Such COLD response in Zain's Live session.....

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I just cannot believe...till now everyone was so Happy and looking forward to having Live session with Zain on Insta (though i personally was not interested) and when he actually came live on it...fans were not that excited. Maybe due to yesterday's incident and even Zain sounded more doing damage control...Except few people who asked him to take their name which happens always (ketki made fun of that too) and others appreciating his look(when he will start fixing his hair and get distracted) and then his own friends Abhilash and Abhishek were talking...rest nothing major fans asked or expressed, except one person who asked his take on Nalini's comment and Zain kept clearing his point...it was so lame.

As i read somewhere where some fan told Ketki and she asked him to do a session but he sounded very unapologetic...nobody is telling who you should date or hang out with but "your so called friend since ages" should not pass remarks on your fans...What is Nalini's own claim to fame? And DD passing remarks that she is most beautiful girl and not a Naagin...OMG!! that was such bad taste...

Even Aditi gupta was called Naagin during Ishqbaaz but she took it with a pinch of salt and laughed off...never went on record to snap at fans...thats called maturity and being in business and knowing how to handle...even they made a joke about it and made Anika call her nagin in the show.

Also who is Gulfam to inform that Zain will be doing live session...like seriously!! uski mummy hain, badi behan ya official spokesperson?? kya hain

I really feel Zain does not realize but he is surrounded by bunch of people who are gaining on his popularity and getting visibility, instead of doing something on their own...
I really feel bad for Zain, he has capability of rising high but people around him are not the correct influence on him. And even today in Live chat he kept on saying please respect we have our personal life and can make our own choices...dude u r not understanding...but koi nahi he will learn the hard way...like yesterday's incident.

Firstly they LIE in interviews both Aditi and Zain (i was so heartbroken when i heard that in one interview- since then I lost interest in watching their interviews, sab jhooth and fake hoga, pretending for the camera and PR/marketing for your serial), then they do all this and snap back at FANS...dude, if you or your "so called friend from ages" cannot handle being in public light then please go off the social media, don't post pics or insta stories...you share it and show your offscreen moments on Insta, twitter or FB, to show to your Fans only, right? because with your own friends, you can DM them personally or whatsapp them...then why are you blaming the fans...Fans only know what you want them to know. You use social media for your popularity but you can't handle the criticism...
Learn to act properly and handle things maturely on social media and don't blame fans for such fiascco... long way to go dude...Disappointed.

But because of all this his Live session was so COLD...Sad...itne intezaar ke baad, maze bhi nahi aaya...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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At first I wasn't going to reply, but I'm honestly sick and tired of this unnecessary bashing of actors. First of all, gulfam is an experienced and senior actor who neither you or other people who are calling themselves fans of zain on social media should be talking disrespectfully about. All she was doing was informing that zain said that he is coming live because she cares about him, not because she's being his mother or publicist.

Nalini is his friend, and zain and nalini should be able to hang out with each other without being bashed or judged. The comments against nalini have been atrocious just because people can't digest her and zain's friendship, which is why she has been acting immaturely in response by baiting fans on social media. Why? Because she is human and obviously gets affected by unnecessarily insensitive comments about her and just because one celebrity treats bashing sportingly doesn't mean that every celebrity will have the same response to negativity. They're humans, not robots with all the exact same characteristics and made to behave all the same. Nalini has tried to ignore these comments of zain's immature so-called fans who have been using derogatory words for her just because she is friends with zain, and she's obviously ran out of patience and understanding for such demeaning comments. It's not easy to cope with so much hate. The bashing that celebrities put up with is more intense and unbearable than school bullying, yet they put up with it a lot, and at some point they can no longer bear it, so they act out obviously.

