Sameer's dilemma and lesson for us all

Hi friends:

I am seeing many posts in regards to Why can't Sameer go to Naina and all. I want to share with you the innermost feelings of Sameer, and I want everyone here to take this message away from it. And tell me what you feel after you read this post.

I will share with you something. Jab tak hamare maa baap zinda hote hain, hamari family unconditionally humko support karne ke liye rehti hai, until than we live a carefree life. Because we know that we have someone who will always catch us if we fall, someone who will guide us if we make mistake, someone who will stand up for us if the world goes against us or is cruel against us. But you know how it feels to lose that?? Thats what Sameer is feeling, and that has made him that way. His only pillar of support since childhood who used to understand him support him financially and emotionally, who used to stand up for him against everyone including his vishkanya mother and snake father, that support is gone. He knew he was never wanted in his new father's house, but now he is so vulnerable that he has no where else to go but there only. Yes for us its easy to say that he can go to Naina. But can he really??? She herself is dependent on her family financially as well in other ways. She herself is emotionally dependent on her family. Is she herself in the same position as Nanu. She is not. Can Sameer rely on her to protect him against her father, who has beaten him multiple times?? no she cannot. Nanu could. Can Naina protect him from his evil family... No she can't. She can't speak against her own family, how will she protect him against his own at this point in time. He has lost his only pillar of strength. Strength that allowed him to be carefree, and strong and confident person he once was.

Why is Sameer adjusting or doing whatever he is doing? Has he been changed by Naina for better or is it something else?

And its worth understanding it. NO man or woman can change you as much as halat (ie. situations) can. Its this sudden void in Sameer's life of a father figure that has made him mature all of a sudden. He is so emotionally vulnerable, and lonely that he is not willing to fight against anything right now. He just wants to be left alone. For him that is not his mother's house. For him he is a guest in that house. And guest has to abide by the rules of the host's family. And that is what his position is in that house he feels, and therefore that is how he is behaving. He will adjust to whatever they say and he is not going to fight back. Why? you may ask. Ask yourself this. What gives you a strength to fight in this world, what makes you carefree and confident? Its the fact that you all have your family, the fact that you have someone strong like your dad or your mom, who will always stand by you emotionally, financially, and other ways as well. Now maybe you will understand what this guys is going through, and feel his pain.

I am very heart broken at his condition because I know and has seen that in real life from someone I knew very closely. Its such a vulnerable position that this guy is in. I honestly want to give him a jappi.😭

I really hope that from this track, everyone who is watching realizes, the importance of parents, and family and importance of support system and security we get through having our own blood in this world. Very many times we take the same people for granted. But look at this guy, he did not have any one including his mom to begin with, and now he lost his only support in this world. What he must be going through. I can feel his helplessness. Its so heart wrenching. I really wish the viewers actually see this and if anyone is ignoring their parents or loved ones, start valuing them. Is duniya mein akele pan/khali pan se khatarnaak koi bimari nahin hai...Aur Sameer sabse akela hai😭


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Ridz

I agree...he will also understand how Naina must be feeling at Chacha chachis house...how she must have pocketed the insults that used to be thrown across by Tayiji and her own father.

Now Both Naina and Sameer are in the same situation...both have one biological parent who is as good as not being there. And both have to rely on other people for their basic needs which is food clothing and shelter ...its a pitiable condition in life...

If they have to come out then they have to be financially independent...because the people who gave birth to them cannot be called as parents...just because one is responsible for their birth doesn't make one a parent...

You will be called a mother or father ...when you take the responsibility of upbringing the child ...providing the child with safe , happy , secure and healthy environment...above all when you are willing to stand up to protect for the rights of your child...which both Rakesh and Vishaka failed miserably as parents.

Such a wonderful post dear!!

u correctly said it...akelepan se Badi ko bimari nahi hoti is duniya me...facing everything alone in this cruel world is nt easy!!!

This track has many takes...n all of them are positive!!
This is an emotional track...the cvs are prepared to take us to such an emotional ride...which I guess v might hv never noticed on television!!
V r going to witness love, betrayal by own ppl, relationship of brothers bt nt by blood, friendship, struggle, togetherness etc many things in just one track!!!!

A very well emoted post dear!!!

Originally posted by: umam

Heartfelt thoughts!!

Just the other day, Sameer wanted to remain his Nanu's little one to be pampered and secured with love and in a day his world has turned upside down. I cannot imagine anyone being in this situation even if it is a reel character.. Terribly painful to even think of.. He truly is at cross-roads at this stage.. looking forward to Sameer's journey to Sameer Jaiprakash Maheshwari..

btw.. am just curious. will we get to see a 5/6 yr old Sameer experiencing the abandonment when Vishakha remarried? Children are very sensitive and the pain loneliness that they feel at this stage will mar or make their life ahead.. Or, may be writers won't go there..

