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Posted: 7 years ago
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I have exams so I could not see the episode but I read the written update i was shocked to read that Naina failBut maybe it is bcoz of their separation
My condition too same I had told you guys how my bf left me but I love him and suddenly he did it and he comes across in college and ignores it just disturbs a lot
My exam too went v bad... I fdon' know why i just like him forget everything..like for him i am nothing now

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Posted: 7 years ago
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It happens dear and very sad that wwe can't help certain things..But would request you to keep yourself distracted from him keeping your passions and hobbies..Hope you find your strength and excel in life.
All the best dear..Love yourself more .👍🏼
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Things happen for something good...he doesnt deserve you...U will get ur love dont worry...follow your heart and dreams...Life will not stop...there are other people surrounding you...ur family...stay happy fo r them...I am sure you will be more stronger in your life post this incidence.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Life is beautiful and you need to learn to love your life. Remember world is like an ocean , there are enough fishes...if not this , then some one else... 😆 jokes apart..on a serious note...

you are so young...you should enjoy life to the best..study well , have fun with ur friends and family..go for lunch, movies with them...invite ur friends home...get them introduced to ur parents ..sit together and play some games...listen to music...go out for walks with your dad /mom/siblings...talk about something that interest you...pamper yourself...try a new hairstyle...put some mehandi in ur palm...have fun ...

If you are not able to concentrate studying alone...ask your friends help and tell your parents about it ...opt for combine studies...at ur house...there are so many things that you young people can do...trust me this is the age to enjoy and learn...and last but not the least ...pray to god...and trust in god!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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It happens..it's ok
But from now onwards, focus more on your studies..he isn't worthy of being your priority anymore or spoiling your life!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Life is beautiful and you need to learn to love your life. Remember world is like an ocean , there are enough fishes...if not this , then some one else... 😆 jokes apart..on a serious note...

you are so young...you should enjoy life to the best..study well , have fun with ur friends and family..go for lunch, movies with them...invite ur friends home...get them introduced to ur parents ..sit together and play some games...listen to music...go out for walks with your dad /mom/siblings...talk about something that interest you...pamper yourself...try a new hairstyle...put some mehandi in ur palm...have fun ...

If you are not able to concentrate studying alone...ask your friends help and tell your parents about it ...opt for combine studies...at ur house...there are so many things that you young people can do...trust me this is the age to enjoy and learn...and last but not the least ...pray to god...and trust in god!!

Fishes...its funny
But I could consider him only a fish
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: PritiSC

Things happen for something good...he doesnt deserve you...U will get ur love dont worry...follow your heart and dreams...Life will not stop...there are other people surrounding you...ur family...stay happy fo r them...I am sure you will be more stronger in your life post this incidence.

Ya v strong... I have turned but sometimes break down
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I too have been through this phase but now am over it ... Its been 3 years n happy am finally happy ... Kuch time k liye it feels as if your world is lost but eventually u will experience it was just bull shit to cry or destroy ur life for someone who isnt bothered at all ... In this journey i dicovered myself ... I emerged out stronger than before ... So will u ... Stay calm focussed and happy everythinv will be over soon ...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: surbhikideewani

I have exams so I could not see the episode but I read the written update i was shocked to read that Naina failBut maybe it is bcoz of their separation

My condition too same I had told you guys how my bf left me but I love him and suddenly he did it and he comes across in college and ignores it just disturbs a lot
My exam too went v bad... I fdon' know why i just like him forget everything..like for him i am nothing now



Don't waste your breath over someone who doesn't care for you. A man who loves you truly, will never make you feel that way. Your real Sameer will come your way when you least expect it. Focus on your studies or whatever you are doing. And don't let yourself be let down by someone like that. It gives them more power. God bless you and keep rocking.

Ridz
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Posted: 7 years ago
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It's sad that u r spoiling ur life and future for a person who doesn't even care about u, ur studies, ur life or ur future..

Come back to reality.. from ur fantasy-ridden world..

Do u even think about how u wud stand on ur own feet, make a career, achieve a feat, earn ur own money if u don't study?

How would u take a stand for urself if u don't value urself enough?

Try doing a tough/impossible task all by urself.. and u will know the value of knowledge (studies and career), skill, hardwork, discipline and focus.. taste the bitter pill of failure and u will know the value of proper prior planning..

the feeling of love is good and it feels good while it lasts... but when reality strikes (which will strike in Samaina's world as well as u will see) one needs to get down to earth and face the harsh facts with concrete ground-level planning and self confidence..



There is misconception about Love that it is what u feel about other person.. but in reality it's what u do for urself and the one u love.. how far u can go for them.. what level of "Commitment" r u willing to give.. and it is "Vice versa" too.. the person should b judged on basis of what he/she is doing for u.. what level of commitment is he giving? Is he even capable of caring for u? Taking the responsibilities of ur successes as well as failures?

its a two-way road.. none can remain selfless in love without destroying oneself (e.g. Devdas)

so its time for u to decide whether u want to destroy ur self for an undeserving person or b practical and value urself and ur love more over everything else and wait for the right person to shower ur love onto..

I hope u will learn ur lesson from ur mistakes, take advice from the vast and varied experiences of the members here, and come back to reality of world..

Shows r good for entertainment, but thy cannot b life-turning experiences or teaching lessons becoz thy r not reality and mostly they showcase a glossed-up version of life situations which r limited to a Creative's imagination in portraying the complexity of life..

so ur world cannot b Naina-Sameer's world.. its shaped up by Creatives and urs by urself..

so get hold of ur world and don't waste this v. v. v. imp years of ur life over some frivolous person.. for whom u don't even exist..

Ask ur self how many minutes of his daily life is he spending thinking about u? Doing something about u? 1, 5, 10 or none? And u ? how many hours, minutes, r u wasting of ur life thinking about that person which u can spend doing something productive, useful, worthwhile? Does it sound practical? Prudent?

If u r unable to do it urself, I suggest u to get some professional counselling or seek advice/guidance from some elder experienced person in ur real life..
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