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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LifeOLicious

"It all depends on what separates a couple"

Absolutely! It all depends on that. However, I find a few things quite interesting. If someone can help me understand that would be great.

Suz and HR if indeed had a bitter break up, why is she going around posting pics of HR and calling him "sunshine of her life". I need an explanation. Someone once said it's PR. Really? Just PR? You'd lie this much for PR? People do that? LOL! People can be friendly and cordial and go on trips but "sunshine of my life"? 😆

As for Aamir...Reena's brother is still married to Aamir's sister so I can see how his family will always be close to her and she will be a part of the family in a big way so I get that. But she now works for Paani foundation and I find that quite amazing- working for your ex-hubby's organization! Isn't that a bit too close? What do people think about that?

I don't have an ex of any kind so the more info I get the better I can understand. 😆


I didn't know Reena's brother is married to Aamir sister. 😲
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nova19

My opinion of Sussanne changes daily 😆 but every day I believe she loves her sons and she loves money. I also believe she is ambitious (which Gauri and Sussanne have also said in interviews), she is a good actress, and she is better at PR than Hrithik is. Whatever Hrithik earns will eventually go to her sons (and I think already a great deal makes its way to her). Regardless of how she may feel about Hrithik, her sons (and likely she) benefit from his success and lose when he loses. It makes perfect sense to me that if their boys were struggling socially because of the scandal or they feared for Hrithiks career, Hrithik and Sussanne would come together publicly to stop the damage if possible. Do I think she can post an Instagram calling him the sunshine of her life without necessarily meaning it? Well she said her marriage was solid during the "white ant " episode of 2009 and told the press her husband was her biggest supporter and would definitely be at her store opening days before their separation (which happened months before) was made public. In short, she was raised by Sanjay and Zarine Khan, acting and lying are the same actions - the terms are relative. Do I know she doesn't mean it, absolutely not. They claimed they were great friends before marriage. Maybe they had a bitter breakup, time passed and wounds healed and now they are truly good friends again.


Firstly, Public don't give a damn about Star's personal life. They go to watch a film if it is Good. If personal life affects BO, Khans/Akki/Ajay shud hv the worst run as they hv had far worse controversies. Even Sanjay Dutt films do well even during his Terror case.


I dont think it is called acting or lying. It is how families behave.It was clear that they had tiffs but not big enough to separate. They were not even looking to separate for real even few days before her store launch. Since HR didn't attend it, they decided to divorce as all the ego fights in last few months between them had reached a crescendo. Hrithik statement made it clear it was her decision. He even said "she will remain his love of life for the rest of his life. And if her smiles r brighter without him than his love for her must accomplish it. Unconditional."


He stuck to his stand. He neither hit the dating scene nor moved on. And it has been 4 years. Same has been the case with Sussanne. Even she is Single.

Tensions between all of them hv eased now. She has given up Rampals company n Hrithik will move in with her in a Separate house. Closer to his parents but not in the same house to avoid fights.

It is wrong to say Sussanne is after money etc. If she was, she wud not hv dated Hrithik when he was a nobody. It was she who paid for their first date. She came from a richer background than his. Yes, things hv changed with the success of Hrithik. But like Hrithik said, their relationship was never about money. Sussanne was never a leech. She was working before dating Hrithik, even worked during her 9th month of pregnancy n is still working. She will get his money even without romantic messages or being so nice to his parents as she is legally entitled to it even otherwise. The fact that both r not dating others n keep looking to be with each other even month long vacations in US away from media shows that it is not PR. So, to brush her efforts to just money is very wrong.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Crystal - you have a very different perspective than I do. The press has reported that Sussanne moved out months before the press release, not days. Before she moved out, he was staying in hotels as far back as the making of K3. By the time of the store opening a few days after the separation was announced, she had already changed the matching tattoo she and Hrithik had. Their divorce was a long time coming.

You believe if neither dates publicly, then neither is dating. I don't think that is necessarily true.

Not sure why you think they are moving in together. Subhash K Jha is currently reporting both have denied a reconciliation and he directly quotes Sussanne. If you believe Sussanne is not an actress/liar why don't you believe her now?

I did not intend a huge insult when I said Sussanne likes money. I also like money and I also would likely do what I think she is doing to protect my children. Finally, Sussanne dating Hrithik, son of a successful movie director producer, when his father was being tough on him and making him work like he wasn't the son of a successful movie director producer doesn't mean as much to me as it seems to mean to you. He chose to marry her when he was on top of the world. Would she have married him if KNPH had vanished without a trace? We will never know.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nova19

Crystal - you have a very different perspective than I do. The press has reported that Sussanne moved out months before the press release, not days. Before she moved out, he was staying in hotels as far back as the making of K3. By the time of the store opening a few days after the separation was announced, she had already changed the matching tattoo she and Hrithik had. Their divorce was a long time coming.


You believe if neither dates publicly, then neither is dating. I don't think that is necessarily true.

Not sure why you think they are moving in together. Subhash K Jha is currently reporting both have denied a reconciliation and he directly quotes Sussanne. If you believe Sussanne is not an actress/liar why don't you believe her now?

I did not intend a huge insult when I said Sussanne likes money. I also like money and I also would likely do what I think she is doing to protect my children. Finally, Sussanne dating Hrithik, son of a successful movie director producer, when his father was being tough on him and making him work like he wasn't the son of a successful movie director producer doesn't mean as much to me as it seems to mean to you. He chose to marry her when he was on top of the world. Would she have married him if KNPH had vanished without a trace? We will never know.


