Same as naina - Page 2

Originally posted by: violette

It's sad that u r spoiling ur life and future for a person who doesn't even care about u, ur studies, ur life or ur future..

Come back to reality.. from ur fantasy-ridden world..

Do u even think about how u wud stand on ur own feet, make a career, achieve a feat, earn ur own money if u don't study?

How would u take a stand for urself if u don't value urself enough?

Try doing a tough/impossible task all by urself.. and u will know the value of knowledge (studies and career), skill, hardwork, discipline and focus.. taste the bitter pill of failure and u will know the value of proper prior planning..

the feeling of love is good and it feels good while it lasts... but when reality strikes (which will strike in Samaina's world as well as u will see) one needs to get down to earth and face the harsh facts with concrete ground-level planning and self confidence..



There is misconception about Love that it is what u feel about other person.. but in reality it's what u do for urself and the one u love.. how far u can go for them.. what level of "Commitment" r u willing to give.. and it is "Vice versa" too.. the person should b judged on basis of what he/she is doing for u.. what level of commitment is he giving? Is he even capable of caring for u? Taking the responsibilities of ur successes as well as failures?

its a two-way road.. none can remain selfless in love without destroying oneself (e.g. Devdas)

so its time for u to decide whether u want to destroy ur self for an undeserving person or b practical and value urself and ur love more over everything else and wait for the right person to shower ur love onto..

I hope u will learn ur lesson from ur mistakes, take advice from the vast and varied experiences of the members here, and come back to reality of world..

Shows r good for entertainment, but thy cannot b life-turning experiences or teaching lessons becoz thy r not reality and mostly they showcase a glossed-up version of life situations which r limited to a Creative's imagination in portraying the complexity of life..

so ur world cannot b Naina-Sameer's world.. its shaped up by Creatives and urs by urself..

so get hold of ur world and don't waste this v. v. v. imp years of ur life over some frivolous person.. for whom u don't even exist..

Ask ur self how many minutes of his daily life is he spending thinking about u? Doing something about u? 1, 5, 10 or none? And u ? how many hours, minutes, r u wasting of ur life thinking about that person which u can spend doing something productive, useful, worthwhile? Does it sound practical? Prudent?

If u r unable to do it urself, I suggest u to get some professional counselling or seek advice/guidance from some elder experienced person in ur real life..