I don't think writers will explore that avenue. However, I feel that they will give a slight insight into what happened with him by showing the family dynamics of Somani, and Sameer's condition now to give us an Idea of how bad it was back than. Like he said earlier when Naina took care of him during school trip to mount abu, that he was always in convent/hostel all his life. When he used to be sick, there used to be many doctors, but no one to tuck him into a blanket when he was freezing. This said it all. That he has been alone since childhood. As per Vishakha, back than if you get married, usually your new family never accepted child from your previous husband. And that is why Nanu said that for you future Vishakha, I decided to be mother and father to Sameer. And ab mein jaa raha hoon toh please uski aankho mein aansu mat aate ne dena. That means for Sameer his mother was never there for him from childhood. He spent his school days in hostel, and his off days with his Nanu. Now you can imagine what he has gone through all his life. I feel his pain is way bigger than Naina's pain. Because Naina though didn't have mom, she did have her aunt, and her uncle to guide and protect her. And she has Arjun who looks out for her. Sameer ki life mein sirf akela pan tha, aur nanaji the. Ab nanaji chale gaye, toh he only has his loneliness and emptiness.

Originally posted by: Niakhush

Such a wonderful post dear!!

u correctly said it...akelepan se Badi ko bimari nahi hoti is duniya me...facing everything alone in this cruel world is nt easy!!!

This track has many takes...n all of them are positive!!
This is an emotional track...the cvs are prepared to take us to such an emotional ride...which I guess v might hv never noticed on television!!
V r going to witness love, betrayal by own ppl, relationship of brothers bt nt by blood, friendship, struggle, togetherness etc many things in just one track!!!!

A very well emoted post dear!!!

Thank you dear 😃

This track will be emtional slong with Samina we too need a strong mind to go through this track

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I agree...he will also understand how Naina must be feeling at Chacha chachis house...how she must have pocketed the insults that used to be thrown across by Tayiji and her own father.

Now Both Naina and Sameer are in the same situation...both have one biological parent who is as good as not being there. And both have to rely on other people for their basic needs which is food clothing and shelter ...its a pitiable condition in life...

If they have to come out then they have to be financially independent...because the people who gave birth to them cannot be called as parents...just because one is responsible for their birth doesn't make one a parent...

You will be called a mother or father ...when you take the responsibility of upbringing the child ...providing the child with safe , happy , secure and healthy environment...above all when you are willing to stand up to protect for the rights of your child...which both Rakesh and Vishaka failed miserably as parents.

He is not going to feel anything right now. He has become empty. As per Naina, I don't agree she is in same situation as him at all. Yes their situations resemble but, Sameer is in a deeper pain and has been in pain all his life. He has spent all his childhood in hostel and his only support system nanaji is gone too now. Like he said in mount abu episode ki meine apni puri life hostel mein bitayi hai...bimaar padne par doctor toh bahot aajate the, par sar pe kambal odhane wala koi nahin tha. Thats the type of emotional turmoil he has faced all his life. His only ray of hope from childhood has been his nanaji, which is gone. Woh abhi ek andhere kuve mein akela betha hua feel kar raha hai.

His loss, his pain is wayyy bigger than Naina's. Much much much bigger. He has never seen a family life, he has never been scolded out of love, no one ever loved him caressed him when he was sick...And you know what is worst, worst is that when you have a parent and stlll you have to go through this. Its one thing to not have parents at all. But its very painful to know that you a parent out there somewhere, but, they have no connect with you at all. That is the worst feeling ever.

No amount of money her mom can spend can buy the sense of belonging he was seeking all his life. I feel so pained to know that such people exists that can put a small masooom child through so much. I hope god gives beautiful childhood to all in this world. I am just shocked how much Mr. Summit has gone through, that is if this story is following his exact life story.

Honestly in all the posts I have read regarding YUDKBT, this was by far the most moving most earth shattering. The insight that was put forth about Sameers journey from that chota sa bacha to the troubled teenager with a heart of Gold was precise and extremely correct. Not only did I think of a character made up by some writers on the opposite end but also of those children who actually live a life such as this or even those who have it even worst. We must begin to count our blessings.

Originally posted by: dnyd

Honestly in all the posts I have read regarding YUDKBT, this was by far the most moving most earth shattering. The insight that was put forth about Sameers journey from that chota sa bacha to the troubled teenager with a heart of Gold was precise and extremely correct. Not only did I think of a character made up by some writers on the opposite end but also of those children who actually live a life such as this or even those who have it even worst. We must begin to count our blessings.

Thank you. Glad you think that way😃