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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sps0114

Wonder if for Avni love is only sacrificing n letting go of her wishes n feelings? Why does she not fight for her love for Neil by making an effort to talk to him or just hug to calm him down even if he rejects her actions why does she stop making effort till he starts to listen...


She wants to hold on to Mowgli as her only nishaani of her love for Neil but she is not making effort to work with Neil n chose the easy way out in asking him to move on...this is what beats me coz she asked Ayesha to stand up for her love n relationship n kid why is she not




Chhoti Avni has pressed the correct nerve today that Neil ka gussa jayaz hai, tera nahi..
Hope Avni fights for her love too along with Mowgli...and Neil to calms down a bit. Its hurting to see Neil like that.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: IFLove


Chhoti Avni has pressed the correct nerve today that Neil ka gussa jayaz hai, tera nahi..
Hope Avni fights for her love too along with Mowgli...and Neil to calms down a bit. Its hurting to see Neil like that.


Agree he can chose the way he wants to go but for her love for him she could atleast calm him down to level of being cordial with each other understand what n why she did it this would help Mowgli not hating his father which she stop him from...

In precap she questions Neil with right Qs n love smile on prakashface a point she is making to him he is fighting without spending time to get to know Mowgli better without knowing what child wants Vs just pushing his decision on the child

Avni is most of the time is impulsive n acts out of fear but sometimes does reason well Neil can be emotional n reactive when going gets tough n looses hope we have seen it with Juhi Mishti VR it was Avni stand which pulled them through...custody fight may just calm Neil down n refocus
Edited by sps0114 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Finally! An unbiased & logical discussion thread.

Agree with everything you have mentioned. Specially, thanks for bringing up the point of Neil moving on with Avni after Juhi's disappearance.

As long as Avni & Neil don't put their ego aside & have a conersation, no one can help them & we can't really blame anyone here.

I don't understand why are we badmouthing Shweta & Mitali here?

Which mother would want to see her son suffer? She had seen Mitali loving Neil & probably had a hope that sooner or later, Mitali would be able to help Neil move on. If Neela was right to choose Neil for Avni as she was certain of the boy's love & the possibility of Neil completing Avni's empty life; how is Shweta wrong for choosing Mitali who genuinely loves Neil?

As far as Mitali is concerned, I am a bit confused about her character. But one thing is certain - she didn't fell for a married man. She was a close associate of Neil & at some point she fall for her best friend who was supposedly single at that time. Any girl should have the right to propose to the man she loves. Avni was out of the picture. She tried to propose, how is that wrong?

Seeing today's episode, I felt everyone, including Mitali played along Neil because they didn't want to upset him. Because, even after her engagement, she was asking Neil to calm down & think properly.

Both Neil & Avni are responsible for their current state & it's on them how they want to proceed further. I don't think Shweta, Mitali or Mowgli should be dragged into this mess.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with everything you say, except for just one tiny detail... Yes, no one wants Avni and Neil to reunite for Mowgli, and yes, everyone had a problem with the engagement, but the reason isn't that he shouldn't have done it over Mowgli's truth, at least not for me, the reason is that he didn't once try to go behind Mowgli to even just hug him once, in fact he told Avni to take her son and get lost, and over it, has now also lodged a custody battle against her for a son he only told Avni to take and leave... I understand that Neil is doing everything in anger, then how does the cake and champagne justify it? Didn't he behave at that time like he didn't care about finding out 10 mins ago that he has a son? That's what makes the engagement so dirty for me, the lack of emotion from Neil's side between his heartbreak of Mowgli's truth and then the sudden custody case..

Sorry if I offended anyone...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I just ask you a question did you not hear neil telling his father that he wanted to punish avni??? Moreover he engaed to a person who haunted his ex wife whom he loved such a mwan way...srry i can't sympathize with you...plz don't get me wrong...dear...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Just hoping during the custody fight tomorrow when she says she know she has full faith in herself she will make him a good human being...Neil doesn't call her a liar unfit mother n comment on her identity for a low blow in retaliation of her questioning him on Mowgli's likes dislikes fear etc...hope his sanity n sensibility will be intact
Based on the previous OLV I believe Neil will lose the custody battle tomorrow n will come to get Mowgli for his allocated time from court to spend time with Mowgli
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree with each word of yours...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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For me the problem is Neil flirting with Mitali . What was that ? He has rights to move on and I support him in every sense for filing custody . Why should he be flirting with Mitali . He is definitely not enjoying this engagement but doing this only driven by anger and betrayal . For me that act was definitely nasty . Prakash is the only sane person who tried to knock sense but Neil was so interested in punishing Avni and not allowing her to win . I can watch him speaking any kind of hurting words for Avni but not flirting with Mitali . He could have very well filed a divorce and fought custody without Mitali in picture . I agree he feels he can get love which he craves to get from Avni . But isn't he spoiling Mitali's life by pulling her into this . I have no words about Mitali who speaks sense 2 minutes before and acts just opposite .
Neil can never be compared to Ashish as the circumstances are different. Ayesha never left him or lied to him . She let him ho only when she learnt he is not standing for her and Avni . So they can't be compared .


This is gonna be a constant problem as Avni will never open her mouth in this lifetime and Neil will get more n more frustrated with her actions . I wonder he will melt even if he learns the truth . He is volcano who is bursting on any given moment . He will misunderstand her for not trusting him to share the truth .

Sorry if I have offended you with any of my words .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: AgnesFan

For me the problem is Neil flirting with Mitali . What was that ? He has rights to move on and I support him in every sense for filing custody . Why should he be flirting with Mitali . He is definitely not enjoying this engagement but doing this only driven by anger and betrayal . For me that act was definitely nasty . Prakash is the only sane person who tried to knock sense but Neil was so interested in punishing Avni and not allowing her to win . I can watch him speaking any kind of hurting words for Avni but not flirting with Mitali . He could have very well filed a divorce and fought custody without Mitali in picture . I agree he feels he can get love which he craves to get from Avni . But isn't he spoiling Mitali's life by pulling her into this . I have no words about Mitali who speaks sense 2 minutes before and acts just opposite .

Neil can never be compared to Ashish as the circumstances are different. Ayesha never left him or lied to him . She let him ho only when she learnt he is not standing for her and Avni . So they can't be compared .


This is gonna be a constant problem as Avni will never open her mouth in this lifetime and Neil will get more n more frustrated with her actions . I wonder he will melt even if he learns the truth . He is volcano who is bursting on any given moment . He will misunderstand her for not trusting him to share the truth .

Sorry if I have offended you with any of my words .


Looks like I have missed a big part of episode! Did he flirt with mitali? What did he do? I just saw him slipping a ring in her finger n then cutting the cake n smiling n putting that cream on her nose...that's it. Did anything more to this happen? #GenuineQuestion!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: IFLove


Looks like I have missed a big part of episode! Did he flirt with mitali? What did he do? I just saw him slipping a ring in her finger n then cutting the cake n smiling n putting that cream on her nose...that's it. Did anything more to this happen? #GenuineQuestion!

That was what I mentioned . I honestly dunno how to take that . Maybe I'm so done with his recent version that I can't take this in a good way . Sorry yet again . I agree easier said than done coz we never went through what is going on with Avni and Neil . But whatever they are doing is definitely gonna make child's life a wreck . I have seen it when my uncle and aunt divorced . And I genuinely agree adults fight are no good . They turn nasty as ego comes in between .


I would wish to appreciate the writers for having done this to the show . They have made fans to fight who is right and who is wrong trying to find justification when they don't care to give any kind of explanation for actions of characters .

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