Bepannah My thoughts, Signs of the times.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Hamlet53

Originally posted by: gemini54

Beautiful writing take a bow👏 helooo gemini54...😃 brilliant! to see you on my thoughts!

Yesterdays episode for me felt like another dimension to this saga. Initially Aditya was very sure about his Pooja cheating on him, their marriage and questioning what did she find in Yash that was missing in him?.

I Agree.. gemini... he has growled about this previously too.. such a real reaction.. immediate comparison with the transgressor.. looks, job, status.. its painful to see his ego being bruised.. mind you Zoya to felt similarly... why yash left her for another woman???? no wonder she comments on him striking a blow at her self esteem...

The hurt , the anger, the bitterness made him lash out at Zoya whose presence reminded him of his cheating wife. Zoya did not believe that her beloved Yash would cheat she was confident that just like her Yash loved her Pooja loved Adi. This illusion was shattered by the signature of Yash in the divorce papers. Now she is the one having the doubts, the hurt the anger, the betrayal

yes..gemini.. its like a role reversal.. Aditya seems in control.. whilst Zoya loses the plot! There is no right way.. both Adi and Zoya are different individuals, although their grief is common. They both will deal with their emotional wound in their own way.. in their own time..There is a big chance, that after these divorce papers.. they will change the way they look upon each other..

Two souls bound together by an incident, going thru myriad emotions but through it all being each others strength..is this all it is about one wonders? for there is more of this mystery to unfold and more unbridled emotions to explore.

well said!👏 beautifully captures the crux of their getting together.. they supply each other's demand of emotional needs... you are right gemini... there is more to the plot than meets the eye... meanwhile thanks for sharing your precious views... much love hammie

Originally posted by: dreamy.tiara

@Red: Nobody is perfect, each one of us have at least one flaw. According to Pooja, Adi may have some too. But Pooja got married to her best friend, few people are as lucky as her. And not only that Adi loved her with all his being. Hence I feel there was no need for Pooja to silently suffer in her marriage. She could talk to her best friend-cum-husband to fix the issue. Her communication could not only end her suffering but also strengthen their bond. Whatever I have seen of Adi, I feel, at times he may externally exhibit childish behavior, maybe because he lost his childhood and innocence when was 16 (due to his dad's EMA), but he is extremely mature and practical to handle delicate situations. She should have just talked to him heart to heart and shared her feelings.

oh I agree.. about flaws.. alas! we are mere mortals and not gods! Pooja gives the impression.. via her diary.. their likes and dislikes varied.. but I agree.. adapting to each others nature,making allowances for each other.. is part of marriage.. yes Tia they were school mate.. when love bloomed.. but one has to live with one, share space with another, that one finds out what a relationship is all about.. its interesting with Adi.. in one way as you point out he is mature.. in the other way he becomes a child in Pooja's presence.. I agree she should have mentioned her insecurities she felt in their marriage... seems she reckoned he wouldn't take her seriously.. and thus drifted away... slyly no wonder he feels his sincere love was betrayed.. well! looks like it was not true love between Adi and Pooja.. her death.. her deeds will make Adi survive!

@Pink: True, there was duplicity in his behavior. Why else would he gift Pooja's ring to Zoya? However, Zoya would have never stepped in Mumbai if he had been alive. So, why did he do that?

this is true.. he told Ashish.. of the snags of bringing Zoya to Mumbai.. Zoya assumed the ring was for her.. it was a misfit on her finger.. symbolically kept slipping off! I feel Tia more has to be revealed about Yash 's two timing.. till then nothing to stop us from wondering what the reality is..

@Orange: Maybe someone dropped it there, but I don't think it can be Arjun. Arjun seems a genuinely nice guy. Being the younger son he is somewhat untainted by bitter truths in his family and being a lawyer he has sharp mind. That's where his optimism and analytical abilities come from. Even Adi felt he was talking like Zoya, who too was untainted by harsh realities of life until recently. He doesn't know yet who to support and who not to, who is on the right side and who is on the wrong side, which he would investigate in time; he is only trying to the best of his abilities to put together his family in this time of crisis.

agree with your summing up Arjun's strengths.. above all for me his greatest strength is loving his brother Adi.. reaching out to him.. and Adi too responds to Arjun's words .. willingly or unwillingly! the two brother's chemistry is heart rendering..

@Purple: Thank you Hammie for having patience to read my feedback. It is always a pleasure to read you beautiful posts and reflect on that. 🤗

waise... love your colour codes.. 😛... adds colour to the grey tones of the saga! thanks Tia.. for making me happy with your interesting, responses... much love, 😃 yours hammie..