Shame on you if you don't know how to wear a sari - SABYASACHI

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12 FEBRUARY 2018Last Updated at 12:50 PMARTS & ENTERTAINMENT

Shame On You If You Don't Know How To Wear A Saree: Fashion Designer Sabyasachi Tells Indian Women

"I think, if you tell me that you do not know how to wear a saree, I would say shame on you. It's a part of your culture, (you) need stand up for it."
Shame On You If You Don't Know How To Wear A Saree: Fashion Designer Sabyasachi Tells Indian Women
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One of India's top fashion designers Sabyasachi Mukherjee on Saturday criticised women of his country, particularly of the younger generation, for not wearing saree and giving preference to western outfits.

"I think, if you tell me that you do not know how to wear a saree, I would say shame on you. It's a part of your culture, (you) need stand up for it," Sabyasachi told Indian students at the Harvard India Conference.

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His remarks were received with a resounding applause from the audience.

The designer was responding to a question on difficulties women face in draping a saree.

The garment, he said, is the most wonderful dress in the world and people across the globe admire it, and identify Indian women with it.

Sabyasachi referred to his recent conversation with Deepika Padukone, saying the "Padmaavat" actor, in her own way, is creating disruption in fashion.

"She wears saree at all the places she goes," he told the participants here.

When asked why he decided to launch a label of Indian clothing, Sabyasachi said he found a "major disconnect" when he observed Indian women and men losing touch with their roots.

They are becoming "socially insecure", he rued.

"Women and men are trying very hard to be something that they are not. Your clothing should be a part of who you are and connect you to your roots," he added.

The relationship between an Indian woman and saree is that of a serpent, the designer said.

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"It's a relationship of misunderstanding. It's easy to wear a saree. Wars have been fought in saree. Grandmothers have slept in saree and have women up without any folds to it," Sabyasachi added.

The Indian Consul General from New York, Sandeep Chakravarty, present in the audience brought in the question of tying dhoti in India.

"Indian women have kept alive the saree, but the dhoti is dead," the designer said much to the laughter and applause from the audience.

When asked what it would take for the saree to go global, Sabyasachi said, he would, however, prefer that the garment stayed in India.

"I would be very honest with you. I think that cultural clothing should stay within the domain of a particular country, because when you take it out, it becomes a costume and then it does not remain sustainable," the designer said.

(PTI)

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I am Indian, do not know how to wear a saree and not ashamed of my lack of saree draping skills. What kind of stupid statement is that? People wear what they like and not everyone likes saree.
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I m an Indian but I find sarees extremely uncomfortable. Amongst Indian wear Kurtis are so much more comfortable and hassle-free. I get his point though.
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Yeh kyu Sasu Maa ki tarah baat kar raha hai 😛🤣 Design kar kyu ladies ki Saas banne ki kosis kar raha hai 😆
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Originally posted by: ilovecrepes

The Indian Consul General from New York, Sandeep Chakravarty, present in the audience brought in the question of tying dhoti in India.

"Indian women have kept alive the saree, but the dhoti is dead," the designer said

And whose fault is that? Why doesn't he wear and promote dhotis through his brand? Shame on him!

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I prefer wearing trousers instead of dhoti because it is more comfortable for me to sit, stand, walk, run in a trouser more than a dhoti. Same with my mother and sister who prefer jeans over saree for comfort and not because we are socially insecure or losing our roots.
This shaming of people for what they choose to wear, eat, etc is disgusting and uncalled for especially by someone like Sabyasachi. This is not an opinion, it is straight moral policing and shaming on a public platform. No one should be ashamed of their choice.
And the weird part is that this is coming from a man whose livelihood depends on sarees that are worn only ONCE in their lifetime in a wedding and not for daily use.
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Was he wearing a dhoti at the event? Does he ever wear a dhoti ? Does he know how to wear one.
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So does he wear Indian wear all time?
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Always keeping up the sanskar is in woman's hand. One would get tired of this burden.
It is nice for a woman to know how to tie a saree. But a man should also know, how to tie dhoti.

It is always women, who have kept India's tradition alive. Till last generation, women used saree as daily wear, had plaits.
Men left dhoti and and Shika centuries back under British influence. (Even though British clothing style never suited Indian weather).
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Ugh! Clothes are all about style and comfort. People take them too seriously. What is so shameful about not knowing how to carry or drape an outfit?
Tbh I find sarees uncomfortable for everyday wear. It's an occasional wear for youth these days. How does one pee while wearing that? LOL.

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