Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 19

Originally posted by: mreshma

I may sound idiotic n maybe wrong too... But can by any remote chance, the lady in the precap be the lady doctor whom Ishita consulted for Raman condition...

Originally posted by: sreeu12345

No that judge wearing heals and saree like that not possible...

Maybe someone new ...as per ekta land of fantasy the ladyight say he is his wife...

Ya simmi might be just framing the story to trap ishita and make her mad not Raman...

Raman getting gun...might be again simmi plan...to trap Raman in something..

Originally posted by: shanayasm

Nything is possible . .. Lets c who is gono b d new lady... Raman se connection hoga uska... Ex wife or girlfriend or an ONS... Seriously 45+ n cvs are showing all dis nonsense ..

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

The 7 years of struggle, mental and physical abuse by Nidhi, none to care for & love her, yet again in her life, after the initial 6 years and the very fact that her parents were ready to exchange her in place of her sister, might have left a deep wound which is still untreated in her. Ruhi should have been given proper counselling after she came back, despite the fact that she returned to the family and got united with her parents. That is where IshRa were mighty wrong. Instead they let her act like dadi maa, leaving all important decisions to her and did not have a good talk with her. If not then, atleast after the sohail incident, where it was evident that she was craving for care and affection from someone, who pampers her and for whom she means the world, that undivided attention from someone, she should have been treated and a good talk with parents was the most needed one at that stage, but IshRa were busy fighting with each other and then the famous Gulabo track, where one parent decides to leave and the other one decides to run after the other kid & partner, and no one to actually talk to her and get her back in the right frame of mind. Again she was left in that state of mind and Nikhil happened. With Nikhil, it has been the same, that guy connected with her at emotional and musical level too😆 and again the mitra maa nonsense happened because she was determined to prove that she is the next Ishita in making, they are next IshRa who would be successful couple and probably even she wanted to prove that they can become the parents that IshRa cannot be?😕

But then, these experiences also has made her selfish, self-centered, rigid, egoistic and arrogant. The ego and arrogance stemming from the fact that she has started earning from childhood, has earned a big name all alone and that she did all this, without anyone's support. So she is all the more egoistic that she can be successful in whatever she does, she does not require anyone to help or guide her and only she is deserving of every success. May be the wound which is still untreated, has made her emotionless and rigid, because despite the fact that she was arrogant and selfish, she was also of the opinion after Budapest that she is not important to anyone in their lives and so she also does not require them. Simmi and Nikhil have added on to the hurt, the wound with the molestation and yet again the absence of a mother and father in her hour of need, has made her what she was all the while. That is why with two experiences, she has started hating love because it has done more damage to her that attending to her wounds. It is good that Ishita spoke to her, gave her the strength and confidence, got him arrested and both IshRa ensured her of their support and love. That is why I was ok with IshRa apologizing to her, because they were not there for her, yet again , when she needed them the most. But then, she also should have apologized, because she is equally responsible for all the mess, but then I don't think the girl is in the frame of mind to even think and realize that because she is drowned in self pity more.😕

I don't see an upbringing going wrong here, rather it is all the mental trauma that girl has been through which is still untreated. She still has the values that IshRa gave her, but this repeated disappointments and heartaches that she has got in her adolescent and teen, no proper attention and treatment given is the cause of her behavior is what I feel. I am no way justifying her, because her actions can never be justified, but just trying to see what could have made her in to such a rigid, emotionless and selfish girl.

Thank god, I have never watched any shows of Ekta before and not planning to watch anymore😆. But then, being a so-called modern, empowered woman, why can't she change the formula of desi TV and actually spread message for equality of genders and woman empowerment is beyond my understanding😕. Not that if everyone falls in the pit, she also falls in that, just to be in the TRP game🥱. The most irritating and disgusting issue that I have heard with Ekta shows is her endorsement of polygamy with multiple-ex and that somehow she brings a third angle in between a couple. Yuck.🤢. Won't she be ashamed as a woman to keep repeating this nonsense in every show of hers?😕🥱

Regarding IshRa, yes that is what I mentioned. With this track, it is really sad, painful and awkward to see the equations change to what they share now and track after track, the beauty in this relationship has been compromised by butchering IshRa alternatively, but in this track, both of them are equally destroyed comprehensively. 😔