Sameer's dilemma and lesson for us all - Page 3

Originally posted by: angelic567

Wonderful post ridz👏

U said it all... I agree with you completely... whatever we may, at the end of the day, its our family whom we look upon... After watching sameer's condition, i feel myself more and more lucky to have a beautiful family... Parents are the biggest blessing in the world..

Nothing can replace that... I've also seen people from broken families and how the kids in those families feels...its such a painful situation to be in...

so i agree about sameer's condition... Until nanu was there, he didn't have to worry about the anything as nanu's chaav was always there... Bt now he's lost it... His friends and nanu can do only little in this situation... They are too young to support him in every way... I feel naina is far more lucky than sam... She has people like chachaji,chachiji,preeti and arjun who loves her unconditionally.

I feel for sam and his situation... He needs some more years to be capable of holding naina's hand... Until then he may have to depend on his step family... I hope naina and his friends are able to give him strength to deal with this through phone calls and letters.

Yes indeed. Good parents are blessings of god. Bad parents like these can rip you apart from inside and make you feel the loneliest😭

Originally posted by: mehraan

Really moved by ur posting dear.👏.!Jus made me emotional...

Thanks Mehraan😃😃

Life will show us good and bad times and it's these situations which will make us see the world in a better way ...but unfortunately sameer had to face it at a young age ..
Nice post dear .

beautifully penned down... I have been saying this from a long time sameer never had family to begin with he was all alone through his growing up age... his family meant nanaji and thats about it... he never had a brother like naina has preeti... naina has preeti to support her... she and preeti share things... sameer doesnt have a habit of sharing things nor he has habit of listening to others because he was pampered by his nanaji as he was a single kid with no mother and father... sameer got whatever he wanted so when he decided to put a bet he knew he will win but in dt process he lost his heart... whenever naina didnt pay attention to him it always used to make him angry because he never had the habit of being avoided or not being heard... also single kids are like one man army because they know they hv no one else to support them apart from either their parents or themselves... they dont hv elder brother or sister to take a stand for them... when their only support leaves them they shatter... they dont know how to react what to do... they slip into depression quite easily... they dont share their inner feelings as it is single kids hv no one to share their feelings with apart from friends... dts y fr sameer friendship held great importance he could do anything for friends... his nanu was his friend brother mother father in short everything... loosing him means sameer can never b d same person again... he will quietly listen to all taunts, will quietly agree to each thing without reacting or saying anything... he would enter a shell which results in depression... such people come out of shell only when they feel loved, wanted, and above all feel pampered... dts wt exactly naina will do...for outer world he will b d strong sameer but with naina he can be dt broken sameer who would need love, care, feeling of wanted, and above all feeling of being pampered... during that bike scene naina says "sameer ko apni tareef sunna boht pasand hai" so he loves pampering, being praised for small things also means pampering... such kids feel happy... having a mother but not getting the desired love pinches u n above all salt is added in dt wound when you see others getting their mother's love... naina always had chachiji as a mother figure and chachaji as father figure... for sameer it was his nanaji which filled this position... but he couldnt share his feeling with nanaji as well... he kept it within only sometimes with friends u say it... like sweater scene? where he said mummy saal main sirf do baar baat karti hai... dt showed he has kept lots of stuff inside him which will now act as a driver to demotivate him to pull him into a shell ultimately pull him to depression...

Originally posted by: youth_showsfan

beautifully penned down... I have been saying this from a long time sameer never had family to begin with he was all alone through his growing up age... his family meant nanaji and thats about it... he never had a brother like naina has preeti... naina has preeti to support her... she and preeti share things... sameer doesnt have a habit of sharing things nor he has habit of listening to others because he was pampered by his nanaji as he was a single kid with no mother and father... sameer got whatever he wanted so when he decided to put a bet he knew he will win but in dt process he lost his heart... whenever naina didnt pay attention to him it always used to make him angry because he never had the habit of being avoided or not being heard... also single kids are like one man army because they know they hv no one else to support them apart from either their parents or themselves... they dont hv elder brother or sister to take a stand for them... when their only support leaves them they shatter... they dont know how to react what to do... they slip into depression quite easily... they dont share their inner feelings as it is single kids hv no one to share their feelings with apart from friends... dts y fr sameer friendship held great importance he could do anything for friends... his nanu was his friend brother mother father in short everything... loosing him means sameer can never b d same person again... he will quietly listen to all taunts, will quietly agree to each thing without reacting or saying anything... he would enter a shell which results in depression... such people come out of shell only when they feel loved, wanted, and above all feel pampered... dts wt exactly naina will do...for outer world he will b d strong sameer but with naina he can be dt broken sameer who would need love, care, feeling of wanted, and above all feeling of being pampered... during that bike scene naina says "sameer ko apni tareef sunna boht pasand hai" so he loves pampering, being praised for small things also means pampering... such kids feel happy... having a mother but not getting the desired love pinches u n above all salt is added in dt wound when you see others getting their mother's love... naina always had chachiji as a mother figure and chachaji as father figure... for sameer it was his nanaji which filled this position... but he couldnt share his feeling with nanaji as well... he kept it within only sometimes with friends u say it... like sweater scene? where he said mummy saal main sirf do baar baat karti hai... dt showed he has kept lots of stuff inside him which will now act as a driver to demotivate him to pull him into a shell ultimately pull him to depression...

i am waiting to see how cvs show this... sameer is vulnerable now bt wont show it except to naina... in reality no one but only u urself can help urself to come out of depression... it will b interesting to see how sameer comes out of his shell n realises, he needs to take the responsibility which his nanaji wanted him to take... how he motivates himself n how naina's love brings back the confidence which he once had...

Thank you. Yes loneliness and emptiness is a very painful disease😭

Originally posted by: dakshaavi

Life will show us good and bad times and it's these situations which will make us see the world in a better way ...but unfortunately sameer had to face it at a young age ..
Nice post dear .

Thank you😃