I have had it with Avni

I can't understand Avni's character anymore.

Inconsistencies in Avni's statements

Originally posted by: delhigirl

Inconsistencies in Avni's statements

1) She herself was adopted by Neela but she herself is against adoption. What is wrong in adopting an orphan/illegitmate child and giving them a name and life?

2) Named Saisha after Ayesha ma. where is the due respect to Neela ma?

Ayesha in fact ruined Avni's life by her actions whereas Neela gave her life and love unconditionally

3) Still remembers Ayesha ma more than Neela. Her thought process revolves around the negativity of Ayesha's life but not the positivity that was brought by Neela.

4) Sometimes avni says that hiding for 10 years was just for Neil and then another time she says she did it for Saisha

5) She was hiding away from khanna family because vidyut was punished for killing her.

Now it is everywhere that Avni is alive.

So now why is she not staying back for the Khannas? It does not matter anymore that she hides in kashid.

Bebe and Shweta are right.

And now she is not worried that Vidyut will come out? and what will happen to Neil and the Khannas happiness.

6) How can she love Saisha more than her own child? she never had a child of hers and Neil.

And what kind of a statement is this. People can love a biological child and adopted child equally but more than own child when she never had her own?

7) What does Sunehari mean thats he could have stayed back with khannas and led a normal life? but she sacrificed her life for Saisha.

Am i missing something here or the CVs have no clue about the entire plot.

Avni was 12, hence a minor when adopted by Neela. Saesha is a 18 year old adult who claims she is mature enough to get married and understand love, yet is throwing a strop for adoption only so that she can marry a guy she supposedly fell in love with a few days ago. So why should avni accept her demand of adoption just so she can marry young to a guy who avni can see isn't right for her? If she is in fact mature and an adult, why does she feel the need to be adopted at legal adult age to get what she wants? In this entire track, avni is right only on this issue.

Both Agree and disagree with your points.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Avni was 12, hence a minor when adopted by Neela. Saesha is a 18 year old adult who claims she is mature enough to get married and understand love, yet is throwing a strop for adoption only so that she can marry a guy she supposedly fell in love with a few days ago. So why should avni accept her demand of adoption just so she can marry young to a guy who avni can see isn't right for her? If she is in fact mature and an adult, why does she feel the need to be adopted at legal adult age to get what she wants? In this entire track, avni is right only on this issue.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

Both Agree and disagree with your points.

1. Yes it's cringeworthy to hear Avni say that she loves her more than her own child. It's sort of insulting to Neil and future pillu if it happens...but then our writers are OTT sometimes...they want to show the attachment Avni has with saesha because she can relate to the troubled vhildhood and she wants to be a neelama like figure to them. But it didn't warrant such dialogues that too twice!

2. The only bright spot or consolation is that the first time she said tum sab main meri Jaan basti hai...so all the kids were equal to her

3. I think Avni is cognizant of the fact that she has not been able to break free of the tag of illegitimacy herself but she has these deep rooted fears and insecurities which never got a chance to heal despite having Neil n neelama...prolly because the situation never was fully normal. And although it's frustrating to watch her go back to the nsjayaz label it's actually very tough to truly break free of shackles after seeing a troubled childhood...it scars you and haunts you forever. And in avni's case she knows that she's damaged but she's trying to help a few kids not feel like she did. It's tough to practice what you preach!

4. What I do agree with is that the duration of the leap is definitely creating the most problem because even if we give Avni leeway for her actions...staying away for 10 years from the man who you Love, who loves you unconditionally...that's crazy. That's what Neil is angry about too...he sorta sees her pov but he cant forget that she did not reach out to him, go back to him. And that's the area CVs have not figured out and so it's very hard to relate to Avni. But there's no option but to try and ignore it and focus on how they go from here...

5. Did Neela adopt Avni legally...coz I didn't watch the early episodes. Even if she did, I'm actually glad that Avni is taking a stand not to. Because gettingga surname honestly doesn't change kk or his mom's mentality which they have already displayed, and she's an adult, can't be adopted anyway! I'm happy she's only a guardian and not her parent

6. Sunheri stood up for Avni - I'm glad. Wish her dialogues were slightly better. I think what she meant was that Avni could have come back but she stayed firm on her resolve because she was concerned about everyone's safety. She did this even though she was longing to go back to Neil and her family. She killed her own dreams for what she perceived to be a greater good...but atleast she reprimanded girgit for being too rude and bratty

7. Avni's motives to leave didn't seem strong enough then...but we had to tolerate the track because CVs think only separation can bring drama. I wish Avni had discussed with Neil her plans...I wish she had atleast contacted him after pulling her stunts and vidyut going to jail...I wish the leap was only a year maybe instead of 10... unfortunately ye sab humaare CVs be socha hi nahi.

Baba, our writers are not that invested with being clear in their dialogues. They mostly do a shoddy job which is why a few episodes stand out for good dialogues! If she were to adopt she should adopt them all or none of them. They are trying to make a point that we don't need to know a person's surname or give him one to make them fit in society. If a child doesn't have parents or doesn't have a father's name it means nothing...but the dialogue writing perhaps is not allowing those emotions to fully come through. Avni was clear to kk and in front of Khanna's what her issue was- if kk can't take a stand for the woman he claims to love and if he attached more importance to her name rather than the person she dies die approve of such a relationship as her guardian. She believes that saesha also will find a Neil and a family like Khanna's who will rise above societal prejudices and see her for the person she is and not what her name is.