Such COLD response in Zain's Live session..... - Page 3

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Originally posted by: Push-pull

I'm no fan of any actor personally.. Just enjoy the actor's skills on-screen as the character and how they put those efforts to live as the characters making them look real and make the fans go gaaga over them...😳

Just the post of TM and the comments in this thread interested me and so thought of adding my own not so valuable cents.. 😆

I remember an incident where I went for a movie with a kid. The kid likes the hero for his dance and style. During the movie anytime the hero is not on the screen she goes non-stop asking "Where is he? Where is he?"😆 Till he comes on-screen she continues the same. She's not interested in the movie but her interest is limited to the actor and she's there in the theater to just see him. That's all for the kid and she's just being a kid.😆

Yeah I learnt my lesson to not take her to any theaters. Put on TV so she can forward and rewind and just see what she wants. 😆

And kids do not think about the practicalities that go into the movie making. They live in the fantasy that whatever happening on-screen is real and they've their own imagination of how the actors playing on-screen would be off-screen while making the movie. They would literally imagine that they're together always just like they're seeing the characters on-screen. And they can't even see anything beyond. As kids it's what they're and as adults the adults have to understand or at least try to understand their mental state. And believe me they'll grow up to learn in their own sweet time.😉

And let's face it. The actors need the attention of their fans.. They want to be in the limelight. It's these crazy fans that make them popular, famous, idols and big celebrities. It's these crazy fans that dedicate their time and money to do things and indulge their idols in getting trended, win online polls, receiving gifts, etc..😉

One way or the other it's the fans that make the status of the celebrity with their number games and help them score high on their pay packages. It's all from the fans' personal life that these celebrities relish upon the benefits and when it comes to their personal life they can always choose what they want to show.. That is if they thrive on their popularity and want to benefit from it.🤪

They can choose to keep it such a way what they show is in alignment with the sensibility and sensitivity of their fans because they ask for their fans attention with their publicity. And what they show is not liked by the fans and things turn out to be different than their expectations then how they even draw line here saying it's their personal life and ask the fans to stay out of it...😕

Celebrities sure don't have a private life if they don't keep their private life private.. If they share it in public then they better be prepared to face its consequences. One can't draw lines for fans' craziness... If they themselves don't know to draw the lines between their personal and professional lives then how can they expect their crazy fans to know that...

When they can enjoy their crazy attention and craze for them then they can also enjoy the crazy rage and obsession as well.😆.

And if we claim to be the matured fans here then we shouldn't play the advocates for neither the actors nor the crazy fans. It's between them and let them handle it. We just hope both learn their lessons and grow up.😃

Let's make peace with our own FD.. 😆

Originally posted by: sssenorita

Thanks @Push-pull, I guess out of everyone, you were the only one who understood my point. I can speak personally for myself that we all are mature enough to differentiate between personal and professional life. Fans may wish something but all celebrities have full right and liberty to make their choices (who to hangout with, date or even marry) who are we to tell them. But even celebrities need to learn how to handle themselves publicly. what was that?? was it justified...

Social media is a way these people create visibility and fan base by giving peeps about their personal life and create fan base but when same fans backlash they are unable to handle it and snap back at them??...issue is not who they date or whether you have right to your personal life, issue is mis behaving with fans and snapping at them. This will lead to fans being hurt and going elsewhere...who likes bad behavior?

Once Shahrukh had said, we use media for our advantage and when they same happens in reverse we are unable to handle it., so we need to handle things maturely...(kind words by a superstar, who knows best than him)

Okay coming to Live session, for those who said it was not a damage control, i would like to ask, he started off saying he has come live as he had promised but all he did was talk about how there is nothing between them or she might have not meant that or he respects girls so we should also not bash his friends (girls) and he did not show for sympathy his bruise marks and we should respect that and lastly keep watching Naamkaraan as leap is starting...LOL Can you please tell me was there any third thing (not related to damage control) which he spoke about?? Hum ne bhi duniya dekhi hain...yahan bhi Fans ko Gyaan hi diva ki "We should respect his friends, his personal life and watch his serial"...

I am not saying he is wrong or bad and I am as fond of him onscreen as any other fan but his offscreen is quite mixed up...fans melted seeing him but I am not sure if he really understood what the issue was...Jaane do I am bored now...lets just watch the serial and let them do what they want offscreen...how does it matter...

