Originally posted by: aardhan
Small mercies there, right? Atleast she got him to a bedroom instead of leaving him out in the cold... but yes, the moment she came in she went back to the usual Vishaka. You know what's amazing... from the very beginning she wants Sameer to be the one to adjust.😡 Even today, even when is mentally disturbed and not in his proper senses, she is spouting a bunch of instructions to him... with a formal go to sleep, take care kind of parting shot..😡.
On the whole we can definitely say in all these years she has forgotten how to be a mother to Sameer... in all these years she has managed to not only successfully keep him away from Dehli but has also managed to emotionally disconnect with him. No wonder the mention of Delhi always terrified Sameer... And all her Rohan jaap since the beginning simply shows she has not taken the time to get to know Sameer as she has with Rohan... she left him in hostels and with her father, paid occasional day trips, knows about some of his likes but has limited her personal interactions with him.
Then the next morning she is back with asking the servant to make his favorite dishes... it looks like she has become a good aunt to Sameer. She has a mental barrier when it comes to showing her care for him in front of him, even when no one is looking. Wonder why? She kissed him when he was sleeping and gave instructions to the servant again in his absence... why not do some of that in his presence? Then he will feel cared for? This behavior has led Sameer to keep her at an arms length... now she doesn't know how to get closer to him.
It was sad... Sameer is living the worst nighmare of his life... and hoping that its a nightmare... but alas he will soon come to accept the reality. And if Somani is going to exhibit his insensitivity towards the delicate emotions of a teen then Sameer will toughen up.
Oh...loved to hear that song... what fun! 😃 After Nanu, Bela has become one of those oh so positive characters in the show... loving her more and more. I always thought Preeti was a few months younger than Naina... so imagine a young Bela with a 3 year old and pregnant, yet she accepts responsibility of another new born... and manages it with great grace... manages to find that zone where she treats all the 3 as her own... manages to instill love and confidence in a motherless child that she can now happily spread her wings in this house... she feels secure in their love. Such a selfless person! Hats off to Bela! 👏 Even today she was trying to shield the girls as long as she can before they fond out the truth... she is so sensitive to their feelings. And today Bela and Taiji felt bad for Sameer too... how nicely they mentioned he was in the same class and he had spent so much time with them... they were genuinely sad for him... honestly these people would have helped him overcome this tragedy better then his own mother! No wonder they showed him kicking the bag of rice... after he marries Naina this family is going to become his real family. 😃
And what a contrast to Vishaka.... Vishaka sacrificed her son's well being to raise her stepson Rohan and even today Somani has the temerity to sit in front of her ans say it was all his mother's doing... ungrateful family that is.😡 Maybe she was under pressure... maybe the Somanis first agreed because they wanted a mother for Rohan but later emotionally tricked her, much like what we witnessed today... and she never understood their motive, in turn harming her own son and depriving him of a mother's love that is the birthright of a son! I'm sure she is guilty of it now, but still unable to do anything, because as a character she has no voice in front of her dominant husband.
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And what lovely conversation between sisters... how cute that Naina is not angry but wants to pretend... goes to show how much she loves Sameer... in her view, he stood her up yet she cannot get mad at him. 😳 And loved hoe she reminded Naina that she had troubled Sameer a lot in the wedding, now she should not get angry for such small things... Preeti and her support for Jeejaji will be lifelong. And even Naina now silently acknowledges that she did go overboard and troubled someone who loves her unconditionally... it was so nice to see that small scene today. 😃
True... gave the story a much needed positive outlook...maybe Sameer was successful in changing their opinion of him... I'm eager to see Somani eat crow in this instance... 😆 Again that chirpiness is such a contrast to Sameer's who is describing his feelings, his thoughts as he was going through the motions of living those dark days...
Oh the heartbreak... the poor girl literally lost all control. Thank God Preeti held her. I loved how immediately she realized how shattered Sameer would be... all she could think of was to get to him. 👏 I was right yesterday. She rushed to his house...
Yeah... Somani and his insensitive ways! I hope Sameer doesn't recreate his hard, 'I don't care' shell again... this is where his interaction with Naina is crucial... he needs to feel that love because she will be able to keep him balanced, so he can hold on to his wits. She is the only one that can calm him down when he is angry, so he can go back to his rational, genteel, mature self... Anger is his biggest enemy and even though he has learnt a lot about controlling it, yet it does pop up sometimes, like in that match...
The guy is having nightmares when he sleeps, is unable to eat or sleep properly and Somani is concerned about his discipline! 🤔 😲 😡 And his mission to make Sameer responsible... I sincerely hope they show Somani getting surprised at the new matured, responsible Sameer that he is now, that Nanu proudly proclaimed him to be 😃. Sameer matured a lot in Agarwal house... he also learnt a lot of life lessons... hope they show him using all that experience, so he can make Nanu proud and surprise the living daylights out of Somani...Fingers crossed on this. 😛 I so want Somani's 'I know how boys like Sameer are' attitude to take a severe beating! Sachi! 😡 😆
Will respond about Rohan when I see more of him... for now its clear Daadi knows of Sameer. But the kids probably don't because they have never seen him... now Sameer knows about the kids, obviously ... maybe it was Daadi's orders to never mention Sameer since he was not a part of their lives...
The other day when I saw those photos I was so mad... I was today as well. I know all that will break Sameer even more... that poor kid doesn't have a single photo with his mom, maybe because his mom never gave him enough time to even click a photo. 😡 Even when she came to see him, she was always running, hurrying back to Rohan... Rohan was constantly on her lips... not once did she did and chat with Sameer, except when she gifted him after the head boy competition because he tried his best... but that show of love didn't last.
Also, Rohan's room is definitely more ordered than Sameer... seems more rigid while Sameer's room is more fluid. And Rohan's room is littered with awards, certificates and photos... it does look like more care has gone into decorating it. Maybe Vishaka personally did it... unlike Sameer's room which maybe he and Nanu decorated...
My heart broke for this boy in this scene.😒... wouldn't it have been nice if Vishaka tucked him in... then came to wake him up and showed him around the house... let's see what we get from her tomorrow.
Precap: Poor girl is in for more shocks, first when she will hear that he left... and then when she will hear about his condition from Mundit... This shot is only the beginning of the nightmare that Naina is going to face now.
Tomorrow will be bad for both of them... both will encounter the harsh reality of their life for the first time... both will be in a whole new world that is filled with pain... both will feel lost for a while, till something hits them and then they will start to take control of their situaiton and life... lets wait and see.