Healing Avni: Can it ever be What it was? - Page 3

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vijaya138


Neela never failed. All are emotionally attached to their mothers. Ayesha is mother to avni who loves her immensely. Losing her at that small age will not let avni forget her. Avni will never give aayeshas place to anyone. Neela never wanted aayeshas place in avni . She just created her own space in avnis heart. Though she gives neela love and respect. Whenever avni gets happy or sad first she shares with her mother only. That her habit and it can't be changed.


I agree!
Neela never wanted Ayesha's place, and instead, made her own space in Avni's life and heart.
This is precisely why during her conversation with Juhi too, when the latter was saying how will Mishti accept Juhi now, because for her, it is only Avni who is her angel, Neela readily says, why do you want to take Avni''s place at all?
Create your own place in Mishti's life.

It is indeed true.

For Avni, the connection with Ayesha is from the bond of the womb, and when Ayesha died, Avni was 12. That's not an age where you forget things, instead, girls start gaining maturity around that time, and for Avni, due to her own childhood, maturity came way earlier.
So even today, for her, every sadness, happiness, still begins with Ayesha.

It doesn't mean she doesn't value Neela.
She never questions Neela and has given her the full rights of a mom and she calls her Maa too.
We cannot compare her love for Neela and Ayesha, because it is a different kind of love she has for both.
One is from the bond of womb, and the other is from the bond of reality.

But if I can be rest assured of one thing, it is the fact that she would take a bullet for both and she can never see any of her mothers in agony.
That's Avni for you.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Simi1711


I agree!
Neela never wanted Ayesha's place, and instead, made her own space in Avni's life and heart.
This is precisely why during her conversation with Juhi too, when the latter was saying how will Mishti accept Juhi now, because for her, it is only Avni who is her angel, Neela readily says, why do you want to take Avni''s place at all?
Create your own place in Mishti's life.

It is indeed true.

For Avni, the connection with Ayesha is from the bond of the womb, and when Ayesha died, Avni was 12. That's not an age where you forget things, instead, girls start gaining maturity around that time, and for Avni, due to her own childhood, maturity came way earlier.
So even today, for her, every sadness, happiness, still begins with Ayesha.

It doesn't mean she doesn't value Neela.
She never questions Neela and has given her the full rights of a mom and she calls her Maa too.
We cannot compare her love for Neela and Ayesha, because it is a different kind of love she has for both.
One is from the bond of womb, and the other is from the bond of reality.

But if I can be rest assured of one thing, it is the fact that she would take a bullet for both and she can never see any of her mothers in agony.
That's Avni for you.

simi yaar seriously couldn't agree more how could you explain so beautifully and effortlessly 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Simi, beautiful explanation of Avni's love for Ayesha and Neela 👏.. I totally agree with you on that . She has Neela ma doesn't mean she can forget Ayesha or vice versa . These 2 women are both her mother's and have played a crucial role in her life at various stages . Yes , Neela was there with her when she literally had none , but that can't erase the place Ayesha has in Avni's life .
About the main post , it's gonna be so difficult to what it was previously , for both Avni as well as Neil . The arrest is a very huge phase / change of their life and not an easy one . One fine day , when all the obstacles are crossed and Avneil come together and are again in love ., All the trauma that they faced won't fade away . They will probably have to learn to live with it and in the hope that with lot of time passing , the impact of this can lessen in their lives.

Just the way Avni will not be able to erase the image of sindhoor mitana and mangasutra todna by Neil whenever she adorns these in future , Neil will also be not able to forget him doing those mitana and todna to Avni when he sees her adorning these in future. One can only hope , with time their love strengthens and the impact of this arrest phase lessens.

And like you replied someone here , they will probably understand how deep and selfless heirr love runs for each other .and it isn't a one way street , both of them can do anything for the well being and salamati of the other , even if it means heart break to both of them or khaid.. n
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