Understanding is what they lacked!!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Adi n Pooja... childhood buddies.. had love, trust n friendship in their relationship but was it enuf?... Nooo

As for Adi... he loved n evn used to trust her a lott (he gave her 5 crores so easily)... but he failed to understand Pooja or say her expectations. She handled his kiddish nature, accompanied him wherevr he wanted to go... but she nvr got that in return. Adi nvr understood the emptiness in her life. He didnt change n neither expected her too. He was happy coz he had no expectations. What mattered to him was love, trust n friendship.

N coming to Pooja... she was somebody who wanted more. She wanted attention, his company... n thngs whch she gave to him. She tried to find happiness in all those moments n things rather than in his love... She failed to understand how Adi is n tried to change him. She found him kiddish but he was way mature atleast in these thngs(imo). He nvr gave importance to these lil things... he wudnt have left Pooja if she wudnt hav accompanied him, if she forgot her bday or if she failed to do those lil things... coz for Adi... their relationship was more than tht.

Pooja knew Adi well infct bttr than Adi knew her... Adi only wanted love, loyalty n trust coz he has seen these getting shattered in his parents case... Adi failed to understand her expectations but Pooja... she failed to understand his necessity... whch was loyalty.
She cud hav spoken to him sensibly n clearly stating wht she wanted.. n if things didnt work out... she cud hav walked away thru divorce.. but she chose the wrong path... the path whch wud completely destroy Adi! Divorce wud have broken Adi too but wudnt have destroyed him!

Opposites attract!... Noo... not in this case ... years of bond had faded... here opposites led to a mismatch...a failure!


P.S. This is just my analysis... my pov based on what has been shown till now! Feel free to share ur views too!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ok so already thr r so many posts regarding this topic!... But still wud love to hear diff opinions ppl... 😛

Edited by luvurishbala - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I just wanna say this pyar dosti hai waala concept is rubbish 😆😆
It's not about knowing your partner It's all about understanding each other. Being in a relationship is all about respect trust and UNDERSTANDING. Adi respected and trusted pooja but couldn't understand her.
Pooja is also wrong here, she did try to point out her feelings some times like, I also accompany you to your football matches, when will you grow up, stop acting like a child and all that. She would have told him very clearly about her discomfort
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Originally posted by: neon_girl

I just wanna say this pyar dosti hai waala concept is rubbish 😆😆

It's not about knowing your partner It's all about understanding each other. Being in a relationship is all about respect trust and UNDERSTANDING. Adi respected and trusted pooja but couldn't understand her.
Pooja is also wrong here, she did try to point out her feelings some times like, I also accompany you to your football matches, when will you grow up, stop acting like a child and all that. She would have told him very clearly about her discomfort

Exctlyy... friendship can be the foundation for some... but love, trust, understanding n ya loyalty is what keeps the relationship sustained.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rs..shailu29

communication was lacking

Ya evn that... but in one way... thy didnt especially she didnt communicate bcoz she neither understood the need for it nor understood her wht her husbnd wud react

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