I would definitely severe all ties with that person.

I am just angry at creatives that why always women have to ask for forgiveness despite their good intention to always protect their family. while men are let off so easily despite how big a hurt they cause to a very person.

Women need to plan and involve other people from the family for taking care of the family rather than being sacrificial.

The love between husband and wife is give and take. One person just cannot keep giving love when the other person is not reciprocating. Nahar tried a lot all the while Saloni was hurting all in the family. He gave up when the things did not get better.

Originally posted by: parm11

well this is always what happens in saas-bahu shows and us viewers just eat it upp!!

I agree but it does happen lot in real world too where giver is always giver and taker is always taker.