And about aditi and zain supposedly lying... just as long as they aren't committing any crimes or doing anything morally wrong in my eyes as well as doing their jobs, I don't give a shit whether they lie in their interviews or fake their bond, because clearly they are two different people who see one another as work colleagues and nothing else who they have mutual respect for. I'm not expecting them to be best friends or start dating just to fulfill fan's demands. Why do we forget that acting is their job, and throughout their career they have different co-stars and they can't exactly form a bond with every one of their co-stars that translates off sets? Do all of us non-actors hang out with our work colleagues outside of work? No! So why expect the same from actors?
Edited by sammy17 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes SRK is a big star and a gentleman
but even then fans bash his teenager daughter like anything, calling her ugly and manly and what not.
he will stand up for his daughter. He has also asked fans and media to stop hounding his youngest son.
the point is that what right fans have to bash his daughter like that and why should he take it.
I have seen him use sarcasm many times to bring his point forward.
he may handle all that more maturely.

but there should be some expected decency from the fans too.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Zain's live chat was unexpected not many knew he was coming live and the chat only lasted like ten minutes. It wasn't cold to me, it was exactly what you would expect with majority of fans just saying hi and say my name it is something they always do. Zain's friends joining in that is nothing new, during Poonam's live chat her friends did the same even Aditi joined in for fun. I see nothing wrong with that.

In regards to Zain clearing the air can you blame him? I saw the hate on IG it was uncalled for, yes him and the rest of the cast behaved immature by heeding to the haters but fans were going too far. I found it ridiculous this morning when they saw his update from sets and said look he hurt himself because of what happened last night, no he hurt himself because he is a professional who was giving his all for the shot.

About Jahaan, what was in bad taste to pick up for Nalini? While I don't like that they paid heed to the haters I would not call what he did in bad taste, he was just speaking up for a friend like Ketaki and Aditi did when Poonam kept being called names.

Seriously I don't get the hate against Zain and Aditi and why their off screen relationship is scrutinized so much. If you watch their latest IVs it is clear they have come a far way from where they once were, they do share a great rapport which reflects what is shown on screen why can't that be respected? There is so much assumption that Aditi does not get along with the cast off screen but that could not be further from the truth, her co stars adore her and she is shown hanging out with them from time to time so let them be. It has become too much now how this cast is being judged, when they are wrong they are wrong but fans are no less. Zain and Jahaan showed their appreciation to fans, just let them be.

I've had enough of the drama first Aditi now Zain, they both have their flaws but they are not bad people. I am sure they have learned from their mistakes this year.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think it was damage control. Even if it was, what is such a big deal? it is his image, he can do things to save it. It was rather sweet. He was not obligated to come live, bit he did to clear out things for his fans. That must be because some part of his did care enough. I think we as fans should take a step back from zain and concentrate on neil. After such a long time, finally ,good things are happening on the show. Let's bask in that glory rather than petty things.
<3

Edited by Globetrotter_me - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes agree
He did care enough to come and clear the air.
It was nice of him.
And he was appropriate in how he handled it.

