Originally posted by: complication
you all know that i'm a total kavyaite but lately i have just wanted to kill him, but today... i don't know, i kinda felt bad for him. he had all this pent up anger that came out. i do think that he wants it to be his child and for everything to be better again, but doesn't want to get hurt again either and so he doesn't trust as easily as he once did.
i'd feel for him too, if he would
first demonstrate that he was a homo sapien with a brain, spinal-cord and heart and
second stop being such a silly liar.
let us all please remember that he has stated in court, in front of god and the country, the entire justice system, and recorded for history that anjali's child is not his. he came out as a ridiculous liar when he said he always felt deep down inside that the child was his! i do not believe him. he was faking it.
if i think about the psychology of kavya long enough, i can draw a character sketch of a weak-brained, weak-willed person, or of a emotional manipulator worthy of being nitya's son.
think about it: he heard that anjali has asked to put yug's name down as the father. why the hell didn't he just crawl away?? i could say (in the second character sketch) he came into her room to cause emotional trauma to anjali. he knows that anjali loves him desperately and that whatever he said would hurt. he has seen her go to pieces and withdraw the paternity suit when he made his royal declaration in court. and he comes in to bring that up again? this is not the action of a weak-willed person, but a nitya-style manipulator!
also, i think that he feels guilty as hell for having been such a brain-dead person in the past: for having thrown anjali out without really hearing her out. for having married pammi. for having had sex with pammi. this guy then comes and takes out that guilt on anjali? when she's in hospital? what kind of a guy is this??
by this time, every atom of pity that i could've felt for kavya had vanished. i'd have felt sorry for him, if he had heard anjali and then walked away. that would at least be manly. he was craven enough to come and take out that anger on her.
that was despicable. so i am one of those on this post who say "good for anjali" for getting back at kavya. i just wish that she had kept her cool, thought of a better way to get back at him, without needing to involve a yug whose emotions are the price to pay.
(even here, i'm not that sorry for yug! check out another post on which i thought through the yug angle where i said:
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=118653
"and btw, i don't feel any sorrow on yug's behalf in this. he's in love with her. he's the smartest guy in the show along with nitya and anjali. he's walking into this with his eyes
wide open. i trust his character to bear this situation better than kavya. go yug.")
kavya can look as cute as hell crying, or showing hurt, with or without cute emotional background music - today he was despicable to anjali in the hospital. i'll take his picture and pin it up on my cupboard, or have it as a screen-saver on my machine. but love this guy, live with this guy? fuhggedaboudit! đ
whew! needed to get that out, i think. d'you think that eventually i'll get as bad as kavya??! gee, i hope not! đ -esther
Edited by estee - 20 years ago