You need slap not lollipop - Page 3

Originally posted by: CaputDraconis

You've watched the original right? Reserve your hatred for the future😆

I've seen this kind of behavior in close quarters. My cousin lost her mom when she was 13 and she was dead against my uncle getting married again. I kind of understand where Nihal is coming from at this juncture.

Originally posted by: CaputDraconis

I know the actress is so catastrophically and comically bad😆She seems like a 15 y/o and not 18 in real life. I hope she improves. Even the actress in the original was hella annoying!

But on paper, I empathize with her plight. I have seen how some kids get psychologically affected after losing their moms at such a young age especially my cousin as I've stated above. Her line of reasoning went like "if you (her dad) can so easily think of replacing mom with another woman, then you never loved her in the first place." After this bombshell, my uncle dropped the idea and he's been single ever since. My cousin is 21 now and goes to one of the top schools in her country.These kinds of action can be easily judged by a bystander but I think only if a person has felt the loss, can he or she be cognizant of how damaging it can be; how there are things that are easier said than done (as cliche as it may sound)

Originally posted by: RishuDarling

Usually, we think the eldest child would respond more mature than the youngest. But actually, Roshni has perhaps suffered the most (from the children's perspective). She was old enough to remember her mother. To feel her love, and at the same time the grief during her sickness. The hospital period might have traumatized her quite a bit. There seem to be some age difference between the two children, which means Roshni has had her parents full attention for a long time. Being the center of attention is something she is used of and... The rest in the house has also gotten used to that.

Inspite the annoying personality of Roshni, I think Anant is also responsible for her behavior. Understandable, but he has created this little clingy drama queen. To deal with their grief, they found comfort with each other's presence. But at some point Anant should have given her the tools, the encouragement to get out there and become more independent. She might be 17/18 biologically but her mental age is closer to 15.

She doesn't get out of the house without anyone accompanying her. I think, Anant loved also that feeling of being the only man in her life, her comfort zone, her rock. Most girls see their dad as their hero and daughters are daddy's princess. But here something went wrong and now it seems almost too late to change.

She searches for comfort in the middle of the night and end up with Rehaan. Not her Massi. Her brother is too young. She knows her hero dad will has to divide the attention soon and instinctively she has found herself another hero she feels comfortable with.

I do find it strange that nobody in the family has raised any questions about Ahana's motive. Maybe I missed it. I only saw Rehaan wondering why Ahana wants to marry someone twice her age.

Yes... To me she is annoying as hell. But I suppose the actress is doing a good job then.