Originally posted by: sweetunidhi.445
I know all ur reasons were up to the point but what to do if we feel kind of attached with a couple.
However much we try to reason and justify but as an ardent avneil fan I am just unable to see them with anyone else. This is what I hate the most in ITV that they show imaginary separation a lot more than needed and this is what attracted me to this story as in this one we are really seeing a normal couple. Earlier the separation was there but we could tell that this was their plan to put medicine on our would. I know it was Avni's mistake to leave Neil and to push him away instead of justifying why she did what she did. Neil has all the right to move on in life rather than being stick to his former love but still want will we do if it is quite impossible to digest what is in our plate. I hope u understand my pov as many of us in this forum is avneil shipper and they are finding it hard to digest the current scenario. If avni did wrong we were not justifying her and right now Neil is doing wrong than we will not justify him either.
Dear I totally get u n all others in this forum too. I m not n I do not expect people to justify Neil for what wrong he has done. Their prolonged separation is hurting me too.
I'll tell u how I ended up writing this post. After watching this episode, I came to the forum to cry just like u all...n the words that were in my mind were "RIP Neil Khanna", believe me or not. But then I read several posts n comments here before posting my views. When I read Avni's upbringing being questioned, I felt its not right. When I read Neil being called cheap, only the word "cheap" hurt me, not the reasons behind it. But when I was writing my comment why he should not be called cheap, I happened to think practically. I tried to analyse y people r calling him cheap. In my very first comment, I said the same thing...that he was wrong with everything he did today, but please don't call him cheap...that was my emotional demand for my favourite character Neil. But later people gave reasons to y they say what they say. N when I was calmed down by then, after reading every reasoning, I had a question..."did he really?" N hence I wrote this post. What I think is, we react to every episode very impulsively. Forum is not gonna b shut down in an hour after episode nor we r getting any prize for commenting first. Just refrain urself from commenting right after the episode, u'll not realise what u r saying in the heat of the moment...just like how Neil is not realising. When he is alone n thinks, he does feel guilty for his words. The same way, we should also watch the episode, sit back, calm down, think n then react...maybe we'll react better? If right from 6:30 we start cribbing n everyone's comments only put oil in the burning fire, the fire will never cease to exist. So first extinguish Ur own fire n then come here to give Ur views, maybe that can put water on others fire too? If not, the fire will at least not spread like a wildfire because of u? The forum is meant to vent out Ur frustration n rant...but we must take ensure we r not going overboard with our rants. I know everybody loves AvNeil here, n that's y it hurts me to see the same AvNeil lovers calling them names now. I don't want anybody to blindly fangirl AvNeil, but at least watch Ur language when u talk about the same couple u claim to love? There is no AvNeil without Avni or Neil...so just respect...both of them! That's the least I m demanding after yesterday's episode.
N about separation n third angles, this is how ITV works, don't we know? Naamkaran was different...but we can't deny every show is sensible in its first year of run, later it slips off the track. Same is the case with Naamkaran. Raman bhalla, to whom Neil Khanna is being compared with now, too was not this kind of a person in the first two years of the show, he too never insulted ishita or thought about anybody else until their first separation n the leap...the man who completely hated her when he married her. The point is, every show is good in its first year of run, n just because it was good, we can not expect it to be the same forever. So going by the trend, let's be ready to see our characters changing too n watch whatever we get, or else stop watching if we can't. My yhm experience has certainly taught me this much.
Edited by IFLove - 7 years ago
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