Aditi and zain are good to each other as co starts and loved by everyone on the sets
That is good enough
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Gulfam Mam didnt post anythin on behalf of Zain..A fan asked her whn Zain wil b online,to tat she replied soon..Wats wrong in that..She isnt being motherly or anythin..Shes his friend so wats wrong in sayin..Whn the so called fans can ask abt him and Aditi or talk ill abt Nalini on her posts ,why cant she ans for Zain..A few have crossed all limits and spoken so so bad about Nalini..These so called fans have totally forgotten tat she is also a gurl jus like them..They have been passin really bad comments on her which they arnt supposed to..Actually i appreciate Jahaan for talkin for her..Actually i wont even say he shud have spoken on another day..He did stand up for his friend..actually he stood up for a gurl..N he has done it rite..Like Sammy mentioned this is worse than school bullyin..Jus becoz we dnt want Zain to hangout wit them we dnt have any rite to give personal digs @them..There r a few who r sayin nasty things as to why Gulfam Mam hangs out wit Zain instead of her hubby..Wat is wrong wit these ppl..How can u say such things to a woman..These fans call Barkha aunty too and dnt like Zain hangin out wit her..Who r we to dictate his life..When his family doesnt have any objection in whom he hangs out wit who r we to say anythin..Regardin the Chat,there r stars who choose not to give any clarification on their relationship status..If zain wanted he cud have ignored tat question on live last nite, instead he choose to answer..He doesnt need to give an explanation to us tat Nalini is jus a friend..Like i said he owes tat explanation to only his Parents n himself..Instead this man was clarifyin to us tat they r friends..Instead of appreciating the fact if there a few who stil complain,cant help thm..N there were a few who msged Jahaan yesterday tat we can make their careers n break thm..Wat did Jahaan do..He jus stood up for Nalini..Today on live Jahaan said that they do acknowledge tat its coz of fans they r there..Even if Ketki wudnt have asked him to come live,he wud have definitely come..A few complained tat he hurt his hand coz of yesterdays incident..Why wud he do such a thing..He doesnt need too..There r a few who said he lied he was sick..Why wud he lie yaa..Wat is he gaining from lieing jus to avoid a few mins live chat..Like another friend posted here,there is a limit for negitivity,and whn it crosses the line..we tend to get hurt and Nalini is human too..Wud we keep quiet and not feel bad if someone said really bad things to us on a personal level..Im sorry not tryin to offend any1 here..Its jus tat we got to respect another woman
N regarding Aditi n Zain acting for the cameras during Intvs..Like really?How do we know..Have either of us visited the sets or know them personally..If they were acting why wud Zain b @ her bday party havin fun..They share a professional relationship..They dnt hang out together but tat doesnt mean they hate each other..It is actually nice they dnt hang out together otherwise these so called fans wil make it more worse for them mayb..The whole cast adores Aditi,but its jus tat this gurl hardly parties and mayb she prefers being home and Zain is the opposite..How can we blame them for their personal choices..We dnt even know Barkha or any1 of Zains friend personally,how can we say hes in bad company..
We being women shud learn to respect other women..Period.
Edited by rosyanjalii - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy17

At first I wasn't going to reply, but I'm honestly sick and tired of this unnecessary bashing of actors. First of all, gulfam is an experienced and senior actor who neither you or other people who are calling themselves fans of zain on social media should be talking disrespectfully about. All she was doing was informing that zain said that he is coming live because she cares about him, not because she's being his mother or publicist.

Nalini is his friend, and zain and nalini should be able to hang out with each other without being bashed or judged. The comments against nalini have been atrocious just because people can't digest her and zain's friendship, which is why she has been acting immaturely in response by baiting fans on social media. Why? Because she is human and obviously gets affected by unnecessarily insensitive comments about her and just because one celebrity treats bashing sportingly doesn't mean that every celebrity will have the same response to negativity. They're humans, not robots with all the exact same characteristics and made to behave all the same. Nalini has tried to ignore these comments of zain's immature so-called fans who have been using derogatory words for her just because she is friends with zain, and she's obviously ran out of patience and understanding for such demeaning comments. It's not easy to cope with so much hate. The bashing that celebrities put up with is more intense and unbearable than school bullying, yet they put up with it a lot, and at some point they can no longer bear it, so they act out obviously.

And about aditi and zain supposedly lying... just as long as they aren't committing any crimes or doing anything morally wrong in my eyes as well as doing their jobs, I don't give a shit whether they lie in their interviews or fake their bond, because clearly they are two different people who see one another as work colleagues and nothing else who they have mutual respect for. I'm not expecting them to be best friends or start dating just to fulfill fan's demands. Why do we forget that acting is their job, and throughout their career they have different co-stars and they can't exactly form a bond with every one of their co-stars that translates off sets? Do all of us non-actors hang out with our work colleagues outside of work? No! So why expect the same from actors?


Very well said Sammy..Gulfam mam has years of experience and she doesnt need to use Zains popularity..Barkha has her own popularity too..Actually al his grp have acheived everythin on their own..They wont get roles jus becoz they r Zains friends..No producer is gona shell out money on them coz they r Zains friends..Why cant this b understood.
Edited by rosyanjalii - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What did Zain & Aditi lie about?

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