Firstly, why wud they reveal their personal thing to a media person like Subhash Jha? They are clearly taking things slow n keeping people guessing. They hv not denied the remarriage rumors at all and infact hv been adding to the fuel by hanging out together even her celebrating his grandpa birthday. The writer only quoted wat Sussanne stated publicly long back. But then, just like people change their minds, she is allowed to change her mind too. She has been actively pursuing Hrithik n said she loves him above her mom.

It is Hrithik who said their relation was never about money. I can understand her pursuing money if she was poor. But she was and is not. They both were engaged even before his film released so she wud hv married him irrespective of the result of his film.

U got some facts wrong. She changed the tattoo in March 2014. Not during store launch. He was never staying in Hotel, he was staying in Palazzo only. U can see Breakfast to Dinner episode that took place during promotion of K3. She had left home n didnot even stay in her Parents house as they were also supporting Hrithik. The press reported that she had moved out. But they also said Hrithik attending her birthday party but his parents did not. They also said how she just attended his father's birthday, greeted Hrithik but not his father and walked out after a shortly citing some excuse.

There has been many reports for many years of how Sussanne always wanted to shift but Hrithik was not willing to leave his Parents. There has to be a reason why Hrithik suddenly bought a new house n why he is still not in talking terms with Rampals.

The reason why people talk about them getting back is precisely bcoz both are Single. And Hrithik said it very clearly in his interviews that he has been a Single man since his Divorce. The only woman he is spotted hanging out with is Sussanne. And these r not usual parent duties. They are going on couple dates. Vacations cut off from Media. If they r dating someone secretly, such pics with Ex spouse wud actually not been posted nor wud they hv gone on monthlong vacations as it will affect their relationship with their new partners. It is clear that there is still lot of respect, love and care between both of them. Even without legal bond.
Edited by CrystalFatima - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: CrystalFatima


Firstly, why wud they reveal their personal thing to a media person like Subhash Jha? They are clearly taking things slow n keeping people guessing. They hv not denied the remarriage rumors at all and infact hv been adding to the fuel by hanging out together even her celebrating his grandpa birthday. The writer only quoted wat Sussanne stated publicly long back. But then, just like people change their minds, she is allowed to change her mind too. She has been actively pursuing Hrithik n said she loves him above her mom.

It is Hrithik who said their relation was never about money. I can understand her pursuing money if she was poor. But she was and is not. They both were engaged even before his film released so she wud hv married him irrespective of the result of his film.

U got some facts wrong. She changed the tattoo in March 2014. Not during store launch. He was never staying in Hotel, he was staying in Palazzo only. U can see Breakfast to Dinner episode that took place during promotion of K3. She had left home n didnot even stay in her Parents house as they were also supporting Hrithik. The press reported that she had moved out. But they also said Hrithik attending her birthday party but his parents did not. They also said how she just attended his father's birthday, greeted Hrithik but not his father and walked out after a shortly citing some excuse.

There has been many reports for many years of how Sussanne always wanted to shift but Hrithik was not willing to leave his Parents. There has to be a reason why Hrithik suddenly bought a new house n why he is still not in talking terms with Rampals.

The reason why people talk about them getting back is precisely bcoz both are Single. And Hrithik said it very clearly in his interviews that he has been a Single man since his Divorce. The only woman he is spotted hanging out with is Sussanne. And these r not usual parent duties. They are going on couple dates. Vacations cut off from Media. If they r dating someone secretly, such pics with Ex spouse wud actually not been posted nor wud they hv gone on monthlong vacations as it will affect their relationship with their new partners. It is clear that there is still lot of respect, love and care between both of them. Even without legal bond.

I have to get up early so I will leave you with one quick thing:

Please look at Sussanne's right arm in picture 12 of 20. I understand you believe what you believe strongly but sometimes beliefs need to be reexamined carefully.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nova19

I have to get up early so I will leave you with one quick thing:

Please look at Sussanne's right arm in picture 12 of 20. I understand you believe what you believe strongly but sometimes beliefs need to be reexamined carefully.


Fine. I stand corrected on this. Bcoz i remember reading an article of March 2014 about her tattoo. Still, it was only after they announced the separation that she got it done. Hrithik not attending her store launch n going to US was possibly the last straw in their months long ego fights. Am sure, she is looking back at her behavior with great regret and now "follow ur sunshine" has changed to "Hrithik is my Sunshine". 😆😆 She is all over him. I hv not seen any PDA from his side till now. Even the pics he posts of them together dont show him hugging her. They are always with kids n other family members. Let us see how things go between these two. I wud like them both to get back together. But also, feel Hrithik deserves someone better. Hope she is not playing mindgames where she is just not letting him move on too by constantly marking him as her own.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anurag and kalki
Koko and Ranvir shorey

Cleaner than many couples
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Crystal before you decide to strongly believe Sussanne changed her tattoo in the 5 days between the separation announcement and her store launch you might want to look up the stages of tattoo healing. I am not trying to get into a conversation criticizing Hrithik, but the star tattoo publicity in March 2009 was a pr exercise (like all actors he does use pr and it's no big deal) and the pictures were staged a bit, those tattoos had healed before the picture was taken. Again, I am focusing on the tattoo because I knew exactly where to find pictures, but I stand by my original post that you first replied to. My perspective on their relationship is very different and I don't think they will get back together and will not be happy if they did. I don't think they were unhappily married for a few months and rushed to divorce. I think they were unhappily married but putting a brave face on for years and divorced when all other options had been exhausted. If they are able to remain friendly now, as Sussanne claimed in L'Officiel recently, great but I don't expect or hope for more.

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