If my husband is childish - Page 2

Totally not supporting the cheating angle here but I don't think Pooja ever loved Adi after what was shown in the episode for her to really dive deep and mend their relationship. They had great friendship and it was a habit to be together always and the pyaar dosti thing really must have become the catalyst for the marriage...but I did not sense any real kinda love before their marriage. Pooja slowly started sensing it..and led to what happend next...

So the point is she really did not feel for Adi much and did not want to put the effort for their relationship to progress is what I feel.

I guess I can somewhat understand Pooja's situation because at one point of time even I too had somewhat similar problems with my husband. I used to compromise for his happiness but he never compromised for my happiness. I love bollywood movies and my husband likes hollywood movies. When we were newly married, I used to watch all violent action and even horror Hollywood movies with him but whenever I used to tell him to watch a hindi movie with him, he would say, I don't like hindi movies. U go by urself. I would always say, I go with u to watch English movies even though I don't like them. Why can't u come with me at least to 1 hindi movie? Then I decided to stop going with him to english movies. Now I go and watch hindi movies and he watches English movies. None of us force each other now.

Originally posted by: -BebaakBegum-

I personally feel human emotions are very twisted. I find Emotional cheating equivalent to physical cheating but emotional cheating is way more common. It makes me uncomfortable how relationships can fall apart without either of the two parties realising. I am not justifying anything. Obviously walking out of the wedding is the right call if nothing else works but since we don't as yet if Yash and Pooja cheated for real or were just attracted to each other(sans the izhar)

Originally posted by: Iamcute09

I consider that as cheating, she was thinking about someone else. Being in love with someone else. Thats cheating as well.

Apart from this she did fall and in love with a married guy.

They must have talked soemtime about zo as well, how she is and etc. . Have she thought about her?

Adi no doubt took her for granted but her ways were not accceptable.

Imo cheating is to give into the want of being with somebody else. Relationships are complex. Every relationship has its own rough patches. Everybody likes the vigour of a new relationship. That excitement is tough to revive once you already know the person inside out. Falling for someone else whilst being married imo is not a crime, it is not morally right but the heart wants what it wants but to act upon it, starting a physical or non physical repationship with that person without letting you partner know that is cheating.

I understand they'd been together for soo long, that life, emotions can come to standstill - but there's ways to overcome it. If not leave. That shock of wanting divorce could trigger something in both. But no, the solution is to 'cheat'?