Originally posted by: Push-pull

I'm no fan of any actor personally.. Just enjoy the actor's skills on-screen as the character and how they put those efforts to live as the characters making them look real and make the fans go gaaga over them...😳

Just the post of TM and the comments in this thread interested me and so thought of adding my own not so valuable cents.. 😆

I remember an incident where I went for a movie with a kid. The kid likes the hero for his dance and style. During the movie anytime the hero is not on the screen she goes non-stop asking "Where is he? Where is he?"😆 Till he comes on-screen she continues the same. She's not interested in the movie but her interest is limited to the actor and she's there in the theater to just see him. That's all for the kid and she's just being a kid.😆

Yeah I learnt my lesson to not take her to any theaters. Put on TV so she can forward and rewind and just see what she wants. 😆

And kids do not think about the practicalities that go into the movie making. They live in the fantasy that whatever happening on-screen is real and they've their own imagination of how the actors playing on-screen would be off-screen while making the movie. They would literally imagine that they're together always just like they're seeing the characters on-screen. And they can't even see anything beyond. As kids it's what they're and as adults the adults have to understand or at least try to understand their mental state. And believe me they'll grow up to learn in their own sweet time.😉

And let's face it. The actors need the attention of their fans.. They want to be in the limelight. It's these crazy fans that make them popular, famous, idols and big celebrities. It's these crazy fans that dedicate their time and money to do things and indulge their idols in getting trended, win online polls, receiving gifts, etc..😉

One way or the other it's the fans that make the status of the celebrity with their number games and help them score high on their pay packages. It's all from the fans' personal life that these celebrities relish upon the benefits and when it comes to their personal life they can always choose what they want to show.. That is if they thrive on their popularity and want to benefit from it.🤪

They can choose to keep it such a way what they show is in alignment with the sensibility and sensitivity of their fans because they ask for their fans attention with their publicity. And what they show is not liked by the fans and things turn out to be different than their expectations then how they even draw line here saying it's their personal life and ask the fans to stay out of it...😕

Celebrities sure don't have a private life if they don't keep their private life private.. If they share it in public then they better be prepared to face its consequences. One can't draw lines for fans' craziness... If they themselves don't know to draw the lines between their personal and professional lives then how can they expect their crazy fans to know that...

When they can enjoy their crazy attention and craze for them then they can also enjoy the crazy rage and obsession as well.😆.

And if we claim to be the matured fans here then we shouldn't play the advocates for neither the actors nor the crazy fans. It's between them and let them handle it. We just hope both learn their lessons and grow up.😃

Let's make peace with our own FD.. 😆

Safe me and sane me ! I have never invested much in any actors and made an emotional connection . That really drives you crazy and urges you to do stupid things . I am really happy I never involve myself with off screen of actors. Sometimes even if you are calm and matured too it's others comments which intrigues you and you just go with the flow . That's a normal psychology . Most people who have bashed him might not be even knowing what is the exact issue . Just a mob mentality . Slitting your wrists is really sick . This is high level of obsession . I dunno what to comment on that . I just felt sick on hearing that . Zain is not 5 year old to bruise his hands for being bashed .

i never get attach to any actor but its his character thats doing the magic...n appreciate actor's hard work n performance that is making the character more lively...n agree with push pull...that if actors want their private life private they should not post their personal stuff on social media...

A lot of these incidents that have taken place lately are a direct result of the unrealistic expectations of fans. Their uncalled for interference etc. While I think Nalini and co's behaviour bordered on immature, one thing is a fact, people need to understand what is Real and what is Reel! Fans need to understand they cannot dictate the terms of an actors life. They don't choose their friends to please fans. They can't cut loose people who have been in their lives to please fan's either. Frankly I would not respect them if they did. Even if fan's don't like said people, they should stand by them! That is what a real friend / partner would do. This applies to both Zain and Aditi! Zain's friend Nalini and Aditi's BF/ Ex BF Shreedan?

One thing we need to understand, Zain and Aditi do not need to be great friends, date, or fall in love to do a good job as Neil and Avni. It is their job to act and they are doing a great job of it. The rest is just unnecessary drama and white noise. Yes it's nice if the co-actors are friends, great if they fall in love and get married (if they are in that stage of their life). But just like we don't become great friends with every work colleague, we don't fall for or marry every work colleague, the same applies here! WHY can't people just get this? It's no different for actors. The only difference is that we don't go to work and get paid to Pretend to be in love with our work colleague, but these people do! That is the ONLY difference!

Aditi gets on well with her work colleagues. She works hard and she is loved by them. She may not spend all her down time with them, but that doesn't mean she is anti-social. Zain is more social and maybe he over shares on SNS. Personally I know people like that too! You live and learn. It's not the end of the world! Nalini may wear too much make up, but she is probably a nice person and her friends like her. So clearly they will defend her. Hanging out with Zain should not subject her to abuse and if I was Nalini I would expect my friend / friends to stand by me too! Not leave me to be bashed.

Stop harassing and judging these people. They are human too, and bullying can affect their mental health. Being famous does not make you exempt from having feelings. They feel pain too. I am not saying I am sorry for celebrities, I am just saying respect is a TWO way street. Given them respect, and you will be respected back too!

Just because fans want AdiZa together as a couple they can't dictate their lives as of whom to be friends with and whim to hang out / be in relationship . I had read comments on Nalini . They were so atrocious and demeaning . Any sane human being will lose their patience if they constantly keep reading such comments . If I were her I would have given left right and center . It involved Zain too . So if he supports what is wrong . Or if Jahan does it's really not wrong . I would have expected someone support me .Fans really had to learn that they can't dictate celebrity's life just coz they are their fans . Also we never know what happens in sets to jump into conclusions about Zain / Aditi lying . It's just fans must act more mature . Celebrity life is the toughest of all .

Originally posted by: Push-pull

I'm no fan of any actor personally.. Just enjoy the actor's skills on-screen as the character and how they put those efforts to live as the characters making them look real and make the fans go gaaga over them...😳

Just the post of TM and the comments in this thread interested me and so thought of adding my own not so valuable cents.. 😆

I remember an incident where I went for a movie with a kid. The kid likes the hero for his dance and style. During the movie anytime the hero is not on the screen she goes non-stop asking "Where is he? Where is he?"😆 Till he comes on-screen she continues the same. She's not interested in the movie but her interest is limited to the actor and she's there in the theater to just see him. That's all for the kid and she's just being a kid.😆

Yeah I learnt my lesson to not take her to any theaters. Put on TV so she can forward and rewind and just see what she wants. 😆

And kids do not think about the practicalities that go into the movie making. They live in the fantasy that whatever happening on-screen is real and they've their own imagination of how the actors playing on-screen would be off-screen while making the movie. They would literally imagine that they're together always just like they're seeing the characters on-screen. And they can't even see anything beyond. As kids it's what they're and as adults the adults have to understand or at least try to understand their mental state. And believe me they'll grow up to learn in their own sweet time.😉

And let's face it. The actors need the attention of their fans.. They want to be in the limelight. It's these crazy fans that make them popular, famous, idols and big celebrities. It's these crazy fans that dedicate their time and money to do things and indulge their idols in getting trended, win online polls, receiving gifts, etc..😉

One way or the other it's the fans that make the status of the celebrity with their number games and help them score high on their pay packages. It's all from the fans' personal life that these celebrities relish upon the benefits and when it comes to their personal life they can always choose what they want to show.. That is if they thrive on their popularity and want to benefit from it.🤪

They can choose to keep it such a way what they show is in alignment with the sensibility and sensitivity of their fans because they ask for their fans attention with their publicity. And what they show is not liked by the fans and things turn out to be different than their expectations then how they even draw line here saying it's their personal life and ask the fans to stay out of it...😕

Celebrities sure don't have a private life if they don't keep their private life private.. If they share it in public then they better be prepared to face its consequences. One can't draw lines for fans' craziness... If they themselves don't know to draw the lines between their personal and professional lives then how can they expect their crazy fans to know that...

When they can enjoy their crazy attention and craze for them then they can also enjoy the crazy rage and obsession as well.😆.

And if we claim to be the matured fans here then we shouldn't play the advocates for neither the actors nor the crazy fans. It's between them and let them handle it. We just hope both learn their lessons and grow up.😃

Let's make peace with our own FD.. 😆